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  1. Applause
    + Jamie21 reacted to + EVdude in Rimming the Masseur   
    Ha, those days are long gone for me! And I’m more of a happy middle type… enjoy the build up as well as the relax. 
  2. Applause
    + Jamie21 got a reaction from Topform in Rimming the Masseur   
    I offer a ‘happy start’ as I call it on a longer massage (2 hours). Some clients are extremely turned on right at the beginning and they want to be able to relax into the massage which is difficult if you have a hard on and are trying to lay on your front! So I suggest to them the ‘happy start’ option where I’ll suck them off before they get on the table. It can be part of an undressing. I’ve a few clients who like to start like that. Then they can relax on the table and enjoy the massage and build again to another climax near the end. I’ll usually aim to have the client cum 15 minutes before the end. This gives me time to give them a head massage and foot massage to ‘come back down’ from the intensity. Everyone loves that. Head massage after you’ve cum is bliss. I encourage them not to get up after coming. I simply cover their cock with a towel (people can feel exposed after the climax) and then get them to the edge of sleep with a special head massage. 
    I don’t think it matters to me when or if I cum during the session. I’ve one regular client who I shoot in his mouth near the start of the massage as I stand at the end of the table and massage his head. He always swallows the load then we continue the massage. 
    I do get a few clients who once they’ve cum the massage is immediately over. These are usually ‘straight’ married guys who are exploring and the guilt / realisation that they are gay hits as soon as they’ve cum and they want to get showered and out of here asap. I can tell with these clients before we start (they won’t look me in the eyes, they are highly anxious, their messages asking about the session reveal they understand gay sex from a porn perspective…) so I make sure they don’t cum too early. 
    As for rimming it’s fairly unusual for the client to want to rim me. They can if they want but mostly I find they prefer to receive than give. That’s fine, I much prefer to rim than to receive it. 
     

     
  3. Haha
    + Jamie21 got a reaction from Peter Eater in Am I to assume the provider cums or doesn’t cum?   
    Only if you swallow it.
  4. Applause
    + Jamie21 got a reaction from Peter Eater in Rimming the Masseur   
    I offer a ‘happy start’ as I call it on a longer massage (2 hours). Some clients are extremely turned on right at the beginning and they want to be able to relax into the massage which is difficult if you have a hard on and are trying to lay on your front! So I suggest to them the ‘happy start’ option where I’ll suck them off before they get on the table. It can be part of an undressing. I’ve a few clients who like to start like that. Then they can relax on the table and enjoy the massage and build again to another climax near the end. I’ll usually aim to have the client cum 15 minutes before the end. This gives me time to give them a head massage and foot massage to ‘come back down’ from the intensity. Everyone loves that. Head massage after you’ve cum is bliss. I encourage them not to get up after coming. I simply cover their cock with a towel (people can feel exposed after the climax) and then get them to the edge of sleep with a special head massage. 
    I don’t think it matters to me when or if I cum during the session. I’ve one regular client who I shoot in his mouth near the start of the massage as I stand at the end of the table and massage his head. He always swallows the load then we continue the massage. 
    I do get a few clients who once they’ve cum the massage is immediately over. These are usually ‘straight’ married guys who are exploring and the guilt / realisation that they are gay hits as soon as they’ve cum and they want to get showered and out of here asap. I can tell with these clients before we start (they won’t look me in the eyes, they are highly anxious, their messages asking about the session reveal they understand gay sex from a porn perspective…) so I make sure they don’t cum too early. 
    As for rimming it’s fairly unusual for the client to want to rim me. They can if they want but mostly I find they prefer to receive than give. That’s fine, I much prefer to rim than to receive it. 
     

