RyanDean

I used the "shotgun" approach for the first time just this past weekend and it worked quite well for me. The context: big city, very narrow window of time for daytime appointment, holiday weekend, me hosting in my hotel. Sent the exact same message to a half dozen new-to-me gents about 24-36 hours before the requested appointment. Four replied in a timely manner to let me know they weren't available in my admittedly quite narrow timeframe; one replied to confirm he was available and interested; and one never responded. I booked with the one who replied, for a very gratifying encounter. Enjoyed brief, clarifying, and very friendly exchanges with two of those who replied, bumping each of them to the top of my priority-hire list. For me, it was an effective use of the approach. Not a strategy that I would use in most situations, as I prefer to hire with a longer lead time, which typically allows for one query at a time. But, under these circumstances, "the shotgun" style was quite effective, in both the immediate and longer term...

BigBoyLA does not have a current RM ad but does have this dedicate CoM thread: https://www.companyofmen.org/topic/158585-bigboyla-in-la/

I loved it.

re "Side Stuff" Short answer: no anal, but likely including some combination of (possibly mutual) oral, kissing, rimming, j/o, etc. Longer answers: https://www.intomore.com/culture/identity/beyond-tops-and-bottoms-what-is-a-side/ https://www.menshealth.com/sex-women/a60897804/what-is-a-side/ https://www.pride.com/gay-sex/what-does-side-mean-on-grindr#rebelltitem14

Dex is not 27.

Strong rec here for ChaseVirgo: https://rent.men/ChaseVirgo Smart, legit, warm/affectionate, great communication, totally understands the gig. He's vers but -- having witnessed his masterful topping skills in person* -- I don't see how you could do better. *There's nothing quite like watching a top bring their bottom to a handsfree orgasm.

I'm not tall (5'10") but I do love a beefy/built short king. Especially if they're hung.

Here's one of Vince's primary profile shots from Corbin Fisher (circa March 2009)... Definitely the same gent.

To add a few more NYC porn/pro gents to @big-n-tall excellent list. Not all are super-muscled, but all are worth scoping. https://rent.men/Sergshepard https://rent.men/MarcoNapoli https://rent.men/NickSterling https://rent.men/goodboy_Bruiser https://rent.men/RileyMitchel https://rent.men/MarcGX https://rent.men/JonahWheeler And I've had gratifying encounters with: SergShepherd, AxelRockham, SteveRoman, MarcGX, HungMusclJock, AlexanderMullerr. And I'm a big fan of JimmyTroy.

I don't know that all three were theatre majors. (Perhaps?). Or that cocaine was the primary intoxicant involved. (Perhaps one among several?) But this assessment does seem to align with how the creators themselves have described the process they used to "assemble" the show... I enjoyed it far more than you, mostly because it's just so unapologetically bonkers and so gleefully stupid. But I can see how it's not to everyone's taste.

Some years ago, I had a great session at one of the LodgeNY parties with a (sadly now-retired) gent I met via a live-cam site. Super hot. If Ace Carter ever relists his long-expired ad, I know that public cruising is one of his favorite hobbies.

Good roster of gents, including several very appealing new gents who were lots of fun. When I got there (earlier than usual), the ratio of gents to patrons was a bit skewed (three "dancers" to every one patron). This imbalance always brings the energy down and makes the aggressive guys even more persistent. But things were much more balanced by the time I left (around 11) and the energy was definitely picking up. My only/main complaint? There were far fewer places to sit than usual. But I had a very nice time.

on X (@OFNickFloyd), he's looking as good as ever.

The two times I've been to BuffDaddys@RedEye recently, it's been really dark and the club/house music has been SUPER loud. Plus the fog machine has been running at near-toxic levels. Do different nights have different djs?

https://rent.men/JimmyTroy