What is the appeal of “daddies?”

[Nightowl]

Why do most RM provider profiles list “daddy” in their “into” list?  Is it a set of appealing physical characteristics, a set of desireable behaviors, or something else entirely?  What say you?

 

[+ ApexNomad]

37 minutes ago, Nightowl said:

Why do most RM provider profiles list “daddy” in their “into” list?  Is it a set of appealing physical characteristics, a set of desireable behaviors, or something else entirely?  What say you?

 

A topic near and dear to my heart. LOL I love a daddy, though some days I feel more like a granddaddy myself. 😂 Why providers list it, I can’t say. For me, whether as a client or in my personal life, a daddy is a mix of both. Sure, the physical presence is appealing, but what really resonates is the behavior: that grounded blend of authority, steadiness, and care. Age can play a role, but for me it’s more about the energy someone brings into the dynamic.

[+ nycman]

Daddies are warm, caring, gentle, established, confident, supportive, experienced, fun, adventurous…what’s not to like?

Sound like most the losers you meet in WeHo on a Friday night?

No?…..that’s the point. 

[mike carey]

2 hours ago, nycman said:

Daddies are warm, caring, gentle, established, confident, supportive, experienced, fun, adventurous…what’s not to like?

Sound like most the losers you meet in WeHo on a Friday night?

No?…..that’s the point. 

Short, succinct. And serious. Again.

Grin

[marylander1940]

Daddies (older men whether they're childless or not) usually have money if they did things right growing up. 

Not all "daddies" become DILFs.

 

Edited Monday at 02:34 AM by marylander1940

[+ Just Chuck]

There’s a type and attraction to certain older men that get the label daddy. I think a lot of providers are really just inviting older men with disposable income to hire them by listing daddies in the “into” list whether that’s what they’re really into or not.

[maninsoma]

If you're talking solely about escorts, I'd say that including "daddies" in their preferences section is smart if they don't discriminate against clients based on age.  Some older clients are going to use this as a filter so they only see ads from guys who clearly won't make their age an issue.  It's the same thing with "bears."  Maybe a provider isn't that interested in having sex with bears or daddies on his own time, but if he welcomes bears or daddies as clients it's smart for him to indicate that so his ad doesn't get omitted from search results if a client uses either of those as a filter.  Of course I'm sure there are some providers who truly have a thing for daddies -- I have a friend who has always preferred men old enough to be his dad and has even hooked up with some guys old enough to be his grandfather, so I know that there are some men who really are into men significantly older than they are.

[soloyo215]

17 hours ago, Nightowl said:

Why do most RM provider profiles list “daddy” in their “into” list?  Is it a set of appealing physical characteristics, a set of desireable behaviors, or something else entirely?  What say you?

 

Just my experience. The vast majority of the young guys I've been with (hired or hookups) are "too much enthusiasm, too little essence". I don't discard younger guys, but I scrutinize them more when hiring or hooking up, even now when I am their "daddy".

The rest of the daddy thing I just see as a preference the same way that some prefer certain physical attributes or activities.

[+ Charlie]

I suspect they may be looking for a "Daddy Warbycks." (If they are old enough to remember "Little Orphan Annie)

[+ BOZO T CLOWN]

19 hours ago, nycman said:

Daddies are warm, caring, gentle, established, confident, supportive, experienced, fun, adventurous…

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Many are also old, fat, and bald....

BTC
🤡

[+ nycman]

1 hour ago, BOZO T CLOWN said:

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Many are also old, fat, and bald....

BTC
🤡

You take the good
You take the bad
You take them both and there you have the facts of life.

 

[jeezifonly]

It's not necessarily appeal. It's good business. "Into" in an escort profile is not always going to reveal personal appeals the way it would in a personal hookup profile. They list a lot of things.

I say the average age of clients is higher than the average age of providers. By indicating that they're happy to meet with a type of client demographic that skews older, providers are improving the odds that more potential clients will feel they'll be welcome.

Repeat hire depends on  how appealing the client has been made to feel  during the session.