purplekow

I have an opinion which may or may not make you feel better.  I have thought that if I could go back to any age, I would pick 38.  If you have taken care of yourself, you should still have the physical vitality of youth and if you have not, you are still young enough to recapture most of it.  You are mature enough to have thoughtful opinions based on experience and learning.  If you decide to have a family, you are young enough to be the cool older dad and if you decide that you do not want that, you can be the doting uncle or the internationally traveling uncle.  Options are open, but many of them with imperceptibly at first but more obviously soon enough, become less available or viable.  
So I believe the best advice right now is to take a good hard look at your life.  If you are living in fear, it is time to drop it. If you are living in debt, it is time to pay it off and plan for the future.  If you are unhappy with your relationships, it is time to change the relationship or move on.  These are seminal years.  There is no turning back and so you need to plot the best course you can for the rest of your life and then start living that life.  
 

I have an opinion which may or may not make you feel better.  I have thought that if I could go back to any age, I would pick 38.  If you have taken care of yourself, you should still have the physical vitality of youth and if you have not, you are still young enough to recapture most of it.  You are mature enough to have thoughtful opinions based on experience and learning.  If you decide to have a family, you are young enough to be the cool older dad and if you decide that you do not want that, you can be the doting uncle or the internationally traveling uncle.  Options are open, but many of them with imperceptibly at first but more obviously soon enough, become less available or viable.  
So I believe the best advice right now is to take a good hard look at your life.  If you are living in fear, it is time to drop it. If you are living in debt, it is time to pay it off and plan for the future.  If you are unhappy with your relationships, it is time to change the relationship or move on.  These are seminal years.  There is no turning back and so you need to plot the best course you can for the rest of your life and then start living that life.  
 

I have found as a recent transplant to Palm Springs that there are many travelers to this area who are great.  I have not found a regular here yet.  If you are planning to be here in late Octover and Early November,that is Pride and the place will be swarming with candidates.  Feel free to PM and we can discuss options based on your particular taste.  

I recently was a first time user of a dating app, Scruff.  I have had about 4 dates in a week with varying success.  No total failures.  Tonight I met a man for coffee and desert and the conversation went well.  He asked about my dating history and I explained that I had only started seeing men after the death of my wife and that my first encounter after that was with an escort.  This led to his asking numerous questions about that, which I answered truthfully.  After that portion of the conversation was over, several times he mentioned that he was not a professional, or made reference to my hiring. He asked when the last time was, and I said last night.  (A great session with Brogan Brogan who I recommend highly)   He said that he never hired.  
As we were leaving, we had a nice make out session and he agreed to come back to my home.  Several times during and twice after our session, he brought up the escort.  He was otherwise a nice guy and the sex was better than average, but his referencing my hiring in the past turned me off to seeing him again.  I am sorry I mentioned it but I am not ashamed of my history and the initial mention was an essential part of the story of how I began seeing men
So do you guys mention hiring or keep it to yourself?  I was surprised by his reaction, was I being naive about it?

I didn't know the same guy wrote "I Fought The Law" and the theme from "The Mary Tyler Moore Show"!........ 
https://www.nbcnews.com/news/obituaries/sonny-curtis-crickets-penned-mary-tyler-moore-show-theme-dies-88-rcna232623
 
"I Fought The Law" existed for years before the Bobby Fuller Four sang the familiar version
 
 
and his voice for the MTM theme.....
 
 

I actually prefer the Crickets version compared to the better known version by the Bobby Fuller Four.  

Probably a hungry mother bear looking for food for her cubs.  No mention if cubs were found perhaps we should call Robert Kennedy Jr.  

Yeah after all this is ABC not FOX.  
I wish they would just go back to talking about Epstein.  

If any of this is true, it is still irrelevant to the manner in which he and Colbert were handled.  Meanwhile Fox lives off feeding this beast when the shoe is on the other foot. 
Your statements just point out how weak the justification is for removing he because of WHAT HE SAID.  If what he said was really the reason, his ratings, the money and all the rest would be moot.   And while it may have been ill advised, it is only the heavy handed interference of the government into this matter now, and with the law changes that made companies like Sinclair possible.   If people were offended, and it seems unlikely that viewers of Colbert and Kimmel skew to the right who are carrying the torches for this, then they can not watch.  
 

