Jamie21

I offer it. Basically it’s for the client to decide what they want included and then to ask for it. Could be a dinner, cinema visit, walk in the park, sauna visit, accompany him to a corporate event as his plus one….whatever. Would always involve some sex but it’s not exclusively sex or erotic massage although those things are involved as part of the whole experience. It has always included a level of intimacy that might not happen in a regular booking such as kissing, cuddling, and usually involves quite a lot of talking. The sessions last from a few hours to a day….I don’t do overnights, although that’s often part of a bf experience. Basically you’re playing the bf role but the challenge is reminding the client that it’s a job without that detracting from the fantasy of what you create. That’s the difficult part.

The OP asked providers if they have experienced clients posting bad reviews because things didn’t go their way. I’ve never had that happen, not knowingly anyway. I guess there could be unflattering reviews or comments out there about me (if anyone finds any please tell me!). Tbh I don’t care. Clients can post whatever they like. You can’t please everyone and those posting vituperative comments will be seen for what they are by most sensible people, and will only influence those clients who I’d prefer didn’t come to me anyway - that’s a positive outcome! By the way, the OP mentions the comments were slanderous. Not so. Slander is spoken not written. If it’s written as a record then the term is libellous (if it’s not true of course). If you say PNP in your adverts / profile then it’s more likely that the dissatisfied client’s comments are true than if your advertising says ‘no drugs’. Personally I have never used drugs because I prefer to be present during sex but I’ve no problem with others using them. They just need to be prepared to be criticised for it. Just like I’m fine to be criticised for doing sex work. People with narrow or closed minds will always do that. Their problem not mine.

This. Be clear about what you want. I think I’m good at reading a client’s desires but sometimes a little clarity before the session helps me to understand what they really want.

That’s British humour 😂

Hmmm. Oh dear. Shall I explain or shall I not bother?

Big car = small dick. There’s a strong correlation.

I think you probably are being unreasonable. I’ve always said on here that to try to negotiate down a guys quote (for whatever reason) starts the interaction off badly. If they ask once that’s ok I guess but when they persist in trying to cut the rate I simply make myself unavailable. I do a few scenarios like you describe: one couple have a massage sequentially and they just sit and watch each other (which I love tbh). Another couple prefer that the one not on the table gets a coffee at a local coffee shop while he waits his turn. Out calls are more difficult for all sorts of reasons: you don’t know the environment you’ll be working in (I’ve had some really awkward spaces), there’s travel time both ways which restricts your availability, there’s also an element of personal risk. All these things come into question when setting rates. Then to have someone try to knock 10% off the quote makes you think they don’t value your time and service as much as you do. If his quote is too much just say ‘thanks but not for me’ and move on.

I saw two clients today. First client wanted me to cum, fairly early into the massage, so I did. Then he wanted me to cum again later on. He hadn’t cum yet and he struggles to get hard …I’ve seen him a few times, it’s always same….he gets semi hard, overthinks, and then goes soft. I faked the second cum; not sure if he noticed but if he did, he didn’t let on. In the end I did manage to get him to cum, once I’d managed to stop him thinking about getting hard and cuming. With guys like him he really should just slow down and let me massage him and build slowly but they can’t do that because they are never in the moment. I knew it would be a challenging session and so it was. He’s a nice well meaning guy so the only challenge is trying to slow him down. The second client was an hour later, a new client who had told me he’s seen my films. That sets a level of expectation that means it will almost certainly be quite interactive (for example he’d told me he was vers, neg and on prep lol). I knew he’d probably want me to cum. The massage panned out exactly how I’d expected, including me cuming. Client came twice. Don’t take this as a complaint. I know that offering sensual or erotic massage, and having porn videos out there will inevitably result in clients having expectations. It’s understandable, but I do think that it’s very difficult to always live up to those expectations. Frankly if the client doesn’t want me to cum then that’s ideal for me, even if that’s the only client of the day.

I attended one in London a few years ago. Over priced, over crowded, over rated. It’s a vanity project for him. Avoid.

For me there’s no delineation between ‘massage time’ and ‘play time’. The massage is play and play is massage: they ebb and flow between each other during the session. That’s a proper sensual massage. No body part is off limits unless my client has specified it as so. That means nipples are touched, so are the ears, the fingers, toes, that part of your hand where your palm becomes your wrist…the back of your knee…your forehead. Basically every part gets included because I need to know what works and what doesn’t. Everyone is different. Regarding the stomach, it’s definitely a part that can feel great if done properly. I work Clockwise around the abdomen (never anticlockwise), and apply firm pressure, rhythmically with the breathing, at each quarter of the hour on a clock face. Spa masseurs wouldn’t do that.

I find it difficult not to kiss. When one really gets into things and the client is passionate and responsive I just find it natural to kiss. Some clients will turn their head away indicating they don’t want to kiss but most just accept it willingly. It is of course extremely intimate, which is why there’s some who draw the line at kissing.

That’s not quite true though is it. The guys requiring a face pic are choosing you. These guys aren’t really escorts; they’re guys who have discovered they can monetise their sex life. Is that going to be a fun session?

One interesting one was being hired to go to a sauna. The client had used a sauna (bath house) a few times and was annoyed that no one would play with him. He wanted to get into some group action there and get DP’d. So he hired me to hit him up at the sauna and make this fantasy happen. Basically I had to turn up after he’d been in there for an hour, find him, act as if we’d never met before, and have sex with him so that it would attract guys to watch and join in and he’d get DP’d and have multiple loads. I did warn him it might not happen and he should hire two of us to be certain of it but he didn’t want to spend that much and he was convinced he’d get loads of guys if they saw him with me. It wasn’t entirely successful…The place was busy enough and I found him in the jacuzzi. I sat next to him and after an appropriate period of time we started kissing and playing. Another guy in there joined in for a bit but then the attendant saw us and told us off for sucking cock in there so we went to the steam room. I sucked the client in there but no one seemed interested in joining, plus it was too steamy and hot. We tried a few other places; cinema room, sauna, corridor but guys seemed only interested in me not my client which started to annoy him. I suggested we find a cabin and leave the door open while we fucked to see if anyone would join us. He was up for this so we found a nice cabin where lots of people walked by and it didn’t take long for a guy to come in. Unfortunately the guy who joined us just wanted to get fucked so I did him and then he left. Next guy was also a bottom so he didn’t stick around.. All we seemed to get was guys who wanted to get fucked so I left the client in there and went out to find another top for him. Eventually I found someone, took him back and we fucked the client but the guy wasn’t really into it and it didn’t last long before he made an excuse and left. I had to say to my client that trying to force these fantasies isn’t the way to realise them. His anxiety and demands were the barrier to him just relaxing and enjoying himself. I don’t think he really understood that.

Watch mine!

Quite a few lol. One of the more unusual ones is a boxing role play. I’m the coach, client is my boxer who I am massaging before his fight. He has ambient boxing sound playing in the background, wears boxing gloves, shorts and a box to protect his cock. I start to massage him, giving him tips on the fight and as the massage progresses we both get naked and I end up fucking him.