Vegas_Millennial

The most I ever charged for an overnight of sex was $150 ($100, plus $50 for the ride home). This was pre-pandemic. I don't advertise to escort, but I'll negotiate a fee when someone approaches me at a bar or pool gathering and I'm not that interested without the money. Unfortunately, I was too busy studying and working a part-time engineering job during my university years to have time for bars, pools, or other social gatherings; and, I remained a virgin until after graduating from university.

I don't think anyone likes to be awakened while they are at work.

That's hot🔥 My most memorable hookups involved being woken in middle of the night to a finger or tongue, prepping me for what came next. 😈

Yes! And $ is $.

Them's fighting words. I prefer to call someone a human, and not a strange human. The "+" includes the few letters that are left, so all we humans are in that group.

I am not straight or bisexual. Whenever I get my balls and penis waxed, whether by a man or woman, I always get an erection. I also get an erection when disrobed at the doctor's office alone in the room and waiting for the nurse or doctor to come in to examine me, not knowing if the nurse or doctor will be man or woman. I don't want to have sex with these people, yet I get an erection. I'll get an erection when the wind blows and I'm naked, alone, by the pool. Same when I'm close to a water jet in a hot tub. The wind or water jet is neither male nor female, yet it gets me hard! The statement above is akin to saying a gay escort can't get an erection with a client that they are not attracted to. Bologna. Besides, straight men get erections all the time when having sex with their own man hand during masturbation.

Sexual orientation makes absolutely no difference to me. I've had great and poor paid sexual experiences with all three orientations. I do not sort or screen my providers by their orientation. But like @APPLE1 says, we prefer honesty. If you're lying and say "straight" or "bisexual" when you're really gay, just to try to drum up business, your clients will figure it out and not return. You don't need a good memory or need to be a good actor if you don't lie.

As a bottom client, I can feel the difference with a condom and without. I won't hire an escort if he's going to use a condom (I verify in advance if bareback is okay). With a hookup, I don't mind if he uses a condom for whatever reason. I just don't want to pay for that experience.

Actually, a good deal of my time and money is spent voluntarily mentoring kids as a youth activity leader and supporting children all over the world (like some good fathers mentioned earlier). That's part of what makes my lifestyle so rewarding! So far, none of my kids I mentor have come out as gay. I'm not going to spend too much time looking for them amongst the larger families with many older brothers. Although this study (the topic of this thread) does correlate a higher likelihood of gay men in families with older brothers, that is still a very small contributing factor (only around 1-3%) of the total odds of being gay.

In my experience, most male escorts and masseurs charge less in California than they do in most of the rest of the country, especially New York, Virginia, or Florida.

I've only ever had one overnight so far. I paid 250 Euros (200 plus 50 tip) for an overnight in Vienna in 2023. Otherwise, the most I've paid to date is $500 for 2 hours with 2 men (couple) back in 2019.

But that's still a lot of exposure compared to most of the world!

My 2024 gay lifestyle is pretty fabulous. 🤩 My brothers' lifestyles are all pretty nice, but not quite as fabulous.

The last time I hired in San Francisco I saw a few men and paid $150-$200 for 90 minute sessions (all were erotic massages with bareback anal penetration), but this was back in 2018.