SecretProvider

read the pushback i got here on this thread when i explained that it is decent courtesy to wash thoroughly before a session..... I have had experience with people who have no idea, but was genuinely shocked that some people just don't seem to care or worse feel entitled to show up dirty adn expect an intimate experience.

I am shocked by the accuracy of the comments on this thread! Big round of applause to @Becket who could not have been on the money if he tried. Perfect answer. It is bang on correct. Everything he has said is gospel. It is rare to get better advice online than he has given you here. A lot of providers inflate how much they are making, or they are honest about a really good week/month and then pretend that is the standard. Guys who make the big big money are mostly in porn/twitter/OF because they can charge a really high fee- and everyone else who make that sort of money work their tails off.

outcalls can be a drain for a number of reasons - having to walk into an unkonwn area, fake clients pranking, travel time just to name a few. But i think the title to this thread could be changed to : If the outcall rate is steep, do incall instead!

Feel free to DM and I will have a look at their profile for you if you want.

Sure: 1. check who has left the reviews - new accounts, or accounts that have been around a while and left reviews for other guys too? Reach out to those reviewers and ask things you need to know without asking too much - ( do they kiss? did they have a suitable apartment? would you see them again?) 2. Post a 411 here- maybe they have set up a new account and have a name change. if so why? you will see reveiws for old account name that may explain things. 3. ask for confirmation through WhatsApp, BRIEF facetime or Snapchat to see pics are real - although i think with 6 reviews you are fine. 4. do not send a deposit (if requested) larger than $50. post reviews here after your meeting to pay it forward and help your community.

A significant number of twinks are attracted to older men, and these relationships are often characterized by mutual attraction and reciprocal benefit. As long as they are of age - I don't think you should be worried or concerned at all. Go for what you enjoy!

You are not alone - there are a lot of people who get pleasure by giving pleasure. I can only speak for myself - but it is a really nice change of pace when I get a client who wants to flip those dynamics and focus on giving pleasure.

yeah we can go to our 'blocked users' list and unblock someone.

I agree with @Jamie21 clients who are looking for 'right now' generally are best to be avoided. Same day appointments are fine, but we do need minmum 1hr notice Why getting into arguments? How hard is it to say 'sorry thats not something I can provide, thanks for considering me, have a nice day.'

The answer is going to vary for every provider so the best thing to do, and i feel like i repeat myself a lot when I say this: Talk to your provider! Communicate. Be clear and communicate what your expectation and desires for the booking is. Ask for what you want. And lastly, ENJOY!

I have been sent texts and given gifts and i think its really sweet. I'd prefer a gift or extra tip over a venmo. Only good regulars would know the time of my birthday anyway.

If it is any consolation - the pre summer slow down in NYC is hitting all providers right now. My circle it is anyway. I think it is sound advice to adapt to the market and do 60 min offerings.

when clients say they want to be fucked for a loooong time, it generally is code for 'i want to PNP and take cock for hours', which is a bit of a red flag, or it means they are starting to engage is sexting. Going into this much detail for a booking that far in advance - also a bit of a red flag. (common tactic for guys wanting to text and never book - say its in a few weeks time so you have a bigger window to engage) But other commenters have also pointed out - mint boys does attract providers on the lower end of scale. A thing to learn from both sides here.

You know what they are about assuming? 😜

When I started working I created a fake alias for myself and would adapt it for each client - then it became to hard to remember and i got caught out - something silly like saying I was studying art history instead of economics - so I just decided to be myself, and it has been much better. I am able to give clients authenticity. The only thing I leave to myself is my real name. I feel it keeps a part of me protected emotionally.