big-n-tall

There are 4 things that a provider can do that won’t have me return. In no particular order: - seeming personality switch. I had a well known provider (I’d known for years and saw frequently) break off contact with me after I wouldn’t join his onlyfans account. I was having major car issues and told him I’d have to wait to it was resolved before I’d add any extra expense. He kept asking and I told him the same thing. He eventually stopped all contact and wouldn’t respond to me. There were other things leading up to that where he went from being sweet to being rather accusatory. - overtly aggressive trying to get me to rehire. I have a crazy work schedule sometimes. Also I only book when I have the spare funds to do so. One local provider would constantly ask to meet up even though I told him I’d contact him when I could. Yet he would still contact me asking. It got old real fast. It turned me off and I stopped seeing him. - saying you do something and then don’t do it. I saw a guy for massage. I later found out he also escorted. He listed kissing in his escort ad and I asked him to verify that he did… to which he said, yes. I made an appointment. During the session we seemed to be having a good time. I go in for kiss and he turns his head. I try again and same result. I finished the session, had a good time even, but I won’t hire him again (at least not as an escort) even though I find him hella attractive. - lack of enthusiasm. I don’t expect to be treated like I’m a godsend, but if a guy just sits there and doesn’t respond or interact in some way no matter what I do. I definitely won’t try for a second meeting. - honorable mention. Trying to upsell me during the middle of the action. It really depends on their approach whether I get turned off or not. There was a masseur in Florida who was very engaged in our session and hot as hell. He waited to the end of the erotic massage and asked if I wanted to continue and go further. I had the funds, so I did. Another example, (which has a few from my list) a very attractive new hire turned me off. He had kissing in his ad and I asked to verify. I also told him I wanted to top him. When we met, early on, I felt maybe this wasn’t going to be a match. He was very nice though so I pressed on. He had an incredible body and when I went to touch him he said, “I just got back from the gym. So my body is sore.” I thought ok, then why did you not tell me beforehand and we could have reschedule. Anyway, I pressed on being careful not to grab him very hard. He made no attempts to do anything. I had to initiate everything. When I asked him to kiss me he reluctantly did so and only light pecks. While i was playing with him body as delicately as I could, he remarks that penetration would be extra. At the moment, I lost my excitement. Shortly afterwards he asked me if he did anything wrong. I just said no, got dressed, paid him and left. I definitely won’t see him ever again.

The only thing I’ve noticed, which I commented on in another post some time back, is that a lot of providers who had not advertised for years, returned this and last year. To me that was a sure sign there was an economic downturn.

I don’t know if it’s him or not. I would find it odd somehow someone usurped his ad. However, he abruptly quit sometime back maybe his current behavior has something to do with it. I don’t know the circumstances of Viktor’s behavior but I do know one well established provider who was being harassed by a client… made me jump through hoops to prove I wasn’t said client. Maybe it’s a similar situation and you asking his next steps maybe freaked him out through no fault of your own.

It really depends on the person. There are guys who prefer late night shifts… some prefer early… but most sometime in between depending on various factors. I only know a select few providers who favor later shifts but I didn’t find that out until after I had known them awhile. There are two masseurs I met in the last few years who seem to favor later shifts. Both I’ve spoken about in previous topics. i do know sometimes providers forget they have the available now rentmen/masseur alert on and won’t respond until the next day if it were on all night.

Who is this incredible but talkative specimen you speak of? 😁

He was at one point… but the ad is expired. https://rent.men/TravisConnorX

I haven't met him in person, but long ago before I got into this hobby, Rex (not the name he used back then) did webcam and sold videos. I was in contact with him and bought videos (VHS) of him. There were vids of him stroking and having sex with women. I do recall him being aggressive and vocal in the vids. He was very personable in his responses as we communicated back and forth to determine what I would be buying. He called me sweetie a lot. 😁 He is at the very least bisexual. That's all I got.

Uhm... he's holding a dildo next to his actual dick. Not everything is AI. 😁

He’s porn actor Elijah Wilde. He has been on rentmen and rentmasseur off and on. I haven’t met him but I want to. He tends to change his ad name when he returns to the sites. I haven’t looked into if he’s been discussed previously on the forum.

https://www.companyofmen.org/topic/170914-friendboy-back-in-business-as-friendboypro/#comment-2646713

I had haven't had a bad experience dealing with someone with poppers but I had a scary experience with someone who was cracked out. I talked about the the experience on the forum before. I was relatively new to hiring. He recently started to advertise again. 😱 He didn't stop breathing but after freaking out, crying, blocking me from leaving he went unconscious and was breathing very shallowly. I didn't know what to do. I figured if I left and he died I'd be in huge trouble. So I decided to stay with him until he went through it and to make sure he survived.

Although I have not met Dex in person, the fact that he includes his socials in his ad more than likely means he’s real. Otherwise, why would an imposter want to have a direct contact to the real person to verify if the account is real or not?

I have neither, but the 2nd guy had an escorting ad recently under the moniker Snakecharrmer on RM, but it appears he took it down. https://www.companyofmen.org/topic/170962-411-snakecharrmer-in-nyc/#comment-2647636

If you read the posts above, he doesn't currently have a link to a RM ad and is advertising only through the forum.

I have not met him, but I can tell you he did porn (mainly for Lucas Entertainment) under the name Ben Bateman. The tattoo on his neck is a dead giveaway. Well besides the similar name. 😁