soloyo215

Seems like you already noticed his dental situation. Why the need to examine it further? Don't waste his time or mislead him. If you don't like him, you don't like him, a deal breaker is a deal breaker, for whatever reason.

You really have to be quite stupid or quite narcissistic to think that you can control other people's REALITY. So you want me to say that I had bad experiences in NYC when I didn't, simply because you don't like hearing it. Sure, I can clearly see who's living in fantasy land.

Sure, becaue you are the center of the universe and life in the entire planet revolves around you, your experiences and only your experiences, right? WTF is wrong with people.

Technically yes, but that's something that's best handled privately. This forum has private messaging. You can use it to reach out to people here.

It is far-fetched. Looks simple to you, but: This is not a recognized industry, in fact, in many countries is quite punishable by law It can be as discriminatory as it is now, so it will not solve any problem The current prices vary based an a wholoe lot of factors, not just what the provider will be serving (or how or from where in his body) It's not possible to force providers to have fixed prices. It's not like the price of milk that it's controlled by law Most importantly, it is perfectly fine that way it is now and has been since the beginning of humanity; there's no need for it Just my thoughts, not law.

I have to agree, not only are there many choices for all tastes, but to my surprise, I have never had a bad experience with a provider in NYC. I visit NYC about once every 3 months, and many times I treat myself. I recommend it.

I have a bigger problem with guys who claim or are "straight". That's an immediate dismiss for me. As for the MAGA thing, I can't care less one way or another. It's not like non-MAGA people are friendly or welcoming to me. BTW, his profile is expired.

Yes, that might be why it exists in Mexico. Americans have created an impossible economy for the middle and working class and then try to blame or shame us, the consumers for it, for some reason. I.e., see the post above mine. Yes, I've heard that some clients leave happier than others, my husband being one of them. I don't look for extras there, as the treatment and the facilities are just wonderful.

I agree about the option being bringing him to you.

I go to the Aqua Spa in Puerto Vallarta. In those facilities: They have space for one to shower, shave and prepare before and after the massage with secured lockers, and properly maintained. They have Rooms exclusively for Vichy showers with dedicated staff for that only. They have a controlled steam room. They have a room for giving men baths. They have several massage rooms with equipment and materials of quality and in pristine conditions. They have reception staff that greet you and manage appointments and payments, in a nice wait area. They are respectful and professional. They have an area for pedicure/manicure and that sort of thing. For years, the facilities have remained spotless, functional and of high quality. They have reasonable prices. What I pay for my treatmens has always been reasonable and affordable. All the masseurs seem trained to give the same customer service experience. I think that their key to success is that everything is completely under their control. They do not allow the clients to rove around the steamroom or other facilities on their own. They ensure that they are used appropriately and for the allotted amount of time that they are paying for. It has the facilities of a bath house but men are not allowed to stay and hang out there. They go for their appointment, get their service, pay and must leave afterwards. I have never gotten any HE there, been going there for years, but my husband has, so there might be some extras offered, but that's far from being the premise of that establishment. I always leave feeling renewed, papmered and well taken care of. An independent masseur might not be able to afford facilities and staff like that, but he can provide the same feeling of safety, neatness, care and an overall good experience. Quality service, extras or not, goes a long way.

I mostly do in-calls, and many times they are traveling providers who have spaces at hotels.

Because I want both Because I don't want just sex Because I don't want a full escort experience, just a quick getting off Because I fucking choose to Questions to you: Why does that bother you? What is your problem with that? Why do you need to analyze this? What is the obsession with labeling and wording things?

Start by getting naked. More seriously, advertising. Make sure that you have a brand and a way of marketing it. This service can be advertised in mainstream social media, if properly done.

I saw it twice, once in 2012 and then in 2023. In 2023 there were talks about the church being "almost done", and back then they expected it being finished in 2027. Seems like they finished ahead of schedule. It is super impressive, though I find its details outside to be too much to look at, they have nativities scenes, christmas trees, scenes from several bible stories and a lot of other christian symbols. They cannot be appreciated from afar, but when you get closer your get overwhelmed with the so many details. Gaudi sounds like he was not exactly an easy person to work with (he actually lived in that church for some time while being built to ensure things went as he envisioned them), but the end result is (IMO) a masterpiece. Worth the effort, I guess. To me this is another excuse for me to return to Barcelona.

I didn't say anything about the reasons, they can be perfectly legitimate. The provider can be super good looking, great and professional. That's all valid, and I respect that. This is just my personal preference, that's how I decide to conduct business, might make exceptions in the future, but it is my prerogative how I choose.

True.

I skip profiles without face pictures altogether, so I don't have a reason to ask for a face picture. If he has something to hide, he also has something to tell.

Yes, I have my own strategy, and it was criticized for for some reason (well, it's online, so I'm not sure why I was surprised). Anyway, I don't blast a group of potential clients at once, but I reach out to no more than three. Since I never do "available now", I have time to sort out who I'll be meeting and where. I also try to make each message as personalized as possible to show that I actually read their profile. Some providers here, and some clients, told me that I waste their time if I message more than one because there will be two who will not do business with me. The reality, however, is that almost every single time I use that strategy, what I get are two or all three who are unable, unwilling or unavailable. Only once I got a positive reply from more than one of the three I reached out. That means that my strategy works. As for communication, I have my own personal preferences in how I like the provider to conduct himself in that initial conversation; some things do it for me, some don't. I tend to use a friendly tone and avoid being "all business". Then there have been a few replies that have been quite off-putting, giving me a list of "requirements" or in a tone that doesn't inspire trust (I mostly do in-call). Something that I don't do is spend an excessive amount of time looking, browsing or looking for my next adventure. I feel tempted to do that, but I am mature enough to know that it's not in my best interest to go down that path.

I think it depends. I have some friends and acquaintances that I just can't fathom having that kind of experiences with any of them. Then there are others that I can easily see going beyond the awkwardness.

I also noticed that his RM profile shows his location in Caracas. MF shows him in NYC. With the way things are in Venezuela now, I'm sure he's in NYC. I have him in my list for my next trip to NYC.

I have not experienced a provider that uses completely different photos. I have experienced providers who look a little older or a little heavier than what is shown in the profile. I didn't have a problem with those in particular because they still looked fuckable, so I let it slide. However, to one of them I did mention that he should update his pictures, though I framed it stating that the way he looks now is as good (and IMO I didn't lie). I've had terrible experiences with providers who do look as advertised, but the experience wasn't, let's say, too professional. I've mentioned in the past that one masseur had people passing through the room where we were, killing the vibe completely, and others who recorded me without permission. Then there's a creepy guy I saw once that scared me. My point is that I am willing to let it slide if the difference in appearance is not a mood killer, or if the guy still looks attractive to me. I will not let it slide if it's a completely different person (that has never happened to me), but it's more important to me to have a good overall experience and the setting (and not being recorded without permission).

Nope.

Not a deal breaker to me. Neither like nor dislike them.

Depends. It's not a rule, I have not rimmed that many masseurs, but done other things to their butts that might require some rinsing afterwards. You got me at "happy start".