interesting - and my experience may be somewhat related (not sure and apologies if not...)
there is a masseur from rentmasseur i have been seeing for more than a year, and i am a loyal client as he gives a great masseur and is a really nice guy. there is some play beyond the usual erotic touching (some oral) and that is just fine with me
he just placed an ad on rentmen - so i was curious and asked him about it and he encouraged me to try --
so what happened felt 1) bizarre, 2) annoying, 3) alienating.
for almost double his massage rate, he gave a light massage, he bottomed for me (not very well or comfortably while still on the massage table) and then after this awkwardness, finished with the rest of the massage.
the massage was great like always - the whole experiene was just bizarre - bottom line: i am not sure if i will ever see him again because now it all just feels "off"
weird.