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I can't speak to ElieVersatile, but TBrady/JockFeet is real as far as i know. He's a member here (not sure how active though) and there are threads on this forum about him with some experiences from other forum members. Both of those profiles are his, i think he explained in the thread one was geared toward foot fetish and the other was a general profile or something like that.

That swimsuit by the pool pic comes from an aspiring model/influencer's Instagram page from about a year ago. It'll come up in reverse image search. Can't say if this RM profile is actually him or if it's someone using that guys pics. The instagram page only has sub-2000 followers. So not someone well known from the looks of it. The other spicier pics on the RM ad seem to be the same guy and those are not on the Instagram profile. So that implies it's either really him, or he got those pics from some other source if it is a catfish. the instagram profile does not link to an OnlyFans or any other profiles, which is where i'd think a catfish would get those other pics from. So maybe probably legit?

We all know where the legal line is, no one's saying you're committing a crime, but i think Kensington is more so getting at the societal line. Or the relative maturity gap. Many people my age (30s) joke about how "i still feel like I'm 20, till i hang out with 20 year olds, then i feel like I'm 40". Along the same line is how many people above a certain age will see or hear about something younger people do or engage in and go "kids these days", even though they're referring to fully grown adults in their 20s or even 30s. Because relative to their older age, the younger person may as well be a kid to them because they are so far removed from them in experiences and maturity, they simply can't relate. But when it comes to physical/sexual interaction, the goal post is conveniently moved and now they're young men who are conveniently so mature and intelligent for their age. So it's interesting to say the least when people pick and choose to infantilize others and when to see them as adults. This is what Kensington is getting at and what is triggering him. He's not seeing how someone that young compared to you doesn't, just by the sheer distance of the age gap, effectively seem like a boy to you. Regardless of their in progress college degree or what ever it may be. What subject they're studying doesn't define their maturity. Their decision making, impulsivity, and other things like that do, and being still so close to their teenage years, there's generally not substantial progress made there yet in most people in their early 20s. What you're doing is obviously legally fine, not really siding with either of you, but what Kensington is saying is very much going over your head or you're ignoring because you're stuck on him perceiving you as creepy.

My understanding of the difference between those terms is this: Group or Orgy: Some gathering of 5 or more guys who all are playing with each other with no real order or specific plan. Group and Orgy are functionally interchangeable, but most seem to use Group for some amount of guys on the lower end and Orgy for when it's a larger group. There's no exact agreed upon cut off to my knowledge. Me personally, threesome is 3 people, foursome is 4 people, a Group is 5 to 10 people. Orgy is 10 or more pretty much. Gangbang: Is generally any gathering of like 5 or more people where all participants are all focused on a main person. Like if you have 6 guys who are all playing with each other, that's a Group. But if you have 6 guys and one of them is a bottom that the other 5 are taking turns topping, that's a Gangbang. However, sometimes some of the other guys in a Gangbang may play with each other (jacking off or oral or frotting or whatever) while waiting their turn with the bottom. So then that leans into Group. There's differentiation but also a lot of overlap.

I have no info on him, but parts of his profile seem suspicious to me. His one review is an account made only a month after the providers account creation date (and it's already deleted or name changed). Provider lists himself as Straight, and half his About Me/Intos is about being into financial domination (getting you to give him money for nothing kink), selling used underwear/socks, and selling photos/videos. It just comes off like a lot of the profiles of guys who don't actually do anything and just want to direct you to their OnlyFans or some other cash grab they do. Who knows though, he could be legit and he just likes to have multiple sources of income 🤷‍♂️. He's super hot though, pics and the other "intos" in a vacuum i'd be super interested in him too.

Yeah it's interesting. You definitely don't have to be rich to do this hobby, but like you alluded to it really depends on what your other financial obligations are in addition to your income. I work full time, have apartment rent, car payment, and student loan debt. But i am in fact fortunate i have a fairly well paying job that also abuses the hell out of me, but pays over time for it luckily. So i have some extra money to do this hobby sometimes, but i do have a limit i can't go past. I'm envious of others who can hire much more frequently then i can too. Long as I'm working and not between projects, i can hire a handful of times a month for an hour or two each, depending on how much extra hours i work. Any time I'm not working or not doing as many hours, this hobby is the first thing i cut back on or pause doing. I know though there are clients here hiring for multiple over nights, weekends, or traveling and taking providers with them for days/weeks at a time. And that's unfathomable to me at my level lol. From both perspectives of having that much money as a client, and from the perspective of being hot enough that someone would spend that much money on you. Attractive people truly live in a different reality than the rest of us.

