I haven’t completely abandoned hiring, but I don’t do it nearly as often as I used to (so much so that sometimes it feels like I’ve quit). My reasons:
The frequency of poor-to-non-existent massage skills (since I primarily stick to masseurs), even from those who’ve received flattering reviews from others on this site
The amount of time and effort it takes to “research” new potential providers every time my current go-to moves away, leaves the business, or offers increasingly underwhelming service
My growing concerns as I get older about safety (especially with a new provider, given how physically vulnerable we can be as clients) and privacy (again, especially with a new provider)
My desire (while there’s still time) for a more fulfilling intimacy with someone who might actually be into me, not my payment for service