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+ Jamie21 got a reaction from + robear in *So many hot guys out there. I'm sometimes amazed that ...
Lots of guys like the idea in abstract ‘wouldn’t it be great if I got paid to have sex!’ but then once faced with the reality of it they back off. They realise they’ll need to be available when clients want, they’ll have to fuck guys they don’t find attractive, and they’ll need to face prejudice from family and friends who don’t approve of their choice of work.
I think it’s not a job most people can do. Aside from needing some physical attributes (because you’re selling your body) you definitely need the mental strength to be able to do it. It’s definitely not easy. But I will say it can be great fun, empowering and give you a lot of freedom and opportunities. Also a great insight into human sexuality.
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+ Jamie21 got a reaction from Peter Eater in *So many hot guys out there. I'm sometimes amazed that ...
Lots of guys like the idea in abstract ‘wouldn’t it be great if I got paid to have sex!’ but then once faced with the reality of it they back off. They realise they’ll need to be available when clients want, they’ll have to fuck guys they don’t find attractive, and they’ll need to face prejudice from family and friends who don’t approve of their choice of work.
I think it’s not a job most people can do. Aside from needing some physical attributes (because you’re selling your body) you definitely need the mental strength to be able to do it. It’s definitely not easy. But I will say it can be great fun, empowering and give you a lot of freedom and opportunities. Also a great insight into human sexuality.
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+ Jamie21 got a reaction from j r in *So many hot guys out there. I'm sometimes amazed that ...
Lots of guys like the idea in abstract ‘wouldn’t it be great if I got paid to have sex!’ but then once faced with the reality of it they back off. They realise they’ll need to be available when clients want, they’ll have to fuck guys they don’t find attractive, and they’ll need to face prejudice from family and friends who don’t approve of their choice of work.
I think it’s not a job most people can do. Aside from needing some physical attributes (because you’re selling your body) you definitely need the mental strength to be able to do it. It’s definitely not easy. But I will say it can be great fun, empowering and give you a lot of freedom and opportunities. Also a great insight into human sexuality.
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+ Jamie21 got a reaction from josh282282 in *So many hot guys out there. I'm sometimes amazed that ...
Lots of guys like the idea in abstract ‘wouldn’t it be great if I got paid to have sex!’ but then once faced with the reality of it they back off. They realise they’ll need to be available when clients want, they’ll have to fuck guys they don’t find attractive, and they’ll need to face prejudice from family and friends who don’t approve of their choice of work.
I think it’s not a job most people can do. Aside from needing some physical attributes (because you’re selling your body) you definitely need the mental strength to be able to do it. It’s definitely not easy. But I will say it can be great fun, empowering and give you a lot of freedom and opportunities. Also a great insight into human sexuality.
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+ Jamie21 got a reaction from marylander1940 in Why do so many guys look horrible on prep?
I use prep. I used to look fabulous and my life was awesome, but since I stopped using condoms I’ve noticed things change. Losing weight in the face, feeling tired, losing that sparkle. I keep losing my car keys, the elastic in my favourite underwear has gone, my pot plants are dying and last Thursday I broke a finger nail 😕……. But my sex life is fantastic, I never need to fumble around for a condom, or try to open it with oily hands. I can feel it in my hole when guys cum in me and it’s great to have the load dribble out afterwards. Also when I fuck I can feel so much more and guys always appreciate getting bred, especially clients or if I’m filming porn.
I guess I’m happy with the trade offs, I can eat more, buy new pants…and plants and get my nails done… and keep having raw sex. My decision.
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+ Jamie21 got a reaction from NJF in Why do so many guys look horrible on prep?
I use prep. I used to look fabulous and my life was awesome, but since I stopped using condoms I’ve noticed things change. Losing weight in the face, feeling tired, losing that sparkle. I keep losing my car keys, the elastic in my favourite underwear has gone, my pot plants are dying and last Thursday I broke a finger nail 😕……. But my sex life is fantastic, I never need to fumble around for a condom, or try to open it with oily hands. I can feel it in my hole when guys cum in me and it’s great to have the load dribble out afterwards. Also when I fuck I can feel so much more and guys always appreciate getting bred, especially clients or if I’m filming porn.