In my own experience, i haven't done a group more than 3 guys. But the way I've always done it is i either hire all the guys individually myself (and i run it by each of them who the other guys are and make sure everyone's cool). Or i usually have one regular hire who will be participating in the group and i ask him to pick guys for me. He asks other providers he already knows and has worked with before or browses RentMen himself and runs the options by me and i pick from the list. He knows the types of guys i like and it lets him pick guys he's attracted to too or simply can work easiest with. So everybody wins. Pricing depends. The majority of the time i've done group play, all the guys charged the same rate as if i was seeing them solo. But i have had one time where i was putting together the group myself and the second provider i wanted to join my regular and i wanted double his normal rate. So i guess he charges per person involved regardless of if it's clients or fellow providers he's working with. I ended up not having him join.

I never said it was easy. I said it's an option. And one others working in the same field with the same struggles or annoyances can and are making work. It requires creating a system based on analysis of your network and what cities you're working in as you likely know. Have you considered all this attitude you have is part of your struggles? Genuinely. And regarding this: "**And don’t think the escorts you do see traveling together, aren’t in some kind of situation or commitment together ** " Yeah... It's called team work. The ones i was referring to are a group of 10 or so escorts who all live and travel around to different cities who are friends and know they can work with each other and they made a plan and executed it. They keep in touch, group up when they're in the same city, split an AirBnB (not hotel) and they execute the plan. The experience you had with that one guy you described sucks, but that doesn't mean it's impossible to do unless it's someone you're dating. You just have to try again and find people you can trust and work well with.

You don't have to have premium to do it. You have to set your VPN so it appears you are in a different country. You can have a VPN on, but they usually default to a local server and still shows you as being U.S. based, thus RM reviews won't appear. I always change mine to Sweden when i do it.

Yeah this definitely is a good thing to do. I've seen guys who travel together, or know other providers in every big city, and they split an AirBnB and host that way. They split the costs, can all host in separate bed rooms of the house (at the same time even), have an actual kitchen to cook food in. And it makes it easy for them to advertise/offer each other to clients for group sessions. AirBnB i think is often simultaneously more expensive and inconvenient than a hotel these days for an individual non-provider. However, for this specific use case. I could see it being a compelling option for providers.

Yeah, i've seen that guy with at least 4 different names. Can't remember any of them, but he definitely has threads on him here.

I LOVE tattoos. It's an automatic attractiveness boost for me. Especially if they committed to an arm or leg sleeve or a medium-large chest or back piece or something. Or also have lots of cute small tattoos all over. The only ones i can't really find myself being into are face tats if it's more than one or two very small ones (and depending on placement). Or if it's a realistic portrait of a dead family member on their pecs, which I've found to be disproportionately common specifically with latino and hispanic guys. I don't hate it or think it looks bad and i think it's a beautiful gesture. I just don't want to be caressing a guys pecs or be taking it missionary and see the guys relatives looking back at me in the heat of the moment 🤣 As an arachnophobe, i also struggle with the popular trend of arachnid/spider tattoos a lot of young guys get these days.

Maybe changed his profile name? You mentioned he was traveling to Palm Springs. If you set your location to Palm Springs and scroll the profiles you might find him again if he did just change the profile name.

Jude Bellingham is an England/U.K. futbol player. Was very easy to Google it 😉

Not for me. There's almost no one unchecked box that is a deal breaker for me personally if all or even just most other boxes are checked. I'd just find another guy who's known for great oral when I'm really itching for that. In my experience, I've never found one guy that checks more than 3/4ths of my boxes, let alone all but one. So I've mostly just accepted I'll always need at least a couple main guys to collectively cover all my boxes.