purplekow

This thread has caused me to consider a situation I was not paying much attention. I have a regular who has mentioned several times that his birthday and mine are one day apart. The years are decades apart. He has told me on the last few meetings that he is intending to come to visit me around the time of my birthday and that he has a surprise in mind. Now, I was not really considering putting much effort into a gift and in fact, was not even considering a gift for him. Now, I feel I should. As we usually eat dinner at nice places and I have bought him tokens from the local gay apparel shops here in Palm Springs, I think of these as simple solutions. However, his excitement about celebrating our mutual birthdays and this thread now have me thinking that something a bit more elaborate might be in order. I

As currently constructed, there are no age restrictions on those who use these sites. They skirt established guidelines and they avoid taxation by misrepresenting what they are doing. Efventual laws will catch up with them but by that time, the people who run these sites will be long gone and most of their ill gotten gain will have gone to off shore accounts. Most of these sites basically condone insider trading if only tacitly.

So you condone insider trading and taking advantage of the lack of sophistication of youth, uneducated and desperate and politicians and their cronies expanding their already substantial advantages? It isn't already enough that members of congress go in as mostly white collar earners and that they leave congress as multimillionaires. Or that recently a high ranking member of the military made almost half a million dollars betting on if and when the US would attack Iran, making the bet just hours before the attack, of which he had prior knowledge took place? Well, at least he wasn't on the phone with a member of the press while the plan for the operation was laid out in detail.

By the way, the CEO s of those companies are very firm in the opinion that they are not betting sites. They are proposition exchange sites, sort of a dating service for gamblers. This way they do not have to follow the guidelines for gambling site such as local restrictiions and age restriction and they do not have to pay the taxes that gambling sites do. No one seems to be doing anything aubstantial about the regulations which are in place, and as a result they have exploded under the deregulated attitude of the current administration. Now that this cat is out of the bag, the chances of getting it back in will be remote.

I never had children and I am glad I did not have to navigate their primary education. I have no great love for public or private schooling as the one size fits all method of curriculum building is short sighted and prejudicial. Math may be factual, but history, literature, and other social sciences definitely take on the biases of those making the curriculum. However, home schooling seems too narrow and limited when untrained educators are doing the training and of course there are biases there as well. Those biases may go unnoticed as the student and the teacher are likely to share not only information but the information biases. In addition, the social interactive skills of those home schooled is likely to be limited. I was bussed out of my local school district to a nearby neighbor to meet integration requirements in the 1960's. Most of the children in the neighborhood went to the local catholic school to avoid being shipped off. My parents had the Sophie's Choice of being able to only send one of the two of us to the local school and so I was bussed. I am grateful that occurred. I experience a diversified school class room free of the religious dogma of the catholic school education. As I became a teen, it became clear to me that I held different social values from most of the others, adults and children, in my neighborhood. I attribute that to having a different educational experience. I am glad I was the prodigal son.

John Oliver on Last Week Tonight has an episode involving the kinds of sites and it just so happens that I just finished watching the episode. There are clips of the CEOs of these companies being asked hard questions about them and their answers are smug and self serving. When asked about Don Trump Junior's role as a consultant other than his connection to the White House, the two major site CEO's offered no credible answer to his role and why he was getting paid. It is interesting to note that the winner of Survivor 50, before the first episode was televised, had 80& of the bets on her winning. This when there were 24 contestants to start and without insider information, her odds should have been about 4%. The John Oliver report mentioned that Polymarket allowed people to wager as to whether a dildo would be thrown on the court of a WNBA game on a particular day, and as it turns out, multiple dildos were indeed thrown out of the court. A case where people made a bet and then insured that they would win the bet by doing the act. The report also pointed out that 80% of the winnings went to 780 accounts out of the millions of accounts and that 66% of people lose money. I did not read the article mentioned above, but I expect that there is even more disturbing information in it.