I guess I’m happy with the trade offs, I can eat more, buy new pants…and plants and get my nails done… and keep having raw sex. My decision.
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+ Jamie21 got a reaction from + newatthis in Why do so many guys look horrible on prep?
I use prep. I used to look fabulous and my life was awesome, but since I stopped using condoms I’ve noticed things change. Losing weight in the face, feeling tired, losing that sparkle. I keep losing my car keys, the elastic in my favourite underwear has gone, my pot plants are dying and last Thursday I broke a finger nail 😕……. But my sex life is fantastic, I never need to fumble around for a condom, or try to open it with oily hands. I can feel it in my hole when guys cum in me and it’s great to have the load dribble out afterwards. Also when I fuck I can feel so much more and guys always appreciate getting bred, especially clients or if I’m filming porn.
I guess I’m happy with the trade offs, I can eat more, buy new pants…and plants and get my nails done… and keep having raw sex. My decision.
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+ Jamie21 got a reaction from big-n-tall in *So many hot guys out there. I'm sometimes amazed that ...
Lots of guys like the idea in abstract ‘wouldn’t it be great if I got paid to have sex!’ but then once faced with the reality of it they back off. They realise they’ll need to be available when clients want, they’ll have to fuck guys they don’t find attractive, and they’ll need to face prejudice from family and friends who don’t approve of their choice of work.
I think it’s not a job most people can do. Aside from needing some physical attributes (because you’re selling your body) you definitely need the mental strength to be able to do it. It’s definitely not easy. But I will say it can be great fun, empowering and give you a lot of freedom and opportunities. Also a great insight into human sexuality.
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+ Jamie21 got a reaction from Decatur Guy in *So many hot guys out there. I'm sometimes amazed that ...
Lots of guys like the idea in abstract ‘wouldn’t it be great if I got paid to have sex!’ but then once faced with the reality of it they back off. They realise they’ll need to be available when clients want, they’ll have to fuck guys they don’t find attractive, and they’ll need to face prejudice from family and friends who don’t approve of their choice of work.
I think it’s not a job most people can do. Aside from needing some physical attributes (because you’re selling your body) you definitely need the mental strength to be able to do it. It’s definitely not easy. But I will say it can be great fun, empowering and give you a lot of freedom and opportunities. Also a great insight into human sexuality.
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+ Jamie21 got a reaction from + Vegas_Millennial in Why do so many guys look horrible on prep?
I use prep. I used to look fabulous and my life was awesome, but since I stopped using condoms I’ve noticed things change. Losing weight in the face, feeling tired, losing that sparkle. I keep losing my car keys, the elastic in my favourite underwear has gone, my pot plants are dying and last Thursday I broke a finger nail 😕……. But my sex life is fantastic, I never need to fumble around for a condom, or try to open it with oily hands. I can feel it in my hole when guys cum in me and it’s great to have the load dribble out afterwards. Also when I fuck I can feel so much more and guys always appreciate getting bred, especially clients or if I’m filming porn.
I guess I’m happy with the trade offs, I can eat more, buy new pants…and plants and get my nails done… and keep having raw sex. My decision.
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+ Jamie21 got a reaction from Jacob_b in How far to schedule in advance?
Wow and I believed them all when they said they were virgins.
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+ Jamie21 got a reaction from Jacob_b in How far to schedule in advance?
You’re very strict! I understand why given the model you operate. My model is different so I can go along with it a few times because it doesn’t cause me any hassle (they cancel before the day so I’m not incurring costs etc. By the third time they cancel with some lame excuse I usually say to them that if they’re anxious then to talk to me.
These clients tend to be inhibited, usually not out, often exploring their sexuality. Their chat reveals they have a lot of misconceptions about gay or bi sex. I don’t want to be difficult to them; one day they might actually pluck up the courage to come for a session and that would be fantastic for them. I like helping clients with their sexuality and helping them to be comfortable with their sexuality. Those kind of clients are lovely because they’re so appreciative of what you do for them.