     
  5. Applause
    + Jamie21 got a reaction from + Just Sayin in Rimming the Masseur   
    I offer a ‘happy start’ as I call it on a longer massage (2 hours). Some clients are extremely turned on right at the beginning and they want to be able to relax into the massage which is difficult if you have a hard on and are trying to lay on your front! So I suggest to them the ‘happy start’ option where I’ll suck them off before they get on the table. It can be part of an undressing. I’ve a few clients who like to start like that. Then they can relax on the table and enjoy the massage and build again to another climax near the end. I’ll usually aim to have the client cum 15 minutes before the end. This gives me time to give them a head massage and foot massage to ‘come back down’ from the intensity. Everyone loves that. Head massage after you’ve cum is bliss. I encourage them not to get up after coming. I simply cover their cock with a towel (people can feel exposed after the climax) and then get them to the edge of sleep with a special head massage. 
    I don’t think it matters to me when or if I cum during the session. I’ve one regular client who I shoot in his mouth near the start of the massage as I stand at the end of the table and massage his head. He always swallows the load then we continue the massage. 
    I do get a few clients who once they’ve cum the massage is immediately over. These are usually ‘straight’ married guys who are exploring and the guilt / realisation that they are gay hits as soon as they’ve cum and they want to get showered and out of here asap. I can tell with these clients before we start (they won’t look me in the eyes, they are highly anxious, their messages asking about the session reveal they understand gay sex from a porn perspective…) so I make sure they don’t cum too early. 
    As for rimming it’s fairly unusual for the client to want to rim me. They can if they want but mostly I find they prefer to receive than give. That’s fine, I much prefer to rim than to receive it. 
     

     
  6. Party
    + Jamie21 got a reaction from Wings246 in Rimming the Masseur   
    I offer a ‘happy start’ as I call it on a longer massage (2 hours). Some clients are extremely turned on right at the beginning and they want to be able to relax into the massage which is difficult if you have a hard on and are trying to lay on your front! So I suggest to them the ‘happy start’ option where I’ll suck them off before they get on the table. It can be part of an undressing. I’ve a few clients who like to start like that. Then they can relax on the table and enjoy the massage and build again to another climax near the end. I’ll usually aim to have the client cum 15 minutes before the end. This gives me time to give them a head massage and foot massage to ‘come back down’ from the intensity. Everyone loves that. Head massage after you’ve cum is bliss. I encourage them not to get up after coming. I simply cover their cock with a towel (people can feel exposed after the climax) and then get them to the edge of sleep with a special head massage. 
    I don’t think it matters to me when or if I cum during the session. I’ve one regular client who I shoot in his mouth near the start of the massage as I stand at the end of the table and massage his head. He always swallows the load then we continue the massage. 
    I do get a few clients who once they’ve cum the massage is immediately over. These are usually ‘straight’ married guys who are exploring and the guilt / realisation that they are gay hits as soon as they’ve cum and they want to get showered and out of here asap. I can tell with these clients before we start (they won’t look me in the eyes, they are highly anxious, their messages asking about the session reveal they understand gay sex from a porn perspective…) so I make sure they don’t cum too early. 
    As for rimming it’s fairly unusual for the client to want to rim me. They can if they want but mostly I find they prefer to receive than give. That’s fine, I much prefer to rim than to receive it. 
     

     
  7. Like
    + Jamie21 got a reaction from Yin in Masseurs with OnlyFans   
    I’m on justforfans
    https://justfor.fans/MassageForHim
    https://rentmasseur.com/JamieW
     
    I started it because the massage work declined during lockdowns. I had made massage porn previously for about 4 years but that was for a specialist site. I wanted to make my own films and control the production etc so I decided to use Justforfans over Onlyfans because Justforfans is gay owned by a sex industry worker.
     
    It takes a lot of work to make good porn. We use proper lighting, 3 or 4 cameras and professional editing. If guys want to promote their work on fans sites and make some money I think that’s great, I know how much effort it takes. If you don’t like it no one is forcing you to subscribe.
     
