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Depends on how much you value your privacy in the context of keeping your personal and this hobby apart. Not saying your mate has a loose lips but hiring him sure increase the chance of your 2 aspects of life colliding.

A visit to Deli section and quickly found a post made with sole aim to disparage a provider's weight; and another post disparaging a provider's looks simply because of his bad behaviour. I mean.....I know I know we are the customers here and we expect providers to have certain looks; but surely there is a line ought not to be crossed. Some posters seriously need look deep inside your soul.....or perhaps buy a wall size mirror.

One would wonder whats the point of this post.......

In so far relating to physical attributes and intimacy patterns, I firmly believe there is a market for everyone. Many posters here apparently deem tattoos as ugly and think its wholly appropriate to voice that opinion and critise providers for it. Many other paying customers wont mind tattoos - me included. There is no one box fits all. Professional molds their brand and image based on their target market. We might not be the target market we so confidently think we are. One of my regulars is constantly critised here whilst him maintaining steady client base with over 5stars 90+ RM reviews. Just to put things into perspective.

As a consultant who charge >$600/ hr, I would rather network at golf course or tennis court or charity galas than at community centre. Any remaining free time will be allocated towards personal matters that bring me joy, not subjecting myself to judgement by ppl who is unlikely ever pay my rate.

As in the case of most (if not all) professional bankers, consultants and lawyers, PR social settings (be it dinners, charities, drinks, galas, sport events or alike) operate in a manner that is so different than a social forum like this. Clients are carefully curated and certain ettiquette is expected from all of the attendees (hosts and invitees). This forum however operates in a completely different manner. Ppl who are active in this forum arent necessarily the target market of many providers, vice versa. It wouldnt surprise me if such providers (who have a different target market) are unwilling to subject himself to uncessary drama that many posters here seems to enjoy. As a client, I first filter potential hire based on his physical attributes, only then based on reviews (of his performances and his likeness as compared to pictures posted on his ads) from others. I am unlikely to hire simply based on his posts or opinions posted here. That said, I reckon providers might wonder whether active participation here would bear an attractive ROI, or perhaps their times are better spent on other mean of advertisements with proven track record e.g. OF, IG or alike.

I thought kissing is not on his menu 👀

I bet many many gays will still book him.....they are for whatsoever illogical reasons attracted to this type of 🤡

In my experiences, some would 'top'/'bottom' only for certain client or, in a 3s or more setting, for other provider. Best ask.

I think you might be convolating 2 different matters. Being responsive is expected in any industry - no one is going to argue otherwise. Schedule compatability, on the other hand, is a separate issue. Client/ provider may set up his scheduling system however he wishes. Free market and all. That said, every businessmen ought to prepare and frankly expect that not everyone will abide by your system. And the business has the sole discretion whther or not to do the deal. If you work in service industry, you ought to understand that not every enquiry equal to a deal. Some proceed on mutually agreed terms, some fell through for whatsoever reason. And I totally agree that dealing with multiple 'fee proposals' on daily basis is simply exhausting. But hey thats the cost of running a business. The only way to avoid it is either close down shop or never expand your client base.

Some of y'all need to touch grass. Hiring is a tertier needs at best. Completely out of touch and live in your distopian bubble. Trashing 'hookup culture' as if 'hiring culture' is any better 🤦‍♂️

I feel like there is an easy solution to this issue. Perhaps just say 'no' and move on. Its a democracy, client/ provider is free to engage anyone who is a match schedule wise. If you were otherwise engaged just refuse the job offer, surely you arent coerced to take such offer. If for whatsoever reason you decided to take such offer and consequently needing to cancel your other engagement, well thats on you really. You make that decision all by yourself. No gun on your head.

Rebook him for whatever hours you are prepared and willing to pay. If he commits to his offer then great, if not you would have the funds to pay him anyhow. Its a good way to judge his character. Win win for you.

As if hiring is ever based on mutual requirements on equal standing.

A provider calling sex-for-free as 'trashy' is just beyond.....