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I didn’t see the point of updating this post every time Ian and I meet up, but I figure after every five or so is good. I met with him yesterday, and that was about the fifth time since my prior post above (we’ve met about 15 times total). I’ll be 63 years old in two months, and I can truly say Ian has proven to be the most perfect fit for me of anyone I’ve ever met, be it professional or personal before I started hiring in 2004. We will have soon known one another for a year, and he has made it one of the happiest years of my life!

I was visiting Houston in September 2024 for an ophthalmologist appointment, so I reached out to him to pursue meeting. He quoted me $300 for an hour, which I agreed to. I gave him the address to the hotel a full eight (8) days prior to our meeting. Nevertheless, one hour before our scheduled meeting, he texted me and stated that, because of the distance he would have to travel (citing that “you’re not in Houston, you’re in Cypress”- an unincorporated part of Houston), he would have to charge an additional $100 (so the rate became $400 for an hour) AND he would require a $100 deposit before he would head my way. I told him we needed to just call it off. He immediately said he would “waive” the additional $100 charge but nevertheless would require the deposit. I told him I do not remit deposits. He responded tersely, “next time stay closer to Houston.” I responded, “Where it concerns you and me, there won’t be a “next time.” There hasn’t been nor will there ever be.

I make an eight-hour (each way) bus ride very frequently to see https://rent.men/Ian_Twink. I just spend two nights at a hotel when I do. I see him on the day in between the days I travel (typically seeing him on a Friday). Also, whenever he is in Houston (like last weekend), I just book a round trip ticket for the same day. Houston is a five-hour bus ride each way, so round trip plus spending an hour with him does make for a long day, but, as far as I am concerned, he is well worth EVERY second of time I spend making my way to him and back because I KNOW I’ll never find anyone else who makes me as happy as he does (and he is THE best I’ve ever found in 22 years)!!

Anybody have anything to report on Trevor Discreet?: https://rent.men/Trevor_Discreet He did change his screen name about five days ago (was Trevor_Pleasure). Thanks.

Just made the trip back to Birmingham for another GREAT time! ChillGND is fantastic at satisfying precisely what I seek from a provider!! He’s also great just to talk with briefly after all the magical fun Is over!!

So he wanted you to adjust your schedule to accommodate him likely not staying in NO that much longer, yet, until today, his profile still showed him in NO. Now the fine folks in Dallas can have the pleasure of corresponding with him 😄: https://rent.men/handsomeboyyy

That’s odd because I did that early on with no issue, and it remains not an issue. Here are the numbers and facts: Most Recent Reviewer (Looper, Las Vegas)): 101 reviews. RM member for 10 years. Second Reviewer (HSVFunGuy, Auburn, AL): 3 reviews. RM member for 8 years. Third Reviewer (Rskavalier, Atlanta): 16 reviews. RM member for 7 years. For that reason, I do think he is legit but off the charts in terms of arrogance! When $1,000 to $1,500 is “not worth my time” when you are (allegedly) already in the same city, that tells me everything I need to know and more!! Though I decline to hire in NO anymore unless it is visitors, I can’t begin to tell you how many visiting providers have said the city is full of “cheapskate clients,” and they’ve told me that they get texts like, “Can I give you a blowjob for $20?” If this guy managed to unearth that kind of money in NO, more power to him, but I know far more revealing profiles of guys who have visited the city and left ahead of schedule to cut their losses!

Actually, what I think transpired is that, sometime between 1/16/26 and now, he changed his screen name. That begs the question of “why?” Only he knows the answer to that question, but we all know that, generally speaking, screen name changes can be a red flag, and we have no way of knowing if that was the first such occurrence. THAT may explain why there is so little of note posted about him on this forum (which I noted at the outset). Had @TJMS not spotted this instance, none of us would have even known about it!

I’m a premium member, and there is no face pic to show. He makes that pretty clear in his ad that you’re basically going to have to go on faith. I infer that from the fact that he says he will do “30-minute faceless video calls,” and his statement of “professional model = no face pic.” I did not reply to his ad because I knew he would view me as small potatoes, but never in a million years would I have thought he would view @PhileasFogg in such a light! In 22 years of hiring, I’ve never seen a reply back to a serious inquiry with that level of arrogance. Ironically, instead of contacting him, I contacted https://rent.men/Jerryxx (he visited my city yesterday) and he is 180 degrees opposite of arrogant and is so polite and appreciative of even small gestures. He and I have now enjoyed two sessions: one last night at his hotel room and another this morning at my apartment as he was making his way to New Orleans. He is nothing short of fantastic in terms of what I’m looking for!!

Just finished round two, and he was absolutely fantastic!!!!!

On a lark, I decided to try adding my VISA account back to see if it just may work. At the end, it said, "payment accepted," and then immediately said, "invalid card." Well, the payment DID go through, and I got a brand new six-month membership at $9.95/month with a discount to $49.95 for taking out a six month premium membership. I mainly wanted to try and get premium membership back so that I could issue a five-star review to https://rent.men/Jerryxx, which I just did. We'll see how it goes on November 8, 2026 when this membership expires, but at least now, I'm good for another six months 😊

He is visiting my hometown tonight, and we just met, and he was absolutely fantastic, so much so that we are going to meet again at my apartment tomorrow morning as he heads to New Orleans! I NEVER have someone who appeals to me to visit my city, so this was a real treat! I just made another eight-hour (each way) bus ride to Austin to visit with Ian last weekend. This outing was all of a 20-minute drive. Talk about two ends of the spectrum in terms of time spent on my end. 😀😀. One of the reviewers on the masseur site said his translator came in handy and was fun. He has very basic English skills, but when we finished, he really wanted to tell me something. He put it in his translator and pressed the play button, and it said, “You are my first customer who has a big smile on his face while having pain inflicted (my turnons are being spanked, worshipping feet, and having my face sat upon). Those three activities are all I ever have done in 22 years of meeting guys, and I “take care of things” once alone again. He was GREAT at all three, and he definitely understood the English of me telling him how hot he is as we did all three, and he said, “thank you.” He is very, very seeet and his text message correspondences before we met were always very courteous and professional. I know I’m not the typical client, but I can assure @francisssgorg that there was nothing boring about the encounter I just enjoyed with this young man, and I look very forward to seeing him again in about 17 hours to do it all over again only this time with me merely having to open my front door and welcome him in!

Anybody have anything to report on this young man: https://rent.men/handsomeboyyy? His RM profile is 3-1/2 years old, so it's a tad perplexing that he's never been mentioned on this forum that I can tell. I put "New York?" in the title only because his ad states: "2 night minimum for travel outside of NYC." Thanks.

Heeeeeeeee’s back!!! https://rent.men/Ian_Twink

I tend to carry it to the extreme and focus on only one provider unless and until something happens that causes that one provider no longer be available. When what used to be my “home market” of New Orleans had great selection 20 years ago, I would often meet with several providers, but since New Orleans became (and remains) a T-Total disaster for what I’m looking for, I started looking for the closest option. Recently, that led me to finding the best provider I’ve ever encountered in my 22 years of hiring, albeit an eight (8) hour bus ride each way. Right now, he’s on a brief hiatus that I hope doesn’t last too much longer 😄.