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I would say the fact he has links to all his socials in his ad is a good indication it’s the real Roman Todd. Someone using his pics wouldn’t want to draw attention to the guy he’s stealing pics from.

I think any provider who shows genuine interest in getting to know what turns me on is one of the most appealing things a provider can do for me. A provider I met through this site, he and I talked extensively about what I was into well before we met. In turn, I asked him what turned him on. I like the guys I meet to have fun too. He and I hit it off and I see him whenever I can. Oh and although I’m not the most pda prone person, random displays of affection that don’t seem stunted, also is a bonus for me. I was doing an overnight with a relatively new regular. We went to dinner to one of my favorite seafood spots. He told me loved seafood so we went. While dining at the bar, I said something to him in passing, that I guess made him feel good. He then randomly kissed me on the cheek in front of god knows how many people. Smiled ear to ear and thanked me for what I said. I was a bit shocked but it actually made me feel special. No provider has ever did that to me in such a public environment before or since. In terms of a massage session, if any masseur pays attention to my feet and more particularly my head ears and neck, besides the usual spots… I’m all in. Of the masseurs I’ve seen 6 of them do this the most. Five have became/are regulars and one I met winter of last year in Florida. The Florida guy definitely would be a regular too if he and I lived closer together. However, like @DMonDude described, one of the 5 regular masseurs (now seemingly retired, sadly) made me feel like he wanted me as much as I wanted him. Like we never just had a massage session finish before it got very erotic. He would get aroused immediately and when I got aroused it seemed to make him even hornier. We’d end up in his bed multiple times every session. God I miss him. 😜🥰

Since no one is actually answering your inquiry... I haven't seen him in years. He is great fun when you can catch him. It looks like he put on a bit more muscle judging by some of the more recent pics. A lot of the times I visited his area he was going to or at Fire Island. So I'd miss him. Also he sometimes takes his ad down for long stretches. My one negative is he's slow to respond at times. However, my god that guy was so sexy and responsive when we met. ...very playful. After our time was up, he decided to stay and chat a bit... which as he was standing there dressing in his black jock dressing I wanted to take him again... again... again. I know my meet up wasn't recent but I've tried to meet him again for years. That's how much of good time both of us seem to be having.

Dude!!! Just reach out already. 😀 Clearly no one has met the guy on the forum or at the very least isn’t willing to talk about it. i understand hesitation but at some point you’re gonna have to buck up and make a choice to see him or not. Bumping it up won’t make others respond to you any faster.

He has sensual listed in the profile under Massage Types.

https://rent.men/FinnyMinnie Is this the correct ad?

Honestly, I’ve been on this forum for a long time, and I’ve seen providers come and go. As others have pointed out, there doesn’t seem to be much long-term benefit for providers to stay active here. It might help as an initial introduction, but over time, the ones I know say it doesn’t generate enough business to justify the effort. On top of that, they often have to deal with negativity, false claims, and personal attacks. Some criticism is fair, but a lot of it isn’t—and providers are often criticized simply for having opinions. I’ve gotten to know several providers who either stopped posting or chose never to participate at all because of the misinformation spread by certain users. In some cases, posters seem to confuse one provider for another; in others, they’re just stirring trouble—or even behaving in ways that come across as obsessive or harassing. Because of this, many providers choose not to engage. Even a small issue can spiral into pages of negative discussion, which can ultimately hurt their business. So from their perspective, it’s often not worth the risk. There are times when I step in to correct something I know isn’t true, but sometimes providers themselves ask me not to engage, preferring not to draw more attention to it. Another factor is that this forum is just a small part of a much larger ecosystem. It’s not widely used across the broader client/provider community, so its overall impact is limited. That said, I do appreciate the providers who continue to participate and engage here. Still, I don’t expect their numbers to grow significantly. It’s also worth noting that some providers may be present without openly identifying themselves—they might read posts or contribute anonymously—so the actual number could be higher than it appears, even if it’s still relatively small.

😁 Yeah I'm on the other side of the country.

So!!! 😜

There isn’t a particular position. I will say in terms of which position is better so I don’t hurt myself it’s cowboy/girl position. If I’m standing up when it happens I can lose my balance. The cowboy/girl position happens to be my favorite because I can see the expressions on my partners face, touch and play with sensitive/erogenous zones easier, and kiss at will. However this is also the position the bottom has the most control when I orgasm and it’s easier for them to be sadomasochists. lol

He’s bi. And what people post in porn and on forums aren’t always accurate or telling the truth. 😁

I have powerful orgasms a lot of the times I have an encounter. Sometimes I even temporarily lose hearing or get dizzy. So when it happens I tend to stop thrusting involuntary as my body reacts to the sensation. So to your first question I say no. I don't pause intentionally, but it happens. Especially because my dick gets hyper sensitive and I have strong physical reactions. Some of the guys I see know this and become sadomasochist. LOL! They'll let the initial cumshot happen but then continue to pump/ride me because they know how much of a physical reaction I'll continue to have. They seem to relish the torture in the reaction. 😱 😆 I have been told by a number of people they can tell when I've shot a huge load. Even if they couldn't feel it, most know I'm going to because of my body reactions to the impending orgasm. They can see/feel the tension in my body/face sometimes before I cum. One guy (Ashton from Sean Cody) was extremely good at edging me with his ass. He just seem to know every time I was getting close, even before the tension in my body. He also managed to get multiple huge loads from each session.

Brett Goldstein? He looks more like Travis Kielce.

He also has an ad on masseurfinder. https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/52421/

I have another example, but it wasn’t a request I made. It was made by a provider to me. Although I don’t think it strange, I do find it unique, that a provider (I’m particularly close with) wanted me to put on a sex show with him for another client of his. He said the client would be willing to pay us both and just wanted to watch me nail him. I declined. This provider is also one of the ones who asked me to help groom/shave him (mentioned in an earlier post). I don’t think I am bold or confident enough to just be watched by a non-participant. 😜