Mark_fl

Perfect. Not a problem at all. I think it also changes the expectation. You sometimes feel like if someone doesn't answer a text fairly quickly, you're not that important. But nobody expects an immediate response from an email. As long as you move serious conversations to text or phone, I think it's ideal.

Maybe providers need to start taking Klarna

Fewer with regularity easily. While new can be exciting, I much prefer the BFE, which naturally would lean toward someone with whom you have some history. For me, I want relaxation and comfort level, not the stress that comes with a new encounter.

I think it's obvious that most providers wouldn't be with us for free. He'll, even if we're their exact type, they may not be willing to do just what we want them to do sexually without reciprocation in kind. I think the point is that if we find out the escort is an asshole, whether it be how he posts on grinder or how he treats a server in a restaurant, it would turn me off to hire.

A provider who is dealing or taking them is showing that he is willing to partake in risky behavior. Stay far, far away. And while alcohol can be just as dangerous, it is at least legal in moderation. I realize this whole hobby may be illegal in the US, but that doesn't mean we should combine it with illegal mind-altering substances.

Good advice above. One more piece from me. Your problem isn't your weight, it's your self-esteem. You aren't so big that you need to lead with it, or even point it out. Change your name to something that highlights something good about yourself, and enjoy!

I see both sides of this. Providers have every right to have preferences in the personal interactions. However, posting as he did ruins the illusion that he doesn't find some of his clients repulsive to him. I'm with you in that if he posted "no hairy guys" I would never hire him, knowing it wouldn't be something he was really into, even if his Rm ad said otherwise. It's his risk to take though. If he loses some business, so be it.

Not for me. No interest in that, sexting, private videos or zoom meetings. Does nothing for me except make me feel embarrassed for the performer and skeevy for myself. I wouldn't even ask a potential provider for additional pictures if I can see their face and body type. In person or not interested.

https://rentmasseur.com/MaxxxSportyy Anyone here have an encounter with this guy?

Idiotic ad. He's therapeutic only, don't ask for more. However he'll post a bunch of shirtless photos and of himself in just a towel. Sure. Sounds like a manipulative clown to me.

We don't want providers that are 10s. We want providers to delude us into thinking we are!

Yes. Or after the fact. Just unsolicited affection. Or for an overnight, if the provider would start up in the middle of the night, even waking me up, it would be beyond hot.

My point was more unsolicited initiating, not just during a massage or something.

For me, initiation of touch. If the provider just rubs my arm unsolicited or initiates a sexual encounter, it would make the experience feel so much more satisfying and like a real BFE.

I think in this context, most logical people mean mind-altering drugs. Certainly not OTC or drugs prescribed by a personal physician (that aren't mind-altering or being abused)