One data point, for what it's worth: You contacted me directly when you joined this site. I responded with a friendly welcome and never heard from you again.
Successful providers of personal services are, above all, personable.
I hired Romeo this week from rentmasseur for an erotic massage. We spent about 5 minutes on the massage, then 90 minutes on the erotic. He has a portable table with minimal padding and no head rest. But he was happy to work on a bed.
The pics are accurate. I would hire again just to watch him undress.
He speaks Spanish. Communicating in English was difficult, but in person you won't need to talk.
I VERY enthusiastically recommend him for erotic with a dash of massage.
About what I'd share with a casual hookup. I'm friendly and open. Casual conversation as ice breaker. 99% of the men I've hired have been polite and friendly, doing another as they liked to be done themselves. Conversation to get a sense of who I am so they can let their guard down and focus on the job.
Once a masseur asked questions that would have been considered nosy in a regular social interaction. He wanted details about my income and investments. I deflected and ignored his texts later. Same as if I'd met him on grindr.
He was discussed here before but I can't find the thread. I think under a different name.
He's handsome and that smile looks genuine. And he has other gifts.
I texted once but our schedules didn't work. Maybe that was for the best. Is he too good to be true?