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On what planet is that normal?

They are service providers, plain and simple. The service they provide is sometimes escorting, but more often something more intimate. I think "provider" is a very respectful term to use.

I really want the provider to have a good time and get off, so I will ask what they like and don't like, if there are any restrictions, etc. I don't want to make them uncomfortable...but I do want reciprocation, so I'll always want my turn;)

https://rent.men/ValentinoGray Cute guy. Has he been anywhere else? Any experiences with him?

I don't know about that. A better example might be giving a birthday present to another service provider, like your hair stylist, massage therapist or pool guy. Can certainly seem a little out of place and imply something that may not be the intent.

I don't even care if there's a dick Pic. As long as they have one that works. What I can about is a slim smooth body and humble demeanor.

If PhileasFogg is hiring him to suck your dick, he's truly a good friend.

People treat you how you allow yourself to be treated. If you want his services more than he wants your money, this will work out for you. If you cancel every time he's going to be late because you have other plans, he will either stop being late, or you will stop seeing him. Like you said, you're OK with it, so it works for both of you. If his communication is good, and he asks if it's OK, that's a different story, but if he was just late without communication, I'd just treat that as cancelation.

Are they hiring?

If I was ever going to graduate from being a side, I'm not now.

I've always wanted this, but not sure how to tactfully ask.

I would cut the cord with this guy. Not because he ended up canceling at the last minute. But because he didn't seem to be the slightest bit sorry about it, or what you might have done with your time. If I had to cancel, I would say I'm so sorry, xxxx happened and it was unavoidable. I hope to make it up to you. I wonder how this provider would have acted if you were meeting him at his place, called that you would be late and ended up canceling without explanation. I'd bet he wouldn't be booking you again.

Nice read. Very well-written! Thanks for sharing.

Is there a point in a provider telling us how good looking he is, or how muscular? I mean we see the pictures and can decide that for ourelves. I just saw an ad with the title "very good looking" at the top of the commentary. It's actually a bit of a turnoff, as it shows an ego. Obviously he was decent looking enough to click on in the first place. Is he going to talk me into thinking he's VERY good looking because he typed it? I was going to say I'd rather hear about his personality, but I guess I did. Maybe some guys are into that sort of ego, but didn't move me in the right way at all.

I hope it all came out ok.