Jamie21

I use prep. I used to look fabulous and my life was awesome, but since I stopped using condoms I’ve noticed things change. Losing weight in the face, feeling tired, losing that sparkle. I keep losing my car keys, the elastic in my favourite underwear has gone, my pot plants are dying and last Thursday I broke a finger nail 😕……. But my sex life is fantastic, I never need to fumble around for a condom, or try to open it with oily hands. I can feel it in my hole when guys cum in me and it’s great to have the load dribble out afterwards. Also when I fuck I can feel so much more and guys always appreciate getting bred, especially clients or if I’m filming porn. I guess I’m happy with the trade offs, I can eat more, buy new pants…and plants and get my nails done… and keep having raw sex. My decision.

Lots of guys like the idea in abstract ‘wouldn’t it be great if I got paid to have sex!’ but then once faced with the reality of it they back off. They realise they’ll need to be available when clients want, they’ll have to fuck guys they don’t find attractive, and they’ll need to face prejudice from family and friends who don’t approve of their choice of work. I think it’s not a job most people can do. Aside from needing some physical attributes (because you’re selling your body) you definitely need the mental strength to be able to do it. It’s definitely not easy. But I will say it can be great fun, empowering and give you a lot of freedom and opportunities. Also a great insight into human sexuality.

I’ve been on Prep for years (>8) and haven’t noticed this. It’s not listed as a side effect.

This topic certainly has legs…it’s at page 6 !! By the time it concludes the 18 year old escort in question will be a ‘daddy’ and commentators will be accusing him of being too old to market his services to young guys looking for daddy.

Yes there’s some lines he likes which I use, with a certain amount of ad libbing.

I’m always surprised when potential clients ask how tall I am. I understand the cock size question and the age question but not so much the height question. It’s always shorter guys (I’m 180cm) who seem to find that height matters. Maybe because whilst they can easily see cock size, and discern my approximate age from my pictures and films, it’s less easy to see my height so they need to check?

Yes they would, if you tell them when booking. Lots of my clients say that they’re exploring and want to use their session to build confidence. It’s a safe environment to do that. What I see is that guys over think: ‘I’m not a good kisser’ and what passionate kissing is about becomes the noise in their head when kissing and of course that inhibits their kiss. Quieten your mind, stop thinking about it and just do it. Lose yourself in it. You’ll find you can kiss passionately, and suck cock (although there are some techniques you can learn for that).

I was hired to do this but I made a mistake with my timing and turned up an hour early! Client was still with the previous guy. So I waited until he was ready. Client wanted a bit of overlap between us (I assume so he got some group action) so the previous guy (who I knew) stayed a little while I was there. Client was bottom and he wanted a series of fresh tops during his session. The guy following me was running late so I finished and left so the client could have a freshen up.

Rich good looking clients are the worst. Too demanding. He’ll learn…

It’s not the colour of my skin. It’s what I do. The concern is they assume I’m there to do sex work. I know of two white European guys refused entry because they were assumed to be visiting to do sex work. Of course that’s not a statistic it’s an anecdote but I’m not going to take the risk and expense of a holiday to the US if there’s a chance they interrogate me at the border about what’s on my phone (all my clients numbers, my log ins to onlyfans and Justforfans etc and my adverts on RentMasseur and other sites. Why bother? There’s many other places to go.

You got him!!! Although I paraphrased it wrongly.

America always finds the right answer in the end, after it has tried all the wrong answers 😂.

I’m friends (acquaintance) with quite a few London based guys who now won’t risk travelling to the US, for work or tourism. I’ve never travelled for work (not sex work at least - I used to travel for my ‘conventional’ job). Sex work is mainly UK based. Because of the risks I’ve decided not to travel to the US, even for leisure. It’s just not worth the hassle. Whilst it’s legitimate for any country to manage its borders and ensure its tax laws are complied with it does seem that this is being done in a very capricious and hostile way.

Yes it’s not Wendy’s. What happens is clients would book the cuddle and hand job session but then expect to fuck bareback just because they got more horny in the moment. Then it gets awkward…mid session negotiations on extra services. I’m not going to up sell in a session nor do I want to negotiate extra services mid session. It kills the whole thing. Pay his rate and do whatever you’re comfortable with within the boundaries of his services.

I’ve found clients from here, but it’s not my primary source of client. All exposure is good exposure so I have as many platforms as it’s possible to manage but some of them are tangential to advertising for clients. Places like X, Bluesky and Instagram are good to get exposure but aren’t what I consider to be where I advertise. RentMasseur or RentMen are the best places to advertise and I have a paid advert on RentMasseur. Plus a couple of other advertising sites that are specific to my market (UK). I also have presence on sites like Onlyfans and Justforfans but those are not specifically for advertising (and in the case of Onlyfans it’s definitely not advisable to use it to communicate with potential clients) but they serve as a way of having presence in the industry so that clients can feel confident to hire you. I ask clients where they found me and it’s a surprisingly wide variety of sources. A lot come from a simple google search which hits on my website. I’d advise you to have a website because it adds professionalism to your offering and is a place to put info for clients to read (otherwise you’re endlessly repeating your proposition in texts). Finally the best way to get clients is to keep them. Be good at the job, be reliable and be fun. It’s so much easier to keep a client than find a new one. Most of my clients are long term regulars. A lot come back. If they come back you’re doing something right.