Vegas_Millennial

For starters, I put my guard up when I hear a foreign accent on the telephone.

This doesn't help with telephone scams from overseas asking to send money. One must keep one's wits about one to avoid feeling comfortable and safe with sharing information and money with those who are unknown.

Yes, I used the term merciless foreigners to differentiate from the non-merciless foreigners. Look at all the overseas telephone scams that prey on the elderly to drain their retirement, acting mercilessly. That's who one must be aware of.

@Jamie21, while I was in London this week, it was only for a short layover at LHR. If I had stayed overnight in London, I would have certainly hired you again. But, make no mistake, there would not have been any pools of cum left on the table at the end of my session, as I eagerly make sure all cum ends up in at least one of my orifices. 😁

Shh! Don't give away my secret of the best room at the property! That's where I always request to stay, too. 😉

The census bureau just released its 2025 US Household Median Annual Income data and it's some of the best on record. Summary highlights: $87,460 in 2025 - the highest inflation-adjusted median household income since 1967. The largest increase was for Black American households, at 4.8% increase. Women's income increased 3.2% more than men's incomes, narrowing the gender pay gap to 83.9%, the lowest gap on record. Official poverty rate fell 0.5% to 10.2% in 2025. The official poverty rate for children fell to an all time low, and the official poverty rate for Latin Americans fell to an all time low. Full article: https://www.census.gov/newsroom/press-releases/2026/income-poverty-health-insurance-coverage.html

At the end of the session, I almost always place the notes on the end of the massage table or bed while getting dressed and casually talking with the masseur or escort. The notes are always bank face (facing the same direction) and in order by denomination. I find it neat and less "transactional" to place the notes there rather than hand it to the men directly. Plus, it gives the masseur or escort a chance to visually see it's all there before he picks it up. But, @Jamie21 please let me know if payment placed neatly on the massage table or bed is perceived as tacky and if direct payment from hand to hand would be more genteel.

Someone's mind is in the gutter! Kum & Go is a popular and wholesome gas store chain across the country:

I like this! Let the photos speak for themselves. And to make for happy repeat customers, it's better to under promise and over deliver!

I've stayed at Cabanas once (2016) and Ed Lugo thrice (2018 & 2019). I wouldn't pay the same rate or extra for the Cabanas over Ed Lugo, as Ed Lugo's location can't be beat. However, I didn't have a room facing the water at Cabanas (those rooms are beyond my budget), so someone who values a view of the water may prefer the Cabanas. Check out Solstice at Wilton, my new go-to gay hotel since 2020. It's located near Ed Lugo, and has better prices.

Glad to hear 😍 He looks and sounds sexy and smart

I see you'll be asking for rent.men but not RentMen.eu (which many find easier to use and still work with the current Company of Men site).

He did mention he lives in Barcelona with his mother, so it's possibly the same guy. And yes, one of the best hires ever. If it wasn't my last night in Barcelona, I would be hiring him nightly.

What a hunk! 😍 That flag looks gorgeous even if he's only at half mast! 😆

Why limit oneself to only 2 options: table or bed? In my experience, massage on a table makes it easier to transition to a rim chair, sling, chaise lounge, and/or staircase mid-play without having to get up from a soft bed.

I am in Barcelona for 2 days so went to the Sauna Thermas both Sunday and Monday afternoons. Based on my experience last Sunday (see post above from one week ago), I knew to arrive after 1pm. Yesterday, Sunday, I arrived at 2pm and left at 7:30pm. The sauna was busy with plenty of boys and customers. I hired 5 guys (sequentially, one after the other with time for drinks and hot tub in between) and thoroughly enjoyed my time. I always confirmed 50 Euros in advance. One guy wanted 100 Euros, but when I declined he then said 50 Euros. He was the hottest, most muscular, and girthiest guy with the biggest balls, but he just rammed it in! It was a good problem to have on a Sunday 😊. Three of the other 5 guys took their time and offered massage, fingering, bareback, etc., so I gave them each 60-100 Euros when we were done and each was grateful. The place was busy and lots of customers were settling up with (paying) their hires when I was leaving at 7:30pm. Today, Monday, I arrived a bit later at 4pm. It was noticeably quieter than Sunday at the same time. The dozen or so working boys there did not tickle my fancy. Finally, at 5:30pm, things picked up. There was a surge in both customers and boys for hire, perhaps both finishing their day jobs and stopping by the Sauna before dinner. I enjoyed 2 men (separately), but my highlight was Antonio from Cuba. I left at 8pm, and the working boys were all getting dressed to leave at that time.

Using the handy Search🔍 tool for San Diego in the subject title is a good start.

#MeToo, but I always ask upfront if Bareback is ok prior to confirming a meeting, because it's a bummer to have to cancel when the escort insists on a condom even though he advertised Anything Goes.

More descriptions of the men at Macho Mondays at Nowhere Bar here (posts from 2018, but my experiences in 2024-2026 concur):

That's why I search for "Anything Goes" or "Ask Me" escorts, and I always specifically ask if bareback is ok before confirming a meeting. I'm not going to pay for anal with a condom.

I'm totally upfront about my identity. I even insist on giving my partners a sample of my DNA near the end of each session.

It's mostly Mexican-type guys.

I always pay at the end in Europe.

Maybe one of the guys is great at communication and one isn't. If not looking for a 4 handed massage, try asking directly for the rate to see each one individually. Unless they only work together, each one should be able to respond with his own rate and availability.