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Interested ❤️ will be going to Chicago by September for the first time and I'm hoping to get a good "massage" from a spa there. Any details would be appreciated or you can DM me 🙏

Tried Shawn just an hour ago. Decent massage, but not so great ending 😅 maybe I’m always unlucky with this spa and needs to move on with another lol

Went to EZ men spa yesterday. One, because it was the only men spa open at 10pm that can drive to. Two, I had a decent second encounter before with Kevin. Yesterday they had Kevin or Lee. They said Lee was unavailable so I had Kevin. One of the worst experience of my life.. He's like a cab meter, can't do anything unless you add more and more money. Yeah, find a better one, this place got worse.

Anybody tried EZ men spa in flushing? Had their three masseurs already and they said there is a new one named Lee.. When I asked what does he look like, they didn't send any photos, just that he's "muscular".... Weird lol

That is really sad to hear that one of their branches is closing. Earlier I went to Prime around 4 pm and requested Kurt. He is still the classic choice in Prime. Still great at giving sensual massages. And although he’s lacking in the *size* department, he definitely makes up for his skill set. I wonder if he can be more “flexible” now. Anybody who had him recently, maybe we can dm and discuss how talented Kurt can be given the current situation of Prime lol! Anyway, to whoever the other customer next door that was with Calvin, it was so quiet and peaceful on your side lol, I apologize for any noise that I made since Kurt was dealing with my nuts… oh knots! We could have just went in the couples room and have some group massage lol

I was about to say THIS.

Had Jason at Ciao yesterday, gave me an update that Prime lost 2 boys in their roster. I wonder who those are.. Anyway...

Whoever had Peter today around 6pm, you have to thank me lol. I should have went earlier or late night instead. I had Peter around 4:30 pm and we finished 5:25. Seems like he's rushing because I didn't know that he had another client after. Don't get me wrong, I enjoyed our session for sure, he is still the best masseur I've had since I entered here in the US, and I can't help it if he have a lot of customers. Let's just say that he reserved his "energy" for the next client after me who's also a Filipino 😅 you owe me details of your session. Dm me 🤣 but yeah, he never ever left me in a massage unsatisfied, I am still beyond satisfied with what I had despite the rush lol 🤣

At least give the OP a benefit of the doubt. Maybe he's too busy to do research and read all 200 plus threads about NY providers. Maybe he's just lazy. But it wouldn't hurt to just mention one provider whom you already have in mind. Just think of it as helping whoever the provider's business 😅

I don’t know what’s the name of this tree/s, or flower, and please don’t judge me for being ignorant abt this but I came from another country, I just know that they bloom every spring season, but yeah, I also wanna know, why do they smell like somebody just jizzed all over the neighborhood or something? Why do they smell like that? I was expecting spring season to smell like flowery or perfumey or like sneezing like hell everywhere lol.

Ok, so this easter, I went for an unplanned spa trip. Just to destress. I just wanna give a shout out to the japanese/korean guy, I think? That I also had an encounter with less than 2 years ago. I’m surprised because he has a really girthy c*ck for an asian guy. That’s why I enjoyed it the first time and today as well. I swear, he looks very much alike with the OF guy Titus low from singapore 🤣. If you are here, HMU. We both came from a spa somewhere in north jersey where the koreans are lol!

I, for one, have never noticed that in hook up apps, primarily because I don’t really use them as much, but whenever I’m seeing asians on grindr or sniffies, I don’t really remember anybody putting “whites only” etc. I think to be honest, it’s more prevalent with straight couples, specifically asian women hunting for white men, not really in gay men community. But anyway, as I’ve said, I barely use those apps so I don’t know if my answer is accurate. But going back, that idea actually I think, was brought about by the westernization of some asian countries. Main stream media or tv etc., have taught asian countries and some other non western countries that the “ideal standard” is the western culture. Whether it’d be food, people, material things like cars, business brands etc. Like for example, in common porn sites, you would always find a lot of white men or western porn content options. You barely can see any other ethnicities unless you specify the search. It boils down to “western is the standard”. At the risk of getting bashed, I would use the word “glorifying” that standard too much. That’s why asian people think choosing the white/western option is the best option. But again, if that’s their preference, then people don’t have the right to incriminate them for it. Same way as white men prefer only other white men, it’s preference, so nobody should ever relate that to racism. Side note: again, just to reiterate, the topic and the OP (me) NEVER intended to present the idea of racist or RACISM. None of those words were entered in the post. The question/observation is to enlighten asian gay men/asians in general as to why westerners PREFER other westerners MOST of the time. NOBODY IS ATTACKING ANYBODY ❤️ have a blessed day 🤗

I don't consider it as a negative experience now. Initially, I felt bad for myself. But overtime, I realized and I know for a fact that I have tons of other options. And thank you for your answer. These types of answers are the ones I am looking for. Non judgmental.

Peter is back from China, just in case anybody wants to get him 😘

Anyway, thank you to those who answered the question directly. I appreciate those answers that the intention was to enlighten the mind of the OP and some other Asians who have the same thought. It’s not just me in general. I’ve encountered other Asian gay men who lives here in the US as well. Some of them have the same sentiment as well. It has also been featured in some public articles whether online or not. And if you misinterpreted this question/observation, it reflects back to you, your mindset and personality overall. No need to be defensive because I never meant this topic to be offensive AT ALL. If you got offended, I apologize, but also, WHY would you get offended in the first place? And there’s no need to undermine a lowly user of this forum, which was created to be a safe space for us I believe. Throw in more of those sarcastic responses, I will consider it as YOU and your opinion. I definitely, still appreciate it 🙏