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I go for more rounds, sometimes hang around and have conversation, sometimes just some foreplay, once we played video games. What makes me go for another round to is liking sex and my body agreeing with it. I think that the feeling of the session being over might have to do with chemistry, interest or interpersonal skills. I do enjoy talking to the provider; that helps me determine my interest in future sessions. I haven't experienced providers cutting the session short. I have cut sessions short, but never the provider.

Wow! That's red flag after red flag. I'm glad that you managed to leave. What's that "those things come later when I'm his boyfriend" thing about? I'm glad that you were able to manage to get out of that situation and most importantly, learn from the experience.

I think Cialdini's rule of scarcity.

Yes, I've been told that they need haircuts for a job interview, food, rent, new sneakers, milk for their babies, car payment and find a place to stay for the night, among other things. I've heard it all. No, they are not usually legit. It is a common red flag to me. 10 times out of 10, I get the whole story and/or the real intent by keeping the conversation going, and it's never legit. In my experience, quality providers don't do that (not right away, at least).

So no nudity, no HE, the awkwardness of caressing a naked man that by default he's not attracted to, and doing that next to his brother. What exactly is the attractiveness of this?

For that question: Like, duh! Yes. The events seem like the result of a communication problem. As much as some providers want to milk a trip as much as possible, they might not have known exactly what to pack or wear. I wonder, with all the preparation and logistics that such event takes, why weren't attire and expectations about expenses during the trip discussed prior to leaving? That doesn't look like an unreasonable conversation to have in preparation. Traveling to the UAE does require a little bit of additional information, just like traveling to certain other destinations. Also, in my experience, when certain level of elegance and attire is required/expected, it has become a need to explain to people what they should wear, and even with that, some don't get it. I am in no position to finance such a trip, nor am I single/free enough to do so, which means that this is just speculation on my part. I'd include attire, expenses, gifts and/or other extras in the discussion before the trip, so there is an understanding of expectations. They are in the business of pleasure, so I imagine that they will do just like travel companies do, continue charging for everything that happens along the tour. That should not be a surprise (IMO). I hope everything else in the trip went well (meaning, they didn't embarrass or dissed you).

I don't necessarily disagree. The last part of your sentence is the key, in my experience and opinion. I've gone full sex with some masseurs, and I have given them a "tip" afterwards, thought that was never agreed with, but more importantly, it was up to him to let me go that far. The masseur is always in control of the situation in terms of how far he will go, but in my experience, some have gone quite far with me. Trying to attempt a more than erotic massage might not result in what you might have in mind. However, I am quite sure that many providers can attest to having experiences with clients wanting to go farther without even asking or agreeing. In that respect, it's not weird, maybe not even inappropriate, but just think about the awkwardness after if he sets a boundary and says no. Will you be comfortable for the rest of the session if you get rejected?

This might be a question for The Deli.

I have my preferences, but I've never asked for anything in that respect to providers.

Quite odd, IMO. I'd never give my full name. I always use cash, and I don;t ask for their names either.

That's still around? Seems like there's an IT history between the countries. Regarding the norms, I wasn't referring to that. I was more talking about their homophobia, which is the social norm there. Not all social norms have to do with culture.

I thought of that, but it was just this website. RM, and other websites (I didn't access porn, though) worked perfectly fine. Either way, I did enjoy my short stay there as much as I could. The message I got was about the IP address being blacklisted. Not sure which IP address.

I agree about the possibility of being just inexperience, but as others have posted, there is a market for what he offers. I'm not sure it's not a well though of strategy. Could be a mix of things. Like with the case of many other things I've read in profiles, mostly inconsistencies, I just let it be and move on if what I read is not my thing. Personally I don't see the need to single him out.

We tend to be more risky than women. It's just how we are.

Thanks. It was both the ship and the hotel in Panama. I wish I could say the same, but unfortunately, my experiences is that we are tolerated and that's for as long as we comply with their norms, which are quite homophobic. However, I trust that you have experienced that country much more than I have. Thanks to all. I'm not sure what happened there.