Going 56 miles per hour in a 55 mile per hour zone is a ticketable offense, but if you got such a ticket, most people would consider it a bogus situation.  
It seems some of the issues you had were 56 miles per hour in a 55 and others were 75 in a 30.   The finger probe to insert, 100 in a 30, way too fast and probably worthy of condemnation.   The first rub of the leg at the bar, for me 56, returning and going higher shows disrespect and an ongoing desire to speed and that is where the line is drawn for me.  Your mileage may vary.  

Part 2.   He was anything but organized.  He kept looking for his laptop so he could play gay porn.  I told him he did not need it, but he kept looking.  Then when that was located, he looked for a music player of some sort, presumably to time our two hour appointment.  Finally, he apologized for the communication issues and explained that he has had some distractions and that he has a tendency to get distracted easily.    
Physically he was well built but shorter and more cut than bulky.  So, at that point I thought that this was just a big mistake and at that point he asked for payment up front.  I suggested that after all this commotion did he really think I was going to short change him.  I took out the money and placed it on a counter.  That is when this clusterfuck took a dramatic turn to a wonder fuck.  
We started making out.  Great kisser as has been noted before.  When his clothes came off, his thighs in particular were shredded from bicycling.  His body hair was the perfect placement and amount.  His cock and balls were straining agains some sever sexy underwear.  After a heavy make out session which was very good, he asked if I would like to play with some toys with him.  STarting with a nice butt plug, we moved up to a very large and thick dildo which he did have a bit trouble taking and then a serial ball dildo which brought him great pleasure.  Playing with his hot ass and chest and continuing with the kissing was a tremendous amount of fun.  We lay down on the bed and took the dildo out of his ass and inserted me in.  He tightened up and clenched on and rode me in several different positions.  
The rest of the session included mutual oral and several more rides on his roller coaster body.  Ultimately he needed to stop several times to replenish fluids.  I did not ask if that was related to exertion or prescription drugs.  In any case, it was very hot.  We fucked for the entire session.  Afterwards we went out to a local restaurant next to a gay wear store.  We went in the store and he modeled 6 pairs of jock straps, coming out of the changing area into the store proper and giving me and the few other customers a fashion show.  I wound up buying him two jock straps, one black with a red stripe around the waist band and running up the middle of the sack.  The other a faux leather jock, they did not have actual leather. The leather store next door was closed for dinner.  I did enjoy several of the others, but I promised to buy him a gift not break the bank.  
We drove back to his hotel and made out in my car and he was off.  
So it was a big pain in the ass getting to the good stuff.  A lot of the good stuff will likely result in his having pain in the ass for a few days.  So if you are going to hire him, and I suggest you do, be aware, it will be a trial by fire to actually get in his bed.  Once you do, the bed will definitely be burning afterwards.  

I have found as a recent transplant to Palm Springs that there are many travelers to this area who are great.  I have not found a regular here yet.  If you are planning to be here in late Octover and Early November,that is Pride and the place will be swarming with candidates.  Feel free to PM and we can discuss options based on your particular taste.  

There are many travelers to Palm Springs and as a new transplant to this area, I have enjoyed several.  I have not found a regular here, but if you want some information about the lay of the land, PM me.  

If any of this is true, it is still irrelevant to the manner in which he and Colbert were handled.  Meanwhile Fox lives off feeding this beast when the shoe is on the other foot. 
Your statements just point out how weak the justification is for removing he because of WHAT HE SAID.  If what he said was really the reason, his ratings, the money and all the rest would be moot.   And while it may have been ill advised, it is only the heavy handed interference of the government into this matter now, and with the law changes that made companies like Sinclair possible.   If people were offended, and it seems unlikely that viewers of Colbert and Kimmel skew to the right who are carrying the torches for this, then they can not watch.  
 

If any of this is true, it is still irrelevant to the manner in which he and Colbert were handled.  Meanwhile Fox lives off feeding this beast when the shoe is on the other foot. 
Your statements just point out how weak the justification is for removing he because of WHAT HE SAID.  If what he said was really the reason, his ratings, the money and all the rest would be moot.   And while it may have been ill advised, it is only the heavy handed interference of the government into this matter now, and with the law changes that made companies like Sinclair possible.   If people were offended, and it seems unlikely that viewers of Colbert and Kimmel skew to the right who are carrying the torches for this, then they can not watch.  
 

