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Getting back on topic, I have to agree with others that it rather depends upon how my provider is clothed and what we negotiated and/or agreed to in our scene. I had a couple of providers in Las Vegas ask me to take them out to eat after our session; when I asked both how much more in fees they would charge me they both said, "I'm only asking you to provide me with dinner." One guy wanted In & Out Burger; I happily paid for that and got him a gift card as well. The other guy wanted Pho Kim Long over on Spring Mountain; we had a nice dinner (we were the only non-Asian customers in there at the time) and I got him another dinner to take away. Every scenario is different.

OMG, you are SO right about that. This is certainly not true of all "large" men, as I have known plenty who had big dicks and who absolutely made the effort. But there has been an equal number who could do little more than wave their huge member in my face and say "Is that the biggest dick you've ever seen?" And that was about the extent of the "action". Getting back on-topic let's see if any men's hotel proposes a "stub fest" for smaller guys.

I don't mean to veer off-topic, but I once had 2 providers (they hired out as a couple) suggest that we have our scene at a bathhouse (this would be in Phoenix) and it was one of the best experiences I've ever had.

@viewing ownly makes a good point. He describes a "trait" that I haven't seen celebrated at any of the men's clothing-optional resorts that I have visited. And I would sign up for that. I have seen a lot of "stubs" that lengthen and harden to almost majestic proportions when aroused; it's amazing to watch and experience. I am lucky in that my "stub" gets delightfully thick when hard. I'm probably not going to change anyone's mind but I do wish more men would realize that size has nothing to do with potency or sexual prowess or skill; a lot of men with "stubs" are incredible lovers. Sure, I wish mine were bigger but I gotta play the hand I'm dealt. And I've hardly been deprived of dick in my 45 years since I reached my sexual maturity. It's almost a taboo subject but thank you, @viewing ownly for having the balls to start the conversation.

Any given night in Palm Springs, Fire Island Pines, Fort Liquordale, or San Francisco …

Jim Palmer in Elance briefs … that was a big deal when dude appeared in underwear ads … I’m old enough to remember that … this was long before Calvin Klein started marketing underwear … Jockey made underwear sexy rather than utility … thanks to tall, lean & furry Jim Palmer

Veering off-topic … but you say that like it’s a bad thing. Maybe I’m weird - hell, I know I am - but I’d rather see a baby belly than a six-pack. As for the moustache, bring it on! Again, apologies for getting off-topic. That provider looks great to me and I’m hoping someone has some feedback.

I see Daddy in the background, working the grill …

This may not be the right time … but remember Roseanne Roseannadanna? “So, I go to the skating rink at Rockefeller Center and there’s a French poodle on skates. Then I realized - ‘Hey! That’s not a French poodle! It’s Gene Shalit!’”

I would probably quit. I know that sounds flip, but, seriously, I probably would. Team-building? Please. Take the money and give me a bonus or a raise. Don’t force me to “bond” with my co-workers over 5 days in Orlando during hurricane season. Or wherever.

My first choices would be anything by director Rob Williams (Role/Play, Three Day Weekend, The Men Next Door, Make The Yuletide Gay) followed by “Boys In The Band”, both the original and the recent remake. That is probably a controversial choice but I’m an old man and it allows me to reflect on how far we’ve come. Add to that “Longtime Companion”, “Jeffrey”, and the entirety of “Tales Of The City”. And, of course, good vintage porn. Sorry! Two more. Terrance McNally’s “Andre’s Mother” and “Love! Valour! Compassion!”

Oh … mah … God …

It is no longer my “go-to” for a cheap mid-week escape. Too many properties are nickel-&-dining to death. Still a lot of quality providers and great places to eat, but the vibe has deteriorated.

@JB_Studio38, thank you for your perspective. Very interesting to read the other side of the debate.

Yeah, well, that is the world in which we live. I don’t like it. I don’t have to like it. I detest it. I’m lucky to have friends who will put their phones away when I ask them to dinner. Or lunch. I eat out too much - mostly alone - and watch couples and families say nothing to each other as they scroll through their phone whilst they eat. Sorry, that was off-topic. I love the double meat at In & Out, the patty melt at Steak & Shake, and the frozen custard at Freddy’s.