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lol what's with the shirt "Jayden" is wearing? Looks like AI generated nonsense. A lot of the pics look like AI to me but maybe that's not so unusual now. Pic was removed after I posted this, but lots of the pics on the site still look like AI to me.

I'm apparently the resident wet blanket on threads like this. But based on what you wrote I wouldn't read anything into it beyond a friendly guy who appreciates his regular good tippers and knows how to keep them happy. He already had your number and didn't do anything with it. He knows you'd be interested. He would give you his if he wants more. Enjoy it for what it is. Your instincts are right that he's just doing his job, though likely in a genuinely warm and friendly way. The street interaction doesn't come across as anything other than a friendly greeting while seeing you out of your usual context.

The griping on this forum over basic supply and demand economics never ceases to amaze me. No one owes you sex for a price only you think is fair. That's up to the person selling their body to decide. Take it or leave it and move on. It's not greed to set a price one can command on the market. Anything less is charity, which is one thing this business isn't.

I think it's a pretty standard safety measure for anyone in today's world.

They say they allow crypto but it's no longer accepted when you try to pay that way. I'm curious why it was removed.

Here is an old thread on him, with a previous name: https://www.companyofmen.org/topic/158117-411-on-latinmuscleman/ There were accusations of deposit stealing on that thread too and his RM account was deactivated shortly after. With Balthazar being an established member adding to those voices, there does seem to be an undeniable pattern. It seems like the people who manage to meet up with him have a good time, though. Thanks for sharing.

Sounds like waiting the 10 days would be your best option. Any natural resolution isn't certain or likely with those bacteria. There are at home testing options like this: https://hellowisp.com/products/chlamydia-gonorrhea-test But that probably wouldn't be any faster. I think this normally takes a few days for me. I would say there's a good chance that you would get the results even sooner from the hospital lab despite what they say.

I'm skeptical it's not from the provider. The user received it from Froy's number and is a past client. That suggests it really is from the provider and not the usual bulk-scam message. Whether this is an honest mistake of mistaken identity on Froy's part or a deliberate extortion scam could be up for debate... my guess is that the provider made a mistake here in response to a real chargeback from someone else and is not realizing the error. Edited to add: OP, I re-read the final message you received from him and it's not clear to me whether he realized the mistake or not. He could be saying, "oh, so it's not you..." with an offhand comment about having video and electronic records. Or he could be implying that he still think it's you but won't contact you at your number anymore. Hard to say. My guess is probably the former.

He stole money from you. Most people aren't lucky enough to get such a useful red flag before even meeting. I wouldn't even consider getting in touch with him.

Can we please respect providers' privacy? Posting their birthdate and city of birth seems way too invasive to me. It sucks that those websites exist that seek to identify porn performers by their real name and other personal details like those that were posted above. I guarantee you that these individuals don't want those details out there. A lot of that info is extracted by using facial recognition software and people-search websites. It's not cool and I hope CoM can at least come to an agreement on respecting these details that should be private.

Nice guy. Totally straight vibes, if that matters.

The book even covers dildos! (If I remember correctly, it suggests keeping only your favorite one.)

As with all human endeavors, grace, empathy, and compassion are requisites for true connection. Lex has shown grace in his responses and frankly I would feel even better about hiring him based on his responses here. I can empathize with being in a situation without the capacity or ability to proactively follow up on engagements, even with access to my phone, as I have been in that situation myself recently for the first time ever. It happens and if it hasn't happened to you yet, it will. Privacy should be respected without demanding and judging all the granular details.

I'm curious about this from both a USA perspective and non-USA perspective. In the US it seems like Miami and NYC top the list. Any other honorable mentions? I'm in California. There are not many options in SF, and even LA seems to have fewer than would be expected. And what about internationally? Not necessarily asking just about competitive bodybuilders... just places where one might find the highest concentration of big muscle.

I think I misinterpreted Garik's ad. When he says "Available for outcalls in San Francisco" I took that to mean he doesn't do incalls. But posts here mention incalls. So maybe he's just saying he won't do outcalls outside of SF. I'd still like to meet up with him someday. Maybe I'll try scheduling an incall sometime. I'm wondering if the no response I got previously was due to an admittedly difficult outcall location (still in SF).