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+ Jamie21 got a reaction from Jacob_b in How far to schedule in advance?
It would be fine, he can do that. Usually people that book that far in advance are serious and they plan very well so it’s unlikely they’ll cancel unless their travel plans change.
Obviously the he earlier I know the better. If he cancelled an hour before I’d be pissed of course but to counter that happening I always message clients the day before the session to make sure they are still all ok and if it’s a new client I’ll also message on the day with “see you later” as a further reminder. If I don’t get a response to that (or at least see that it’s been read) then I’ll follow up with a message to check he’s still ok. If those pre meeting messages are ignored and it’s a new client then I’ll cancel it and assume he won’t show.
My time waster radar is highly tuned now so I can usually sift out these types before it even gets to a booking being made. Most of these are the ones who like the idea of a session (usually when they’re horny) and so they book it ….but then when it comes to the day of the session they get anxious and either don’t show or they come up with some excuse to cancel.
The pre meeting reminder messages I send tends to be effective with these guys. Plus they tend to try again a year or so later (they forget they were in contact!) but I keep the records so I know they got cold feet previously. There’s a few like that who clearly build up the horn to book a session every year or so and then who cancel it with some excuse when the reality hits home! I find it amusing because when they book they’re clearly running some fantasy in their head “I want you to do x and x to me, I want to have y and z etc….I’m definitely going to be a regular…I love big cocks, I’m very tight etc etc”. Then the day before they message with “sorry Jamie my mother’s cat died…my car has a flat tyre…I’ve got Covid…I’ll rebook soon etc”. Then I hear nothing from him for a year or so until it happens again 😂.
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+ Jamie21 got a reaction from Jacob_b in How far to schedule in advance?
At the moment I have clients booked in for July. One of those booked it 2 months ago. Those guys plan ahead! 🙂
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+ Jamie21 got a reaction from Jacob_b in *So many hot guys out there. I'm sometimes amazed that ...
Lots of guys like the idea in abstract ‘wouldn’t it be great if I got paid to have sex!’ but then once faced with the reality of it they back off. They realise they’ll need to be available when clients want, they’ll have to fuck guys they don’t find attractive, and they’ll need to face prejudice from family and friends who don’t approve of their choice of work.
I think it’s not a job most people can do. Aside from needing some physical attributes (because you’re selling your body) you definitely need the mental strength to be able to do it. It’s definitely not easy. But I will say it can be great fun, empowering and give you a lot of freedom and opportunities. Also a great insight into human sexuality.
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+ Jamie21 got a reaction from DMonDude in *So many hot guys out there. I'm sometimes amazed that ...
Lots of guys like the idea in abstract ‘wouldn’t it be great if I got paid to have sex!’ but then once faced with the reality of it they back off. They realise they’ll need to be available when clients want, they’ll have to fuck guys they don’t find attractive, and they’ll need to face prejudice from family and friends who don’t approve of their choice of work.
I think it’s not a job most people can do. Aside from needing some physical attributes (because you’re selling your body) you definitely need the mental strength to be able to do it. It’s definitely not easy. But I will say it can be great fun, empowering and give you a lot of freedom and opportunities. Also a great insight into human sexuality.
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+ Jamie21 got a reaction from BigK in *So many hot guys out there. I'm sometimes amazed that ...
Lots of guys like the idea in abstract ‘wouldn’t it be great if I got paid to have sex!’ but then once faced with the reality of it they back off. They realise they’ll need to be available when clients want, they’ll have to fuck guys they don’t find attractive, and they’ll need to face prejudice from family and friends who don’t approve of their choice of work.
I think it’s not a job most people can do. Aside from needing some physical attributes (because you’re selling your body) you definitely need the mental strength to be able to do it. It’s definitely not easy. But I will say it can be great fun, empowering and give you a lot of freedom and opportunities. Also a great insight into human sexuality.
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+ Jamie21 got a reaction from nate_sf in *So many hot guys out there. I'm sometimes amazed that ...
