You have way more tolerance than me. Personally, I find it disrespectful to come off a plane drunk when I did not request a drunk or indicate that I have a drunk guy fantasy. And then to have it continue through dinner, the club and end with him passing out is unexceptionable and I would have been so mad an annoyed. Fortunately for you, in the first instance, the situation turned around for the better. Unfortunately the second instance not so much.