I'm the same way. In part because while I like dicks, I'm not fascinated by them (muscle, facial hair, body hair - yes!) and also because if I bottom I do NOT want him to have a big dick. No, thank you!
Yeah, I don't think that was a great opener with him! He and I spoke a bit of French together but once he knew I wasn't fluent that was the end of that!
You may have discovered it by now but HE = happy ending, MT = mutual touch and ymmv = your mileage may vary (some people have a good time, some people don't)
Recently had a session with him via RentMen and not RentMasseur. HUGE, hot man. Very nice and fun. Had a great time and would recommend. DM if you want to know more.
I want to be clear that you're not wrong and it's something to consider. But I've eaten a lot of ass in my time and none of this has ever happened. And part of that is that I won't eat a dirty butt. Anecdotal, yes, but I think you have to balance the risk with the probability.
His "shyness" was the slightly odd part for me. He didn't even look at me after I came in as we got prepared for the session. And he didn't say a word during the session. I think if the other reviews hadn't prepared me for it, I would have taken it personally. But after we were done, we talked some and he seemed more outgoing and even a bit bubbly so that made it better for me.
Recently had a session with Mike and it was GREAT! He's a hot man. Definitely on the shy side but very passionate when you get into it. Will definitely see him again. DM me if you want more details.