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A couple images below that are from shoots in borrowed spaces. They range from prominently featuring the space - because the host was into it - to almost fully obscuring the space. https://x.com/coxpix1/status/1820852886647230773/photo/1 https://x.com/coxpix1/status/2058991866725724299/photo/1

Well I wish I had some New Orleans plans. That sounds AMAZING. Also nice to know that this kind of situation might actually exist. Just far from me! 🤣

Oh gosh I love to do this to guys. I love when their eyes water they they cough up throat juices. I don’t often get the chance, but I do love it.

This is a question I haven’t seen raised here, not sure if this is the appropriate area to post it. I’m sure I’ll be corrected if I’m wrong. Just gauging interest here, assessing whether this is even possibly a thing. Wondering if anyone would be interested in hosting a nude erotic photo shoot in New York City. As providers, we all periodically need a steady flow of updated photos. And there’s never a shortage of capable pro photographers willing to shoot nudes, but shooting space is always the challenge. We'd be looking for a clean, well lit, well decorated space. Doesn't have to be a palace. It would be a single photographer and possibly two providers, taking turns. Photos would be nude and erotic. The space would likely be recognizable in the photos, which may be in issue for some. The host would be invited to hang out with us while we shoot, and welcome to assist if they wanted to. Though the priority would be the actual images themselves. Obviously all parties would have to agree to sound ground rules to make it acceptable for everybody. Theoretically this would be in trade. So it would likely only work for someone who's an actual voyeur, or someone specifically into the erotic photo shoot scenario. I'm sure the host would be invited to lend a hand, so to speak, here and there as needed. Is this a crazy idea? Is this a thing you could imagine someone being into? I'm sure this community will more let me know if I'm being delusional here. But I figured it was worth a shot.

Not to respond to this post with an advertisement, but… 😏 I recommend myself! In all seriousness though, posting here is a great move. There’s a lot of us out there who lead with empathy and really do know how to create a private safe space to explore. And the firsthand experience of guys with similar experiences is a great way to start getting recommendations. I’d also say… when you start talking to providers, be upfront about your situation and what you’re looking for. And pay close attention to how they respond. Many providers out there have this specific interest and have actual experience in this department. Being someone’s first is a responsibility and a privilege. So take note when talking to a provider that they show signs of understanding that. I’d caution against a results oriented mindset, especially if you’re looking to bottom. Don’t go in with a plan for how much dick you expect to take and how hard you want to take it. Trust that your first time out will be whatever it’s meant to be. Let the chemistry guide you. That in mind, don’t go cock shopping, and don't get hung up on the size of your provider. It’s counter intuitive, but sometimes larger ones can be easier in their own way. Smaller ones have their challenges too. Sensible to avoid the 9"+ club, I get that. But otherwise, providers on the larger side have been forced to acquire some skills in that department, and have had to learn to use their cocks with a certain care in order to make it happen. And the post above... Yes, don't forget to take some time to learn your body and how to prep. I know it’s a hurdle for a lot of new bottoms, but we all had to learn it at some point. It's the most basic act of respect for your provider, an actual necessity. But it's not just for your provider. You'll be able to enjoy the experience so much more without having to worry about that aspect. Good luck! You've got so many amazing discoveries ahead of you!

This is an in person happy hour for sex workers, off duty, not a group chat. No active sex work happening to bust. Though you are correct. Nothing is without risk. That in mind, each month we have a designated provider chosen to skip the event. That way - in the unlikely event the meetup should turn cataclysmic - one single provider will survive to bear the responsibilities of servicing the men of New York City.

Looks like this is a thing now! NYC now has a monthly meetup for providers. Providers DM me and I’ll share details. 😇😎

I get that lots of providers are pretty strict with their boundaries, and with good reason. But... Who doesn't want birthday wishes??? As long as honoring any agreements for With very close long term client/provider relationships, my experience as been an additional hour at my rate at Christmas and birthday. But I'm certain there's no hard and fast rule about this.

I'm going to weigh in with some advice I flagrantly lifted from Dan Savage: Fuck before dinner!! It ensures that everyone is at their best and most prepared when the actual sex happens. It means you're less likely to limit your actual appetite over dinner. Dinner becomes a far more comfortable experience. Rather than being potentially fraught with anxiety (Yes, escorts get anxiety too, with new clients and new situations) dinner becomes much more comfortable and intimate. A celebration of a job well done on the part of both parties. Real appetites have been built. Dinner always tastes better after sex. AND... It creates an opportunity for a whole other round of sex after dinner. It's better in all the ways. And yes, it works just the same outside of a hiring situation. Always Team Fuck-Before-Dinner!

Telegram gives you the option to hide your phone number, so it seems to be one of the safer chat platforms in terms of anonymity.

I know this guy! He’s so sweet! We’ve never worked together but I can verify: - He’s handsome as hell - He really is that tall - His vibe is very very masculine in person

Ahh, thank you, sexy friend! And yes, I am a big believer in passionate connected sex. I never saw the point of sex without brining your whole self to the moment. Meeting men who are willing to do the same is one of the great joys of this kind of work.

I think this situation would involve a certain amount of financial risk for the providers, depending on how many clients actually showed up. Could be super lucrative, or could be a big flop. The key would be finding providers who are excited enough about group play to take the risk.

More intuitive than specific. But I’ll give you one: when guys talk to you too much like they’re sexting, you do start to suspect that’s all they’re doing. When you start getting too many adjectives or - in extreme cases - adverbs, you do wonder if it’s all fantasy zero reality.

I’ll definitely ask questions just go get the prospective client talking. Generally just about what he likes, what his expectations are, what gets him off … And I’m definitely running it all through my intuitive psycho detector. Red flags tend to present themselves pretty well during these conversations. Questions I avoid tend to be demographic ones. I don’t ask a client’s age, ethnicity, body type, cock size. Really I’m just seeking to suss out whether or not I suit the clients needs, and whether or not they seem safe, sane, and reliable.