I agree with you that a well told erotic tale without a jump to the pump is intoxicating and it definitely will attract an audience. Back in the early days of the internet and AOL M4M chat rooms. I would start chatting with a few guys and then ask them for a theme or a word or an erotic idea. In a designated room, I would then write an erotic story right there for them. I would accept feedback in directing the story and after 30 minutes to an hour, the messages would indicate that they had reached orgasm. Sometimes with a statement, sometimes with just a scream. I kept writing until each of the original men, usually 7, had said they had climaxed. I had a small following of men and for a while I considered writing gay porn, but eventually, I found my imagination was richer than my actual life and decided to change that around.

I do not know if Vin Marco is ever really finished. I had experienced his having an orgasm and then just continue on to the next one. In his case, I would say he peaks more than finishes. Agree that he did enjoy nipple play.

I do not like to celebrate my birthday and most of my regular escorts do not know when it is. I did have an escort send a nice floral arrangement for a birthday one time. I had hired him for several days the week prior but there was some tension at the end of the appointment. I looked upon the flowers as a concilatory gesture as well as a felicitation.

He is good company, especially if you are a sports fan. When I lived on the East Coast, I would see him once or twice a month and we would spend several hours together after the session, just talking about life. Everything and anything, except polltics, as we both agreed that nothing good would come from that. So we used the no politics nor religion during an encounter. Surprised he is wanting to do overnights though, as he has obligations which keep him pretty busy in the early morning hours. .

I am like the anchor store at a mall. He knows he is going to be able to pay for his trip to town and have three days to plan for the rest of the time he is in the area. The frequency of these encounters accounts for his willingness to give me that kind of rate.

I have taken to having an escort do 3 days for 1500. I am usually having an encounter upon arrival, later that evening and before bed. The next day morning, afternoon and night and then morning and perhaps before leaving. I have an active libido, so I am not struggling to do this. That makes 7 encounters for 1500 or just about 200 per encounter. Now I usually take them out to dinner and lunch and make breakfast at home and sometimes I pay for a day pass to the gym for them when I have a training session. So I get three full days of company and a lot of sex, for a man of my age. They get a guarantee of money, no hotel fee and use of my pool and several meals and a day at the gym. In truth, I enjoy the not fucking part as much if not more than the sex though I thoroughly enjoy the sex. A three day, usually midweek encounter once or twice a month keeps me satisfied enough that I am not usually looking to hire otherwise and if the urge hits, I hit up the apps for a NSA encounter. Now the finances of this or the personal situation I have may not work for everyone, but it works for me. In addition, every once and again, the escort and I will go out and manage to pick up a third guy that is hot enough for the escort to do for free and for me to have included in the threeway. Think out of the box rather than moan about expenses that are only getting higher for we hobbyists.

I do not use dating apps much but I had an encounter recently and would like some feedback. After a brief text conversation, the texter said that his husband was out of town and he was just finishing dinner and then headed out to the hot tub. I said I was just leaving the gym and headed home. He suggested I stop by his house. As it turns out, he lives less than a 1/4 mile from my home. I arrived and entered his yard through the gate as he texted me to do so only after I texted him that I had arrived. I introduced myself, he did not. He sat and indicated that I should do so and then he took out a joint. He lit it, smoked it and said nothing. No offer to partake was made to me. (I would have refused so I did not ask to partake.) I asked a few basic questions and his answers were short with no questions for me in return. He appeared very stoned and sort of gazed off for a minute or more at a time. After trying to initiate some human to human interaction without success, I told him I was leaving. He walked me out and then asked me to contact him again. This was not the oddest interaction I have had on first meets, but it was right up there. My question is for those more experienced in these type of encounters, is it common to not exchange names? to not offer a beverage or recreation drug if one is using it? I was not particularly attracted to him but I gave the courtesy of trying to make a connection, should I have just said thanks but no thanks and gone home after the initial eyeballing? What is the proper etiquette for these kinds of encounters?

If you are looking to contact him and need contact info DM me. He has asked me to give him a heads up with anyone who wants to see him and get their info so he can e mail them. He responds very quickly.

I am going with the tattoos as the but of his response and it is likely you surmised that. Not tattoo fan but if the body is hot enough, I can overlook them. This body, not hot enough to overlook all those tattoos for me. Others who enjoy cave drawings on their men, have fun.