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That is really sad to hear that one of their branches is closing. Earlier I went to Prime around 4 pm and requested Kurt. He is still the classic choice in Prime. Still great at giving sensual massages. And although he’s lacking in the *size* department, he definitely makes up for his skill set. I wonder if he can be more “flexible” now. Anybody who had him recently, maybe we can dm and discuss how talented Kurt can be given the current situation of Prime lol! Anyway, to whoever the other customer next door that was with Calvin, it was so quiet and peaceful on your side lol, I apologize for any noise that I made since Kurt was dealing with my nuts… oh knots! We could have just went in the couples room and have some group massage lol

I was about to say THIS.

Had Jason at Ciao yesterday, gave me an update that Prime lost 2 boys in their roster. I wonder who those are.. Anyway...

Whoever had Peter today around 6pm, you have to thank me lol. I should have went earlier or late night instead. I had Peter around 4:30 pm and we finished 5:25. Seems like he's rushing because I didn't know that he had another client after. Don't get me wrong, I enjoyed our session for sure, he is still the best masseur I've had since I entered here in the US, and I can't help it if he have a lot of customers. Let's just say that he reserved his "energy" for the next client after me who's also a Filipino 😅 you owe me details of your session. Dm me 🤣 but yeah, he never ever left me in a massage unsatisfied, I am still beyond satisfied with what I had despite the rush lol 🤣

At least give the OP a benefit of the doubt. Maybe he's too busy to do research and read all 200 plus threads about NY providers. Maybe he's just lazy. But it wouldn't hurt to just mention one provider whom you already have in mind. Just think of it as helping whoever the provider's business 😅

I don’t know what’s the name of this tree/s, or flower, and please don’t judge me for being ignorant abt this but I came from another country, I just know that they bloom every spring season, but yeah, I also wanna know, why do they smell like somebody just jizzed all over the neighborhood or something? Why do they smell like that? I was expecting spring season to smell like flowery or perfumey or like sneezing like hell everywhere lol.

Ok, so this easter, I went for an unplanned spa trip. Just to destress. I just wanna give a shout out to the japanese/korean guy, I think? That I also had an encounter with less than 2 years ago. I’m surprised because he has a really girthy c*ck for an asian guy. That’s why I enjoyed it the first time and today as well. I swear, he looks very much alike with the OF guy Titus low from singapore 🤣. If you are here, HMU. We both came from a spa somewhere in north jersey where the koreans are lol!

I, for one, have never noticed that in hook up apps, primarily because I don’t really use them as much, but whenever I’m seeing asians on grindr or sniffies, I don’t really remember anybody putting “whites only” etc. I think to be honest, it’s more prevalent with straight couples, specifically asian women hunting for white men, not really in gay men community. But anyway, as I’ve said, I barely use those apps so I don’t know if my answer is accurate. But going back, that idea actually I think, was brought about by the westernization of some asian countries. Main stream media or tv etc., have taught asian countries and some other non western countries that the “ideal standard” is the western culture. Whether it’d be food, people, material things like cars, business brands etc. Like for example, in common porn sites, you would always find a lot of white men or western porn content options. You barely can see any other ethnicities unless you specify the search. It boils down to “western is the standard”. At the risk of getting bashed, I would use the word “glorifying” that standard too much. That’s why asian people think choosing the white/western option is the best option. But again, if that’s their preference, then people don’t have the right to incriminate them for it. Same way as white men prefer only other white men, it’s preference, so nobody should ever relate that to racism. Side note: again, just to reiterate, the topic and the OP (me) NEVER intended to present the idea of racist or RACISM. None of those words were entered in the post. The question/observation is to enlighten asian gay men/asians in general as to why westerners PREFER other westerners MOST of the time. NOBODY IS ATTACKING ANYBODY ❤️ have a blessed day 🤗

I don't consider it as a negative experience now. Initially, I felt bad for myself. But overtime, I realized and I know for a fact that I have tons of other options. And thank you for your answer. These types of answers are the ones I am looking for. Non judgmental.

