not sure this helps, but here goes: i reached out to him a million years ago before he was on rentmen, and only advertised on rentmasseur. he wasn't open to any extras, and i got a straight vibe. he now lists as gay. also, i could never get an answer about which city he was in, and he seemed flakey so we never met. he seems to have embraced full service options. i also find him sexy, but i became wary about hiring him so never pulled the trigger.