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  1. Also, it’s not really cheating when partners discussed, their extra marital activities with each other. My observation is that when couples, regardless of how the gender pairing falls within them, maintain a greater level of trust when the communication is open between all partners. It’s “agreements” arrangements are modified without committal, communication or broken in a way that touches on personal insecurities that can bring about lack of trust~ Then it seems to fall more into the category of cheating. Variable definitions for each individual and in each partnered relationship even when it’s a triad quad or a communal family type situation. I have also found that the structure and agreements between partners in a relationship when there are more than two people involved are not always the same for everybody in the group. Each person provides their unique contribution to the group of a whole and then to each other. So, Physical monogamy might be more important to one individual but emotional monogamy may be important to what are more of the other individuals and financial or psychological monogamy might be a concern of somebody else… What is important, also changes over time and across circumstances, as people grow evolve. So, what is felt or defined as cheating between two people or a group of people isn’t necessarily the same across individuals. What’s important to them at any given time is a fluctuating variable. So, Being in touch with oneself, exercising self honesty and honesty with each other can be helpful, navigating through extramarital, emotional, psychological, financial, physical and spiritual Situations/circumstances
  2. Yes… I hear you~ When I talk to women about this very topic, they feel much more threatened. If they partner either male or female sleeps with another woman, because there’s more potential for emotional monogamy to be fractured. Breeches in Emotional monogamy seems to be more threatening than the those related to physical monogamy. Financial monogamy can also be pretty threatening to sum in a relationship… Emotional monogamy seems to be the greatest concern. What’s your perspective?
  3. And then there’s the “bro code” mentality… and the possibility that come of them were okay with it at the time~ Males process sexuality differently than women at time~ there have been so many times that I’ve heard guys talk about having sex with somebody besides their partner and justify it by saying it wasn’t sex, because it was only a blowjob, or was only a hand job… it was sex with another guy and I with a woman and therefore doesn’t count to sex. Not throwing any judgment at all but, it’s definitely something I’ve heard from guys in the past~ I’m really not picking any sides here… I’m just adding an element to the conversation~
  4. He’s so amazing… I love Gurdeep Pandher~ LOVE HIM~!
  5. Anybody else having problems with Rentmen? Got a weird verification message.
  6. Puts Bond to shame~
  7. Fascinatin~ Again, as a respect and courtesy thing, when with a Client, the only time I’m checking the phone is when I’m on the toilet or my partner is in the shower or sleeping, working. Using their time to communicate with other business opportunities seems disrespectful on several levels~ Additionally, there are times where being available to less familiar inquiries is a lower priority than being in closer contact with those I may be seeing in the next week or two or three. Since there is a lot of travel involved with touring, transportation and cell reception can be an issue, especially when traveling abroad or with a Client up in some cabin in the mountains, diving/summing on a secluded beach or driving around in the Jeep across the Serengeti plains looking for elephants. It’s not a matter of being dismissive to last minute inquiries or anyone in general, but rather being attentive and respectful to those Clients currently on the calendar with whom a commitment is already established or am currently/presently with~ On rare occasion there is nearly daily communication with some Client but, that’s a special person and not the norm~ There is an understanding that all parties involved have things going on in their lives~ Sometimes inquires take this approach: “hey”, “hi”, “what’s your rates”, “pics?”, “how big is your dick”: likely these inquiries will get a little more then a “hey” response in reply~ There’s no indication regarding what city/country they are in, what time zone they are in, if they are of legal age, if they are single, coupled, identify with a gender, have chatted together previously, etc. Having an account on RM and some prior contact on site helps sort thru some of that mystery~ Random phone calls from google numbers with fragmented and/or incoherent messages will be likely ignored/blocked/reported as spam~ There are different business styles for providers and Clients have also their own needs and styles as well~ So, general assessments and blanket approaches can be misleading~ It can be helpful to Clients if they read the “about me” section of any given profile and if Providers actually put thing about themselves there or elsewhere for Clients to learn about them, their personal style and contact preferences~ RM recently shortened the number of characters allowed by providers in the “about me” section but, perhaps if Providers and Clients expressed, (to the moderators), the need and importance of having the greater space there, both would benefit~
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