    I agree that there are some very amateurish efforts on the sites where guys are charging stupid amounts to watch them masturbate in their messy bedroom filmed on a phone....those guys want something for nothing but most of the masseurs are putting up good quality content. Please support them if you are able to and if you like what they do.
  8. Surprised
    + Jamie21 got a reaction from pubic_assistance in Status Misrepresentation   
    Don’t rely on others assurances. Your health is your responsibility. @TR1989 said it well. I agree with him. You should take all the precautions you need to give yourself sufficient peace of mind to enjoy yourself.
    By all means ask your masseur or escort about his status. I like it when clients ask me because it shows they take sexual health seriously. It’s probably better though if they ask before the session…. I had a client this week who messaged me after the session asking my status because I’d topped him bareback. I told him all negative and the date of my most recent test but it’s a bit late to ask afterwards isn’t it! 
  9. Like
    + Jamie21 got a reaction from Jacob_b in Kissing and not good at it?   
    I find it difficult not to kiss. When one really gets into things and the client is passionate and responsive I just find it natural to kiss. Some clients will turn their head away indicating they don’t want to kiss but most just accept it willingly. It is of course extremely intimate, which is why there’s some who draw the line at kissing. 
  10. Applause
    + Jamie21 got a reaction from Jacob_b in Rimming the Masseur   
    I offer a ‘happy start’ as I call it on a longer massage (2 hours). Some clients are extremely turned on right at the beginning and they want to be able to relax into the massage which is difficult if you have a hard on and are trying to lay on your front! So I suggest to them the ‘happy start’ option where I’ll suck them off before they get on the table. It can be part of an undressing. I’ve a few clients who like to start like that. Then they can relax on the table and enjoy the massage and build again to another climax near the end. I’ll usually aim to have the client cum 15 minutes before the end. This gives me time to give them a head massage and foot massage to ‘come back down’ from the intensity. Everyone loves that. Head massage after you’ve cum is bliss. I encourage them not to get up after coming. I simply cover their cock with a towel (people can feel exposed after the climax) and then get them to the edge of sleep with a special head massage. 
    I don’t think it matters to me when or if I cum during the session. I’ve one regular client who I shoot in his mouth near the start of the massage as I stand at the end of the table and massage his head. He always swallows the load then we continue the massage. 
    I do get a few clients who once they’ve cum the massage is immediately over. These are usually ‘straight’ married guys who are exploring and the guilt / realisation that they are gay hits as soon as they’ve cum and they want to get showered and out of here asap. I can tell with these clients before we start (they won’t look me in the eyes, they are highly anxious, their messages asking about the session reveal they understand gay sex from a porn perspective…) so I make sure they don’t cum too early. 
    As for rimming it’s fairly unusual for the client to want to rim me. They can if they want but mostly I find they prefer to receive than give. That’s fine, I much prefer to rim than to receive it. 
     

     
  11. Like
    + Jamie21 got a reaction from Jacob_b in Status Misrepresentation   
    Don’t rely on others assurances. Your health is your responsibility. @TR1989 said it well. I agree with him. You should take all the precautions you need to give yourself sufficient peace of mind to enjoy yourself.
    By all means ask your masseur or escort about his status. I like it when clients ask me because it shows they take sexual health seriously. It’s probably better though if they ask before the session…. I had a client this week who messaged me after the session asking my status because I’d topped him bareback. I told him all negative and the date of my most recent test but it’s a bit late to ask afterwards isn’t it! 
  12. Applause
    + Jamie21 got a reaction from MassageCommunityMember in Rimming the Masseur   
    I offer a ‘happy start’ as I call it on a longer massage (2 hours). Some clients are extremely turned on right at the beginning and they want to be able to relax into the massage which is difficult if you have a hard on and are trying to lay on your front! So I suggest to them the ‘happy start’ option where I’ll suck them off before they get on the table. It can be part of an undressing. I’ve a few clients who like to start like that. Then they can relax on the table and enjoy the massage and build again to another climax near the end. I’ll usually aim to have the client cum 15 minutes before the end. This gives me time to give them a head massage and foot massage to ‘come back down’ from the intensity. Everyone loves that. Head massage after you’ve cum is bliss. I encourage them not to get up after coming. I simply cover their cock with a towel (people can feel exposed after the climax) and then get them to the edge of sleep with a special head massage. 
    I don’t think it matters to me when or if I cum during the session. I’ve one regular client who I shoot in his mouth near the start of the massage as I stand at the end of the table and massage his head. He always swallows the load then we continue the massage. 
    I do get a few clients who once they’ve cum the massage is immediately over. These are usually ‘straight’ married guys who are exploring and the guilt / realisation that they are gay hits as soon as they’ve cum and they want to get showered and out of here asap. I can tell with these clients before we start (they won’t look me in the eyes, they are highly anxious, their messages asking about the session reveal they understand gay sex from a porn perspective…) so I make sure they don’t cum too early. 
    As for rimming it’s fairly unusual for the client to want to rim me. They can if they want but mostly I find they prefer to receive than give. That’s fine, I much prefer to rim than to receive it. 
     

