Jamie21

A regular is a client who has come more than 3 times, especially if that’s in a single session. 

Correct. I should have been clearer. It’s the unaccompanied “hi” or “hey”, then nothing. What’s even more strange is that if I do reply with “hello” often nothing then comes back. It’s as if they’re testing to see if your number is genuine. 

Well why wouldn’t you..

I find to focus on your breathing as he enters you is advisable. He should enter slowly to allow your muscles to relax while you breathe deeply. Usually when I top anxious clients I say to them to breathe deep and long as I go in. Once it’s in, and they relax then it’s possible to begin a rhythm. 
If I’m bottoming I prefer to start in cowboy, because I can control the pace and angle it goes in, especially if he’s big. I think if you’re practicing to bottom with a dildo it’s like practicing to ride a bike by using a gym cycle. You need to get on a cock and practice. Use a top who will let you go at your pace and try different things. After you have practiced you’ll probably be fine. Then you can enjoy the pleasure of bottoming in all sorts of ways. 
 

Correct. I should have been clearer. It’s the unaccompanied “hi” or “hey”, then nothing. What’s even more strange is that if I do reply with “hello” often nothing then comes back. It’s as if they’re testing to see if your number is genuine. 

Correct. I should have been clearer. It’s the unaccompanied “hi” or “hey”, then nothing. What’s even more strange is that if I do reply with “hello” often nothing then comes back. It’s as if they’re testing to see if your number is genuine. 

I find to focus on your breathing as he enters you is advisable. He should enter slowly to allow your muscles to relax while you breathe deeply. Usually when I top anxious clients I say to them to breathe deep and long as I go in. Once it’s in, and they relax then it’s possible to begin a rhythm. 
If I’m bottoming I prefer to start in cowboy, because I can control the pace and angle it goes in, especially if he’s big. I think if you’re practicing to bottom with a dildo it’s like practicing to ride a bike by using a gym cycle. You need to get on a cock and practice. Use a top who will let you go at your pace and try different things. After you have practiced you’ll probably be fine. Then you can enjoy the pleasure of bottoming in all sorts of ways. 
 

Correct. I should have been clearer. It’s the unaccompanied “hi” or “hey”, then nothing. What’s even more strange is that if I do reply with “hello” often nothing then comes back. It’s as if they’re testing to see if your number is genuine. 

a reluctant bottom is a bad bottom - every single time.  desire is the necessary ingredient 

I love kissing, and an happy to do it with clients but I agree, many clients don’t want that level of intimacy. They’ll be fine to do everything else but kissing is seen as indicative of some kind of emotional attachment, especially with straight clients. 
If a provider really doesn’t want to kiss ever then I think he should say so in his adverts. If kissing is conditional then that should be discussed with clients if they specifically ask about it. 
However, the most important thing is that if you’re going to kiss…you MUST kiss properly. Kissing is a skill, it’s so much better with a good kisser. 

 

A regular is a client who has come more than 3 times, especially if that’s in a single session. 

A regular is a client who has come more than 3 times, especially if that’s in a single session. 

A regular is a client who has come more than 3 times, especially if that’s in a single session. 

A regular is a client who has come more than 3 times, especially if that’s in a single session. 

It really depends on what you are prepping for. A large one needs deeper douching.

Thanks for all your responses.  There's a lot to digest.

A regular is a client who has come more than 3 times, especially if that’s in a single session. 

A regular is a client who has come more than 3 times, especially if that’s in a single session. 

A regular is a client who has come more than 3 times, especially if that’s in a single session. 

A regular is a client who has come more than 3 times, especially if that’s in a single session. 

Here’s my take as a masseur. I get a lot of enquiries that go nowhere (although I do respond to all enquiries!). Many potential clients appear to be just browsing and from experience I get to know the likelihood of a booking from the tone and content of their first message.
If they open with “hi” or “hey” it’s 99% certain they’ll never book. 100% certain if they open the conversation with a dick pic (in fact I lied, I don’t reply to dick pics, or ass pics etc). So if you’re getting lots of messages from clients, and perhaps you’re treating this work in a slightly casual way (as many do) and you have an Onlyfans that makes plenty in a passive income way (as many do) then how motivated are you to reply to someone who’s unlikely to turn into a client? Especially if he’s asking very open ended questions.
I find it difficult to answer a question like “can you tell me about your service?” without writing a long response including the style, content, rates, availability, experience level, location etc. Often all of that is on my profile somewhere or on my website, which the enquirer may or may not have seen. 
In those open ended questions I usually just refer the client to my website if they have questions, which might come across as dismissive but all the info is there! 
The best way to maximise chances of a reply is to approach professional looking guys (don’t be taken in by thirst trap pics), look at the spelling and grammar on his profile, look at how long he’s been around, consider the reviews, look at the quality of the pics more than the content. Then ask direct questions: Hello, I saw you in RentMasseur (or wherever ) I’d like to book for x time on y day, please let me know your availability. If he responds then you can ask other questions. 
 


 

A regular is a client who has come more than 3 times, especially if that’s in a single session. 

A regular is a client who has come more than 3 times, especially if that’s in a single session. 

A regular is a client who has come more than 3 times, especially if that’s in a single session. 

A regular is a client who has come more than 3 times, especially if that’s in a single session.