purplekow

Well they are likely more reliable than the CDC these days.  

This thread has caused me to consider a situation I was not paying much attention.  I have a regular who has mentioned several times that his birthday and mine are one day apart.  The years are decades apart.  He has told me on the last few meetings that he is intending to come to visit me around the time of my birthday and that he has a surprise in mind.  
Now, I was not really considering putting much effort into a gift and in fact, was not even considering a gift for him.  Now, I feel I should.  As we usually eat dinner at nice places and I have bought him tokens from the local gay apparel shops here in Palm Springs, I think of these as simple solutions.  However, his excitement about celebrating our mutual birthdays and this thread now have me thinking that something a bit more elaborate might be in order.   I

I do not like to celebrate my birthday and most of my regular escorts do not know when it is.  I did have an escort send a nice floral arrangement for a birthday one time. I had hired him for several days the week prior but there was some tension at the end of the appointment.  I looked upon the flowers as a concilatory gesture as well as a felicitation.

Well they are likely more reliable than the CDC these days.  

Just got back from my post hospital follow up.  So far so good, but nothing is certain.  In any case, my current regular guy will be here in ten day and while he does not know what we will be doing apart from the usual frolicking, I am sure he will be okay with it.  He has volunteered to help me clean my house before and I will enjoy watching him do so in a minimal, if any, attire.

Just got back from my post hospital follow up.  So far so good, but nothing is certain.  In any case, my current regular guy will be here in ten day and while he does not know what we will be doing apart from the usual frolicking, I am sure he will be okay with it.  He has volunteered to help me clean my house before and I will enjoy watching him do so in a minimal, if any, attire.

There is a benefit to more frequent ejaculation when a man has a prostate infection as if help to clear out some of the bacteria.  Masturbation also has a salutory effect on mood and general health.  According to his formula, I would be in the 2 day refractory period which is not the case for me at all.  When I have a willing, or even a reluctant partner, I am usually able to have 2 or three orgasms a day for several days in a row.  Once that partner is gone, I might not have an orgasm again for a week or two but should another partner appear, that shortens that refractory period back to zero.  Granted these are not the encyclopedia raising erections I had as a teen, but the orgasm is in some ways more intense even though it requires a bit more effort.  

Draven Navarro stayed at Canyon Club during one of the Forum weekends.  He was staying on the second floor and watching him descend the staircase to the pool area was a treat but watching his asscend was even better.  He wore a tight speedo and he had a magnificent physique.  Finally, he was coming down to the pool area out to the entrance way and I followed him. I asked him to lunch and told him I would like a longer encounter.  He said he would meet me for lunch at the restaurant next door in 10 minutes.  20 minutes later, I was not hopeful, but he then entered and my heart raced.  Wearing short shorts and a tight tank top, he looked amazing.  Conversation was easy.  After lunch, we went back to my room and the sex was great.  For some reason, I was chewing gum and it became entangled in his pubic hair.  He said he could not cut it out as he was filming a movie.  He wa a bit distressed but I took some vodka used that to suck the gum out.  After that, I continued to pour vodka over his body and suck it back up.  So, I got laid and drunk at the same time.  
I was supposed to meet him in DC during IML a few months later.  I went across town to meet him only to be stood up.  I was kind of stranded on the side of town in which it was difficult to get a service to pick you up.  Eventually I caught a bus.  It was disappointing not to see him and the travel was exhausting.  He did call to apologize to say that he was napping and did not hear the door.   He was not sorry enough to reschedule however.  He said he was busy the rest of the time he was in DC.  

The Arnold I believe is held yearly in Columbus and then there is the Mr. Universe which I believe is in Las Angeles and the Olympia is held in Las Vegas.  Local competitions are held everywhere.  

Unfortunately, as much as your feelings are real, they are based on a lie.  He is an escort having sex for money and you are a client looking for acceptance and intimacy.  A great escort can fake intimacy for a long time, years, even a decade or more, but, a closer examination reveals that this kind of relationship is very one sided.  The money flows one way and most of the affection and attention flow the other way.  Escorts, for the most part, reveal just enough of themselves to make the experience you have with them have a basis in reality.  Ultimately, there is a lot you do not know, will never know and that, I am afraid, is the nature of these interactions.  There are exceptions.  Many of us, including myself, have thought that this is one of the real ones.  Ultimately, it is usually self delusion and the wishing for it to be so. 
As hard as it is, move on.  You are paying for a service and you are getting tsuris.   Translated from the Yiddish  Aggravation, Heatache.  