     
  13. Thanks
    + Jamie21 got a reaction from Petris Sage in Rimming the Masseur   
    I offer a ‘happy start’ as I call it on a longer massage (2 hours). Some clients are extremely turned on right at the beginning and they want to be able to relax into the massage which is difficult if you have a hard on and are trying to lay on your front! So I suggest to them the ‘happy start’ option where I’ll suck them off before they get on the table. It can be part of an undressing. I’ve a few clients who like to start like that. Then they can relax on the table and enjoy the massage and build again to another climax near the end. I’ll usually aim to have the client cum 15 minutes before the end. This gives me time to give them a head massage and foot massage to ‘come back down’ from the intensity. Everyone loves that. Head massage after you’ve cum is bliss. I encourage them not to get up after coming. I simply cover their cock with a towel (people can feel exposed after the climax) and then get them to the edge of sleep with a special head massage. 
    I don’t think it matters to me when or if I cum during the session. I’ve one regular client who I shoot in his mouth near the start of the massage as I stand at the end of the table and massage his head. He always swallows the load then we continue the massage. 
    I do get a few clients who once they’ve cum the massage is immediately over. These are usually ‘straight’ married guys who are exploring and the guilt / realisation that they are gay hits as soon as they’ve cum and they want to get showered and out of here asap. I can tell with these clients before we start (they won’t look me in the eyes, they are highly anxious, their messages asking about the session reveal they understand gay sex from a porn perspective…) so I make sure they don’t cum too early. 
    As for rimming it’s fairly unusual for the client to want to rim me. They can if they want but mostly I find they prefer to receive than give. That’s fine, I much prefer to rim than to receive it. 
     

     
  14. Applause
    + Jamie21 reacted to BeHappy in Rimming the Masseur   
    I like the concept!  I think I will give it try!  Happy Beginning and Ending sounds fun as well!  A deep rimming in between as well!
     
     
  15. Love
    + Jamie21 got a reaction from Aaron 90 in Rimming the Masseur   
    I offer a ‘happy start’ as I call it on a longer massage (2 hours). Some clients are extremely turned on right at the beginning and they want to be able to relax into the massage which is difficult if you have a hard on and are trying to lay on your front! So I suggest to them the ‘happy start’ option where I’ll suck them off before they get on the table. It can be part of an undressing. I’ve a few clients who like to start like that. Then they can relax on the table and enjoy the massage and build again to another climax near the end. I’ll usually aim to have the client cum 15 minutes before the end. This gives me time to give them a head massage and foot massage to ‘come back down’ from the intensity. Everyone loves that. Head massage after you’ve cum is bliss. I encourage them not to get up after coming. I simply cover their cock with a towel (people can feel exposed after the climax) and then get them to the edge of sleep with a special head massage. 
    I don’t think it matters to me when or if I cum during the session. I’ve one regular client who I shoot in his mouth near the start of the massage as I stand at the end of the table and massage his head. He always swallows the load then we continue the massage. 
    I do get a few clients who once they’ve cum the massage is immediately over. These are usually ‘straight’ married guys who are exploring and the guilt / realisation that they are gay hits as soon as they’ve cum and they want to get showered and out of here asap. I can tell with these clients before we start (they won’t look me in the eyes, they are highly anxious, their messages asking about the session reveal they understand gay sex from a porn perspective…) so I make sure they don’t cum too early. 
    As for rimming it’s fairly unusual for the client to want to rim me. They can if they want but mostly I find they prefer to receive than give. That’s fine, I much prefer to rim than to receive it. 
     