Lots of guys like the idea in abstract ‘wouldn’t it be great if I got paid to have sex!’ but then once faced with the reality of it they back off. They realise they’ll need to be available when clients want, they’ll have to fuck guys they don’t find attractive, and they’ll need to face prejudice from family and friends who don’t approve of their choice of work.
I think it’s not a job most people can do. Aside from needing some physical attributes (because you’re selling your body) you definitely need the mental strength to be able to do it. It’s definitely not easy. But I will say it can be great fun, empowering and give you a lot of freedom and opportunities. Also a great insight into human sexuality.
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+ Jamie21 got a reaction from NJF in *So many hot guys out there. I'm sometimes amazed that ...
Lots of guys like the idea in abstract ‘wouldn’t it be great if I got paid to have sex!’ but then once faced with the reality of it they back off. They realise they’ll need to be available when clients want, they’ll have to fuck guys they don’t find attractive, and they’ll need to face prejudice from family and friends who don’t approve of their choice of work.
I think it’s not a job most people can do. Aside from needing some physical attributes (because you’re selling your body) you definitely need the mental strength to be able to do it. It’s definitely not easy. But I will say it can be great fun, empowering and give you a lot of freedom and opportunities. Also a great insight into human sexuality.
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+ Jamie21 got a reaction from BenjaminNYC in *So many hot guys out there. I'm sometimes amazed that ...
Lots of guys like the idea in abstract ‘wouldn’t it be great if I got paid to have sex!’ but then once faced with the reality of it they back off. They realise they’ll need to be available when clients want, they’ll have to fuck guys they don’t find attractive, and they’ll need to face prejudice from family and friends who don’t approve of their choice of work.
I think it’s not a job most people can do. Aside from needing some physical attributes (because you’re selling your body) you definitely need the mental strength to be able to do it. It’s definitely not easy. But I will say it can be great fun, empowering and give you a lot of freedom and opportunities. Also a great insight into human sexuality.
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+ Jamie21 got a reaction from + sync in *So many hot guys out there. I'm sometimes amazed that ...
Lots of guys like the idea in abstract ‘wouldn’t it be great if I got paid to have sex!’ but then once faced with the reality of it they back off. They realise they’ll need to be available when clients want, they’ll have to fuck guys they don’t find attractive, and they’ll need to face prejudice from family and friends who don’t approve of their choice of work.
I think it’s not a job most people can do. Aside from needing some physical attributes (because you’re selling your body) you definitely need the mental strength to be able to do it. It’s definitely not easy. But I will say it can be great fun, empowering and give you a lot of freedom and opportunities. Also a great insight into human sexuality.
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+ Jamie21 got a reaction from polysome in *So many hot guys out there. I'm sometimes amazed that ...
Lots of guys like the idea in abstract ‘wouldn’t it be great if I got paid to have sex!’ but then once faced with the reality of it they back off. They realise they’ll need to be available when clients want, they’ll have to fuck guys they don’t find attractive, and they’ll need to face prejudice from family and friends who don’t approve of their choice of work.
I think it’s not a job most people can do. Aside from needing some physical attributes (because you’re selling your body) you definitely need the mental strength to be able to do it. It’s definitely not easy. But I will say it can be great fun, empowering and give you a lot of freedom and opportunities. Also a great insight into human sexuality.
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+ Jamie21 reacted to Redwine56 in How far to schedule in advance?
I will suggest at least one day prior if at all possible. This will allow the masseur to schedule a convenient time for both of you to meet. He may be booked that day or not taking customers and this will give you the option to create a Plan B.
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+ Jamie21 got a reaction from + newatthis in *Only rich and good looking clients
This topic certainly has legs…it’s at page 6 !! By the time it concludes the 18 year old escort in question will be a ‘daddy’ and commentators will be accusing him of being too old to market his services to young guys looking for daddy.
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+ Jamie21 got a reaction from liubit in *Only rich and good looking clients
This topic certainly has legs…it’s at page 6 !! By the time it concludes the 18 year old escort in question will be a ‘daddy’ and commentators will be accusing him of being too old to market his services to young guys looking for daddy.