PileDriver

Lol..of course and a bottle of mouth with peroxide...seldom play outside my decades old relationship...but self responsibility works...had syphilis once (lordy I new I made a mistake the second my cock went in) but dealt with it immediately...and gonorrhea once..similar scenario...how stupid was I..learned my lesson and moved on...decades now with zero STDs... I take responsibility for my body and actions

exactly...even condoms are not 100%...and if any sort of oral play is involved you are open to any and all infections...but fucking relax and be aware and take precaitions and enjoy lif...look both ways before you cross but don't expect to never get hit by an e-bike, no? this topic has been beaten to death on this site over and over of course...driven most by those who are fearful but also not responsible...at least my impression...the reason is probably more nuanced..we are talking about sexual pleasure so...AND willing to old hands with those new to the game at any age and give sage advice but, we did just celebrate Gay Pride...for me that comes these days with Gay Responsibility...maybe just hit a hornets nest...

SirBillybob yes, personal responsibility with Prep and Doxy Prep and antivirall medications mitigate...its 2026 after all... but be aware and be cautious...be responsible for your own destiny and don't depend on a hire to do it for you, no? Including all the other STDs out there. Not fool proof of course but life is not full proof. I look both ways, even on a one way street, in NYC but most undoubtedly will die being hit by an delivery guy on an e-bike before I die of HIV that I received from a hire...

Have never met him but have hit on him...he is Deli available for those who care..our schedules were just too out of sync...the exchange was respectful and pleasant..so now might hit on him again now that might schedule is not so intense

PhileasFogg...exactly...human nature...on top of that sexual human nature...then add to that all the contrived moral crap...everyone take care of their own bodies please..no?

exactly Pensant...own your own destiny

in theory an easy one...everyone should be honest and explicit...in practice it's more complicated...in practice being HIV neg or HIV positive has the same effect...in raw fucking no HIV transmission...in reality maybe the real issue is that if someone is HIV positive but not honest about whether they are on Meds or undetectable, no? At the end of the day someone who advertises as HIV negetive and on Prep can also be lying so...choose yopur risk level and take care of yourself and get on Prep and just deal with it...hand wring and fretting is not the answer on a site that is about sexual connection

Maybe a forbidden topic...but it is warm and sultry in NYC and I am a piss top, and a piss bottom...so...escorts in NYC who drink from the tap? Voraciously? And eagerly enjoy a good piss fuck? 💦💦💦🐷🐷🐷😈😈😈🤷🏻‍♂️🤷🏻‍♂️🤷🏻‍♂️

Who are the bottoms with holes that orgasm. Multiple times? Violently? So much your cock feels every bit of it...or your mouth.

Yes,The Lodge does a great job...AND folks I live in NYC and every day I take risks...for me there are rewards to that risk taking...so I think of sexual risk in the context of broader risk taking. personal and informed judgement matters. and also not interested in puritanical thought because it is 2026 and there is information out there and there are doctors who can advice and help you out and gay medical clinics and so on...don't rely on this forum alone...my doctor is gay, my urologist is gay, my allergist is gay and I am open to them about everything

i eat ass and double dip and more but now that I use Doxy Prep AND per my doctor use a mouth rinse and gargle with a peroxide based solution between asses (unless they are side by side 🤷🏻‍♂️)....hardly perfect...AND do all this on a limited basis...have never had a medical issue...it's not a perfect world but i've made it this far...abstinence is not for me but cautious debauchery works...talk to your doctor...and I know a few infamous cumpdumps who take hundreds of loads a year and go down on thousands of cocks...anecdotally they tell me they are surprisingly clean on infections so..AND describe the group? A group of trusted fuckbuds (in my case mostly) or a room full of drugged and drunk strangers at a holiday destination..which can be hot...risk management I guess is what you are asking about? zero risk is zero sex unless you use a condom and sorry but, for oral sex, rather be abstinent...and so..long winded

it really doesn't

does it matter?

Have two assignations lined up for tomorrow....two divergent men...BUT the texting is promising...I am explicit, upfront about the reason for reaching out to a provider..either they recoil in horror or respond and then the relationship starts...are my thoughts out of the norm? I have grand rsults from my approach....have had dense intellectual discussion with men who then went down on me and lifted theirs legs with no hesitation OR mounted me or...AND believe it was through communication before hand...Of course course there has been the spur of the moment fucks, but, just saying folks

Just had a quote for an hour massage with extras...lol..$800..guy is cute but not that cute fior a massage with extras...