     
  16. Haha
    + Jamie21 reacted to soloyo215 in Rimming the Masseur   
    Depends. It's not a rule, I have not rimmed that many masseurs, but done other things to their butts that might require some rinsing afterwards.
     
    You got me at "happy start".
  17. Like
    + Jamie21 got a reaction from soloyo215 in Rimming the Masseur   
    I offer a ‘happy start’ as I call it on a longer massage (2 hours). Some clients are extremely turned on right at the beginning and they want to be able to relax into the massage which is difficult if you have a hard on and are trying to lay on your front! So I suggest to them the ‘happy start’ option where I’ll suck them off before they get on the table. It can be part of an undressing. I’ve a few clients who like to start like that. Then they can relax on the table and enjoy the massage and build again to another climax near the end. I’ll usually aim to have the client cum 15 minutes before the end. This gives me time to give them a head massage and foot massage to ‘come back down’ from the intensity. Everyone loves that. Head massage after you’ve cum is bliss. I encourage them not to get up after coming. I simply cover their cock with a towel (people can feel exposed after the climax) and then get them to the edge of sleep with a special head massage. 
    I don’t think it matters to me when or if I cum during the session. I’ve one regular client who I shoot in his mouth near the start of the massage as I stand at the end of the table and massage his head. He always swallows the load then we continue the massage. 
    I do get a few clients who once they’ve cum the massage is immediately over. These are usually ‘straight’ married guys who are exploring and the guilt / realisation that they are gay hits as soon as they’ve cum and they want to get showered and out of here asap. I can tell with these clients before we start (they won’t look me in the eyes, they are highly anxious, their messages asking about the session reveal they understand gay sex from a porn perspective…) so I make sure they don’t cum too early. 
    As for rimming it’s fairly unusual for the client to want to rim me. They can if they want but mostly I find they prefer to receive than give. That’s fine, I much prefer to rim than to receive it. 
     

     
  18. Agree
    + Jamie21 got a reaction from Nightowl in Transition from therapeutic to erotic with therapist   
    Book an erotic massage with him. He must advertise those somewhere, so book via that. He definitely won’t transition from therapeutic to erotic mid session for you because firstly it’s not ethical to do so, secondly you’ll have paid (or been quoted)  the lower therapeutic rate, and thirdly he won’t have mentally (and physically) prepared for erotic. 
    These things are two separate services. Don’t muddle them up. 
  19. Applause
    + Jamie21 got a reaction from Poppie in Rimming the Masseur   
    I offer a ‘happy start’ as I call it on a longer massage (2 hours). Some clients are extremely turned on right at the beginning and they want to be able to relax into the massage which is difficult if you have a hard on and are trying to lay on your front! So I suggest to them the ‘happy start’ option where I’ll suck them off before they get on the table. It can be part of an undressing. I’ve a few clients who like to start like that. Then they can relax on the table and enjoy the massage and build again to another climax near the end. I’ll usually aim to have the client cum 15 minutes before the end. This gives me time to give them a head massage and foot massage to ‘come back down’ from the intensity. Everyone loves that. Head massage after you’ve cum is bliss. I encourage them not to get up after coming. I simply cover their cock with a towel (people can feel exposed after the climax) and then get them to the edge of sleep with a special head massage. 
    I don’t think it matters to me when or if I cum during the session. I’ve one regular client who I shoot in his mouth near the start of the massage as I stand at the end of the table and massage his head. He always swallows the load then we continue the massage. 
    I do get a few clients who once they’ve cum the massage is immediately over. These are usually ‘straight’ married guys who are exploring and the guilt / realisation that they are gay hits as soon as they’ve cum and they want to get showered and out of here asap. I can tell with these clients before we start (they won’t look me in the eyes, they are highly anxious, their messages asking about the session reveal they understand gay sex from a porn perspective…) so I make sure they don’t cum too early. 
    As for rimming it’s fairly unusual for the client to want to rim me. They can if they want but mostly I find they prefer to receive than give. That’s fine, I much prefer to rim than to receive it. 
     