Out of the many I have hired, I have about ten escorts that I hired for a prolonged period of time.  I was, essentially,  a serial monogamous escort hirer. who occasionally strayed to others for variety.    I am still in contact with all ten of these men to a greater or lesser extent.  I consider then acquaintance at one end and friends at the other.  It is as though I dated them and it did not work out but we remained friends.  In fact, one of them just spent a week at my home on a trip from one coast to the other.  
That being said, I have never had sex with these men off the clock and once :I stopped hiring them, when we are together, there is not an attempt to get together sexually.  
So, even though at the time I was seeing them, I may have fantasized about being in love, these relationships evolved, as most sexual relationships do into less desire and more routine.  None of them evolved into love.  And though most of them remain in great shape and very sexy, I have never considered returning to our previous arrangement.   One of them did stay at my home for a few days and made a point of walking around naked and at least a bit aroused, but while he looked great I had no desire to pay for sex with him and did not try to get there for free.  

He is good company, especially if you are a sports fan.  When I lived on the East Coast, I would see him once or twice a month and we would spend several hours together after the session, just talking about life.  Everything and anything, except polltics, as we both agreed that nothing good would come from that.  So we used the no politics nor religion during an encounter.  
Surprised he is wanting to do overnights though, as he has obligations which keep him pretty busy in the early morning hours.  .  

The Arnold I believe is held yearly in Columbus and then there is the Mr. Universe which I believe is in Las Angeles and the Olympia is held in Las Vegas.  Local competitions are held everywhere.  

I made my first visit to PS early this year and went again in April.  It has really gotten under my skin. I don't do much - sit by the hotel pool and chat, read, go out for little walks, etc. but it feels very salutary. I'm going back for a 3rd time in October with my husband.

When I retired, I had 400 hours of unused PTO.  I received a hefty check and made sure to receive as ithe only income for that tax year so as to minimize the tax damage.  Many of those hours resulted from working in a hospital during Covid time and the hospital limiting time off to sick time only.   

When I retired, I had 400 hours of unused PTO.  I received a hefty check and made sure to receive as ithe only income for that tax year so as to minimize the tax damage.  Many of those hours resulted from working in a hospital during Covid time and the hospital limiting time off to sick time only.   

That is because the US, for now, is a first world country with third world public education.  

When I retired, I had 400 hours of unused PTO.  I received a hefty check and made sure to receive as ithe only income for that tax year so as to minimize the tax damage.  Many of those hours resulted from working in a hospital during Covid time and the hospital limiting time off to sick time only.   

When I retired, I had 400 hours of unused PTO.  I received a hefty check and made sure to receive as ithe only income for that tax year so as to minimize the tax damage.  Many of those hours resulted from working in a hospital during Covid time and the hospital limiting time off to sick time only.   

Come to Palm Springs.  The heat is actually nice and the pool water is warm without anyone pissing in it.   PM me if you want a meal companion.  

At 10 times a year, the cost is $77 per week.  That is less money than many east coast people pay in tolls or commuting fees.  $11 dollars a day is the price of a smoothie at the gym to which I go.  So if given the choice, I would rather a smooth man rather than a smooth drink so sign me up for the 10 visit plan.  

Well they are likely more reliable than the CDC these days.  

There is a benefit to more frequent ejaculation when a man has a prostate infection as if help to clear out some of the bacteria.  Masturbation also has a salutory effect on mood and general health.  According to his formula, I would be in the 2 day refractory period which is not the case for me at all.  When I have a willing, or even a reluctant partner, I am usually able to have 2 or three orgasms a day for several days in a row.  Once that partner is gone, I might not have an orgasm again for a week or two but should another partner appear, that shortens that refractory period back to zero.  Granted these are not the encyclopedia raising erections I had as a teen, but the orgasm is in some ways more intense even though it requires a bit more effort.  

There is a benefit to more frequent ejaculation when a man has a prostate infection as if help to clear out some of the bacteria.  Masturbation also has a salutory effect on mood and general health.  According to his formula, I would be in the 2 day refractory period which is not the case for me at all.  When I have a willing, or even a reluctant partner, I am usually able to have 2 or three orgasms a day for several days in a row.  Once that partner is gone, I might not have an orgasm again for a week or two but should another partner appear, that shortens that refractory period back to zero.  Granted these are not the encyclopedia raising erections I had as a teen, but the orgasm is in some ways more intense even though it requires a bit more effort.  

At 10 times a year, the cost is $77 per week.  That is less money than many east coast people pay in tolls or commuting fees.  $11 dollars a day is the price of a smoothie at the gym to which I go.  So if given the choice, I would rather a smooth man rather than a smooth drink so sign me up for the 10 visit plan.