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Perfect. Not a problem at all. I think it also changes the expectation. You sometimes feel like if someone doesn't answer a text fairly quickly, you're not that important. But nobody expects an immediate response from an email. 
As long as you move serious conversations to text or phone, I think it's ideal.

Don't know about you,  but a "particularly unique" penis would have me running the other way. 

Don't know about you,  but a "particularly unique" penis would have me running the other way. 

Good advice above. One more piece from me. Your problem isn't your weight, it's your self-esteem.  You aren't so big that you need to lead with it, or even point it out. 
Change your name to something that highlights something good about yourself, and enjoy!

Good advice above. One more piece from me. Your problem isn't your weight, it's your self-esteem.  You aren't so big that you need to lead with it, or even point it out. 
Change your name to something that highlights something good about yourself, and enjoy!

It was an escort. He was in rentmen, not masseurs when I contacted him, and was clear what I wanted. 

Came to my hotel room. Nice enough and friendly guy, but as another said, very perfunctory.  Wanted BFE, but he insisted on bringing a massage table, which wasn't the vibe I wanted.  Eventually moved to the bed for extras, but felt rushed and when his timer hit, he was out the door like lightning.

Came to my hotel room. Nice enough and friendly guy, but as another said, very perfunctory.  Wanted BFE, but he insisted on bringing a massage table, which wasn't the vibe I wanted.  Eventually moved to the bed for extras, but felt rushed and when his timer hit, he was out the door like lightning.

Maybe providers need to start taking Klarna

Maybe providers need to start taking Klarna

Fewer with regularity easily. While new can be exciting, I much prefer the BFE, which naturally would lean toward someone with whom you have some history. For me, I want relaxation and comfort level,  not the stress that comes with a new encounter.

We don't want providers that are 10s. We want providers to delude us into thinking we are!

Many people think the drawer under the oven is for storage, when it's really a warming area to keep cooked foods warm. Maybe that can help.

Fewer with regularity easily. While new can be exciting, I much prefer the BFE, which naturally would lean toward someone with whom you have some history. For me, I want relaxation and comfort level,  not the stress that comes with a new encounter.

Fewer with regularity easily. While new can be exciting, I much prefer the BFE, which naturally would lean toward someone with whom you have some history. For me, I want relaxation and comfort level,  not the stress that comes with a new encounter.

Many people think the drawer under the oven is for storage, when it's really a warming area to keep cooked foods warm. Maybe that can help.

Fewer with regularity easily. While new can be exciting, I much prefer the BFE, which naturally would lean toward someone with whom you have some history. For me, I want relaxation and comfort level,  not the stress that comes with a new encounter.

Fewer with regularity easily. While new can be exciting, I much prefer the BFE, which naturally would lean toward someone with whom you have some history. For me, I want relaxation and comfort level,  not the stress that comes with a new encounter.

Fewer with regularity easily. While new can be exciting, I much prefer the BFE, which naturally would lean toward someone with whom you have some history. For me, I want relaxation and comfort level,  not the stress that comes with a new encounter.

Interesting topic.
I don’t think this is about whether providers are “allowed” to have preferences — of course they are. That part feels obvious.
What this situation highlights for me is something a bit deeper about how these bookings actually work.
When people hire, they’re not just paying for the physical act. Part of the value is the feeling of being wanted, or at least not being actively outside of someone’s type. It’s understood that it’s transactional, but there’s still a layer of perceived desire that makes the experience land differently.
Seeing a personal profile that’s very blunt or exclusionary doesn’t offend me — but it does change the framing. It introduces a gap between how someone presents professionally versus how they express themselves personally, and that gap can make the experience feel more transactional than immersive.
At that point, it’s not about judging him or taking it personally. It’s just a different risk profile as a client:
higher chance the vibe feels mechanical less confidence in genuine engagement harder to buy into the experience So for me, it’s less “he shouldn’t have preferences” and more “this specific signal lowers the value of the booking.”
Everyone’s threshold will be different, but I don’t think it’s unreasonable to factor that into a decision and just move on.

I think it's obvious that most providers wouldn't be with us for free. He'll, even if we're their exact type, they may not be willing to do just what we want them to do sexually without reciprocation in kind.
I think the point is that if we find out the escort is an asshole, whether it be how he posts on grinder or how he treats a server in a restaurant, it would turn me off to hire.

On the contrary. You brought it up in a transparently oblique way that could only mean one thing: Tina. This is not the first time at the rodeo for any of us on COM. If you meant anything less than Tina, you would have said so. But, no, you chose to be vague and cutesy (or so you thought), and then said I shouldn't be guessing when you actually set up the guessing game yourself.
Tina kills.

A provider who is dealing or taking them is showing that he is willing to partake in risky behavior. Stay far, far away.
And while alcohol can be just as dangerous, it is at least legal in moderation.
I realize this whole hobby may be illegal in the US, but that doesn't mean we should combine it with illegal mind-altering substances.

How is this revenge?  If his profile says this publicly, you’re simply highlighting it.
At this point, if his ad comment proves a detriment to his business and he removes the reference from his profile, we are collectively ignorant of the inherent risk this guy provides…cuz he’s still going to be doing it  
As others have said - this guy is a DRUG DEALER - and inviting clients into his presence some of whom might be members here  
If you want affirmation, you did the right thing IMO
If you want to be helpful to other members avoiding the risk, sharing his profile is not revenge