     
  20. Like
    + Jamie21 got a reaction from + MysticMenace in Rimming the Masseur   
    I offer a ‘happy start’ as I call it on a longer massage (2 hours). Some clients are extremely turned on right at the beginning and they want to be able to relax into the massage which is difficult if you have a hard on and are trying to lay on your front! So I suggest to them the ‘happy start’ option where I’ll suck them off before they get on the table. It can be part of an undressing. I’ve a few clients who like to start like that. Then they can relax on the table and enjoy the massage and build again to another climax near the end. I’ll usually aim to have the client cum 15 minutes before the end. This gives me time to give them a head massage and foot massage to ‘come back down’ from the intensity. Everyone loves that. Head massage after you’ve cum is bliss. I encourage them not to get up after coming. I simply cover their cock with a towel (people can feel exposed after the climax) and then get them to the edge of sleep with a special head massage. 
    I don’t think it matters to me when or if I cum during the session. I’ve one regular client who I shoot in his mouth near the start of the massage as I stand at the end of the table and massage his head. He always swallows the load then we continue the massage. 
    I do get a few clients who once they’ve cum the massage is immediately over. These are usually ‘straight’ married guys who are exploring and the guilt / realisation that they are gay hits as soon as they’ve cum and they want to get showered and out of here asap. I can tell with these clients before we start (they won’t look me in the eyes, they are highly anxious, their messages asking about the session reveal they understand gay sex from a porn perspective…) so I make sure they don’t cum too early. 
    As for rimming it’s fairly unusual for the client to want to rim me. They can if they want but mostly I find they prefer to receive than give. That’s fine, I much prefer to rim than to receive it. 
     

     
  21. Haha
    + Jamie21 reacted to mike carey in Do providers cum out of obligation, or desire?   
    Just don't mention Sheridan.
  22. Applause
    + Jamie21 reacted to nomad in Do providers cum out of obligation, or desire?   
    As long as there is room for a pony, Hyacinth would turn a blind eye. 😆
  23. Like
    + Jamie21 got a reaction from Whoisyourdaddy in Status Misrepresentation   
    Don’t rely on others assurances. Your health is your responsibility. @TR1989 said it well. I agree with him. You should take all the precautions you need to give yourself sufficient peace of mind to enjoy yourself.
    By all means ask your masseur or escort about his status. I like it when clients ask me because it shows they take sexual health seriously. It’s probably better though if they ask before the session…. I had a client this week who messaged me after the session asking my status because I’d topped him bareback. I told him all negative and the date of my most recent test but it’s a bit late to ask afterwards isn’t it! 
  24. Like
    + Jamie21 got a reaction from + Vegas_Millennial in Status Misrepresentation   
    Don’t rely on others assurances. Your health is your responsibility. @TR1989 said it well. I agree with him. You should take all the precautions you need to give yourself sufficient peace of mind to enjoy yourself.
    By all means ask your masseur or escort about his status. I like it when clients ask me because it shows they take sexual health seriously. It’s probably better though if they ask before the session…. I had a client this week who messaged me after the session asking my status because I’d topped him bareback. I told him all negative and the date of my most recent test but it’s a bit late to ask afterwards isn’t it! 
  25. Applause
    + Jamie21 reacted to + Vegas_Millennial in Status Misrepresentation   
    #4. I assume every man I hire is sexually popular enough to have had intercourse with at least one other person since his most recent tests. Therefore, he could be positive and transmissible by now, even if he was negative at his last test and just doesn't know it yet. I take the meds/safety precautions I desire to take care of MY health during our time together, assuming each man could be unknowingly positive and/or transmissible.
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