Peter is back from China, just in case anybody wants to get him 😘

Anyway, thank you to those who answered the question directly. I appreciate those answers that the intention was to enlighten the mind of the OP and some other Asians who have the same thought. It’s not just me in general. I’ve encountered other Asian gay men who lives here in the US as well. Some of them have the same sentiment as well. It has also been featured in some public articles whether online or not. And if you misinterpreted this question/observation, it reflects back to you, your mindset and personality overall. No need to be defensive because I never meant this topic to be offensive AT ALL. If you got offended, I apologize, but also, WHY would you get offended in the first place? And there’s no need to undermine a lowly user of this forum, which was created to be a safe space for us I believe. Throw in more of those sarcastic responses, I will consider it as YOU and your opinion. I definitely, still appreciate it 🙏

And just before this topic gets steered into RACISM, again, please read my post. I never ever stated RACIST/RACISM in my honest question/observation. I was simply asking (in summary) as to why MOST westerners choose other westerners as well. And I just simply specified that most of the time, they exclude ASIANS in their option. Which is completely fine, I just wanna know why they don’t “prefer” us. P-R-E-F-E-R.

Before commenting, try to dissect first what the OP had written. I specifically said “I respect preferences”. And I NEVER wrote the words “RACIST/RACISM”. This is about getting the opinion of western men/specifically gay men as to why is it that they prefer other western men. Whether it’d be white, or blacks or latinos who are born here or in some other western countries, and choose another westerner… this question is made out of curiosity. Side note: it’s the second time you attacked a topic I created when all I did was to ask an honest question with no derogatory statements whatsoever. Yeah, your profile fits you. You really are a clown 👍

I’m good with my mouth lol🤣🤣 and we like worshipping too… using our mouths lol

Just curious, why is it that the least attractive guys for gay community in western world are asians? Like 60-70% would already back out if they learned that the person is asian, especially with gay guys. I was on reddit earlier this morning, just killing time, when I responded to a topic about gay guys who love watching cfnm instead of cmnm, which is a weird topic, I know. But to make it short, I do watch cfnm sometimes and I like it better than cmnm in some instances but I always concentrate on the guy. So then I got a message in the chat section from an anonymous redditor and he initiated the conversation about liking cfnm despite being a gay guy. I said I live in the States and he said he's from Spain. We weren't hitting on each other and it's gonna be awkward if we do since we're both anonymous users. We just found a common ground. As I was telling some of my kinks other than cmnm, in my responses, I always mention "back in my country" and when he asked, which country, I said Philippines. That's when he stopped chatting. Lol.. This is probably the third or fourth time it happened to me on reddit, and one time I got blocked even, after I mentioned I'm Asian. Sometime ago, when I was on vacation in Seattle, I was looking for cruising spots in the area, and whenever I mention where I'm originally from, it's like an instant auto block. I respect preferences. But sometimes, it hurts our confidence and our insecurities are heightened. Disclaimer, I won't consider myself as a physically attractive asian guy, but there are millions of really hot asian guys in the world and they are missing out 🤣. Gay guys from western countries, their common asset is that they're packing down there. Yes, bless their genetics lol! But you know, being an asian sized guy, I believe that we have to double our efforts to showcase our "skill sets". There's a lot of verse asian guys for starters. Also, we satisfy a lot of kinks that some big dicked western guy are clearly lacking. No offense, but I've experienced a lot of lazy tops, whether it'd be whites, blacks, latinos or whatever... They thought, "oh we have a big equipment, we don't need to put on a whole show, they would just worship me and work around it" oh please. But anyway, I'm not saying all of them are, but mostly. Anyway, those are just my two cents. If they don't wanna, it's fine. And for those who I had an encounter with, thank you, I hope you are satisfied with my vacuum powered, washing machine like mouth 🤣 I have a killer head game, I believe. If I could just eternalize those guys words and moanings 🤣