Does anyone else get exhausted from hiring or should I say the process of hiring? I feel like no one discusses the amount of work it takes to find a provider you like, set up an appointment, read reviews about them, and make travel arrangements.
Within the past 2-3 months, I've tried very hard hiring men who actively are on RM and I either get no response or ghosted. I sometimes message up to a dozen or more providers in a day and only get a response from about 1 or 2 of them.
With the amount they charge, I expect a higher level of professionalism. What is with the market these days? Are they not interested in making money from doing this service? Do they not want to be in this business? It could be the area where I'm looking to hire (NYC area).
All of this is making me pretty tired from hiring because of the amount of time it takes to make sure its 1. a guy I'm into, 2. someone who's not tryin to scam me, and 3. not regret the decision of spending time and money on this person. With that in mind, the amount of times I've been disappointed or regretted seeing someone also plays a factor.