Wings246

Well, there's never, ever 100% certainty of anything. I wonder that sometimes, even with the best of intentions, they themselves do not know for sure they are 100% negative on everything. So it's a risk to accept no matter what. For me, it's a decision based purely on a set of risk vs benefit calculations. You can call it no pain no gain, maybe? 🙈 🙉 🙊

May I ask what agency you are using? I only know of RM and I'd love to explore other options.

I'd say if I were a provider and if there's a choice, I'd rather pick a basic, acceptably clean hotel room + basic/cheap restaurant and then have the difference in costs translate into extra tips/bonus in my pocket. At least this is how I feel from a client's perspective.

So far, I have only swallowed from 1 person and 1 person only. Needless to say, he’s my absolute favorite. It’s fair to say he has cast a spell on me. In my mind, the act itself completes my imagination of a real BFE. I still vividly remember how he reacted — a combination of surprise, exhilaration, and ecstasy — when I refused to let go even after he warned me he was about to cum. I guzzled every last drop of it. He even playfully complained that he couldn’t taste any leftovers when he French kissed me afterwards. To me, it is important as a psychological reward for the right person that I have an emotional attachment to. Otherwise, I don’t care for it.

Given the context, and knowing that all the participants are attractive/desirable people, the notion of "happy hour" is extremely alluring, to say the least. Are there happy events after the hour even though it's an "off duty" function? 🤤

The problem is: many people (on both sides) cannot host. We are stranded with no alternatives.

We all know the cost of living in SF is beyond ridiculous and $200,000/year in SF doesn’t REALLY buy you THAT much. That said, $200,000/year may be quite an ambitious goal. Is your $200,000/year estimate a before-tax or an after-tax value? If it’s after-tax, that roughly means you’ll have to make $300,000/year. That’s more or less an income of an executive level position (even in SF). Now, if you don’t plan on reporting anything to the IRS or the CA Franchise Tax Board, then it’s another story for another day.

So he's following the billable hour and travel time concepts adopted by lawyers and other licensed professionals. If that's the case, then I need to see the license as I will have to report to the official licensing board if and when the professional service is not rendered according to the professional standards. I have no qualms about how people run their own business, but people do need to use common sense and adhere to logic. I can't help but wonder who this person is.

If "object" is the perception, then it's understandable why you desire a unilateral experience. I need the interactions and reciprocations. It enhances the illusion of a BFE to the nth power. I lose my mind very quickly when I can sense (or see) that he is turned on by me.

Same day cancellations at the last minute? Due to the same reason? After you spent so much time on preparations? That's not JUST suspicious. I'd have blacklisted that person for good.

Maybe it's a rosary. The cross and the beads can provide plenty of stimulations. Holy Jesus and Mary indeed!

This may require too much backend programming for RM, but it would be nice if a section of "similar providers" will pop up on the bottom of the page after you click on a specific provider. This is similar to shopping on Amazon. There is a section of "customers usually buy these together" or "compare this with the following similar choices". Or simply: "clients who reviewed this provider had also reviewed these other providers". Then you won't have to waste time on endless filtering.

That is quite a strange and counterintuitive pricing structure at first glance. I always thought the difference between in-call and out-call rates is attributed to the travel time & commute/driving costs. That said, I also believe the one who is traveling has more control over the arrangement than the one who is waiting (easier to postpone and/or be late, easier to ditch and/or run away from shady situations, etc.). From a provider’s perspectives, it can be more advantageous to increase the financial barriers for in-calls. Not to mention the risk of inviting a psychopath into your own home and the stress of figuring out how to kick the psychopath out when things go south. Do you call the police? And if so, how do you explain the situation to the cops (if they even care to show up in the first place)?

Hiring is how I had my first-ever sexual experience. I lost my virginity to a provider. I am seriously considering coming out because of these experiences. I'm actively researching how to start dating (for the first time in my life). I'm looking for gay social groups to expand my horizon. I can keep going with this laundry list of changes, but you get the idea. None of these would have happened had I not sent that first text message to a provider.

I'm not sure if this is relevant to the topic, but a few months ago, I made this post: And that's how I read the RM reviews when I'm in the US.