It’s those solid qualities of integrity and reliability that ice the cake for me. Friendly/affectionate consideration, too — we usually exchange texts within an hour of seeing each other, and this past week I didn’t answer right away and when I checked my phone later I had a series of increasingly worried texts from him: was I OK, not like me not to respond, hoped nothing had happened, etc. (Full disclosure: I staggered home and just passed out from happy, satisfied exhaustion LOL). Massive uber-masculine stud that he is, he’s also a genuinely sweet guy!