RyanDean

There has been no email for the last two weeks, so far as I know. The most recent I've received (sent two weeks ago, at 435pm ET, on 5/8) reads: There will be NO SHOW tonight. Stay tuned for updates on new venues! The next Nude Party will be on Saturday, May 30th! I'll update this thread if anything comes through re tonight.

These events happen in private spaces, with the address provided with pre-registration. The party started in Philly. Moved to Cherry Hill. The Philly space was good. The Cherry Hill space is great.

For a long time, I was most interested in sampling the broad array of pleasures and almost made a point of never hiring the same gent twice. Coming out of the pandemic, that began to shift as I discovered one gent who I couldn't get enough of... In the last couple years, I keep trying to sample, but haven't had much luck (lots of ghosting/roads-to-nowhere and some mixed results). Perhaps as a result am more inclined to hire gents with whom I have some fondness/chemistry and with whom I know the pieces fit nicely...

It's a 1-on-1 video call.

Ditto what @sniper said, but also to add: occasionally it's also the "haven't been seen in a while" veterans who start the evening in underpants... But never more than 1 or 2 among the 25+ gents strutting around starkers.

Thanks, all -- so helpful to hear all your perspectives on this situation. Especially @Ichabod's admonition to "find a way to get comfortable with ignoring his request."

Recently had a "meh" encounter with an established CoM-recommended gent. In the subsequent 24hrs, routine pleasantries were exchanged via text. A week after the meetup, I receive another text politely but directly requesting that I leave a five star review, referencing our post-meetup pleasantries as evidence of my having a great time and noting that "things have been slow lately"... This particular gent has 100+ RM reviews -- with most recent from April 2026 -- and he currently has a 5.0 rating. I'm perplexed about how to proceed. I could just ignore the request -- which is typically not how I roll, so it feels weird and uncomfortable to do so. I could leave the 5star review -- which wouldn't be honest but under no circumstances would I mess with any gent's overall rating just because I could. I could reply to him explaining that I no longer leave reviews on RM, due past (not great) experiences doing so -- which is basically true but possibly irrelevant I could do something else that I'm not thinking of... I do not anticipate booking with this particular gent again. And I don't know that I'm looking for guidance. Just needed to shake this annoyance off. PS: as an aside, I find that I'm mostly okay with tipping culture run amok but it's the unrelenting loop of "please leave a rating to let us know how well we served you today" feedback requests that is clearly working my nerves...

In addition to breathmints, I usually carry mouthwash travel packs and some hygienic wipes for on-the-go touch ups. Good for both before or after an encounter with a gent, if/as needed. I highly recommend DentaViva Mouthwash Travel Packets.

https://rent.men/Javierbianco

Jimmy's reliably great. One of my favorite, drama-free, go-to gents. A sweetheart, too.

I hired a (now long-retired) gent for this once. Both the workout and the playtime were, um, fine. Also had a favorite regular gent surprise me with a session in his in-home gym. Started out super fun, but became awkward/uncomfortable as things got going, so we just moved to the adjacent bedroom. In our subsequent meetups, we haven't been back to his gym.

Next party is April 3... https://x.com/unleaxxxhed/ RSVP required.

He sees male clients. Based on my experience, he has a process of vetting clients that will clarify your questions respectfully and efficiently.

Such an interesting question, @BCMan I don't know that there's such a website, aside from perhaps Seeking.com (which has its own limits). That said, some thoughts... it sounds like forum contributor @BenjaminNicholas would deftly meet this criteria. you might explore the offerings of LuxeMentor; and depending on your location (and height requirements), I'd endorse James Dumont for your consideration. And I'll be interested to see which other providers come to mind for other forum contributors...

About ten years ago, I appeared on Who Wants to be a Millionaire as the in-person "Lifeline" for someone. Helped them answer the $50k question correctly. But I've never competed on one myself. I have some LA friends who seem to do this or that lower-profile game show every couple years.