First:  Name names on the deposit blocker.  I have a good relationship with many escorts and if it turned out to be one of the guys I know, I would speak with him about it.  This action is unprofessional and should be called out.  I would expect the escort to deny it publicly, but perhaps there are others who also stayed silent tha would support you.
As to the deposit, if you are prepared to lose it, then do it if you are so inclined.  That you posited this question here, my take on that is you want to do it to be a nice guy but you realize it is a bad idea.   
Unless the debt is to a loan shark, most legitimate bills can wait a few days if one is in contact with the one to whom he owes the money.  Even utilities will hold off closing service if you tell them a check is in the mail but may appear later than the end of service date.  He urgency is not your issue and a bargain is only a bargain if the other party upholds it.  In this case, there is little recourse for you if he does not.  Caveat emptor.  
 

So the lesson here is do not hire him, unless you can get him drunk and hope he makes a move?   
For me, there is nothing shameful in an straightforward, (perhaps better a gayforward) albeit illegal in most of the US, transactional sexual encounter,. That is the case, even if he lives across the street from you for a few weeks and then goes back to Florida.  He is 32 years old after all, not 17 and he is advertising.  From the description, he is advertising premium goods.  

I hired an escort from an agency back in the day.  You know the one David something or other.  Anyway, escort shows up at my door and it someone I have known in social situations.  He was a friend of one of my employees and when he came to the office to go to lunch with his friend, I always noted what a fine body and tight ass he had.  Anyway, we did not recognize each other initially but it then occurred to us.  So I asked him if this would be awkward for him as it sure as hell felt awkward for me.  He said it was up to me.  I thought, well the cat is out of bag might as well get the cock out of the bag too. So we had a session and then regularlly for many years after that.  
So, go for it.  Say you would like to hire him if it is not awkward for him.  I would go so far as to tell him you have always found him attractive and that he is now looking better than ever.  
He may say no but if you do not ask you do not get.  That is the second time I am using that expression today.  If you do not ask, two weeks from now you will be stroking yourself and thinking that you should have asked.  
I would definitely have him detail your car shirtless in either case.   

Part 2.   He was anything but organized.  He kept looking for his laptop so he could play gay porn.  I told him he did not need it, but he kept looking.  Then when that was located, he looked for a music player of some sort, presumably to time our two hour appointment.  Finally, he apologized for the communication issues and explained that he has had some distractions and that he has a tendency to get distracted easily.    
Physically he was well built but shorter and more cut than bulky.  So, at that point I thought that this was just a big mistake and at that point he asked for payment up front.  I suggested that after all this commotion did he really think I was going to short change him.  I took out the money and placed it on a counter.  That is when this clusterfuck took a dramatic turn to a wonder fuck.  
We started making out.  Great kisser as has been noted before.  When his clothes came off, his thighs in particular were shredded from bicycling.  His body hair was the perfect placement and amount.  His cock and balls were straining agains some sever sexy underwear.  After a heavy make out session which was very good, he asked if I would like to play with some toys with him.  STarting with a nice butt plug, we moved up to a very large and thick dildo which he did have a bit trouble taking and then a serial ball dildo which brought him great pleasure.  Playing with his hot ass and chest and continuing with the kissing was a tremendous amount of fun.  We lay down on the bed and took the dildo out of his ass and inserted me in.  He tightened up and clenched on and rode me in several different positions.  
The rest of the session included mutual oral and several more rides on his roller coaster body.  Ultimately he needed to stop several times to replenish fluids.  I did not ask if that was related to exertion or prescription drugs.  In any case, it was very hot.  We fucked for the entire session.  Afterwards we went out to a local restaurant next to a gay wear store.  We went in the store and he modeled 6 pairs of jock straps, coming out of the changing area into the store proper and giving me and the few other customers a fashion show.  I wound up buying him two jock straps, one black with a red stripe around the waist band and running up the middle of the sack.  The other a faux leather jock, they did not have actual leather. The leather store next door was closed for dinner.  I did enjoy several of the others, but I promised to buy him a gift not break the bank.  
We drove back to his hotel and made out in my car and he was off.  
So it was a big pain in the ass getting to the good stuff.  A lot of the good stuff will likely result in his having pain in the ass for a few days.  So if you are going to hire him, and I suggest you do, be aware, it will be a trial by fire to actually get in his bed.  Once you do, the bed will definitely be burning afterwards.  

Well. I got a call this morning to say that we were all set and I told him I would be there at the appointed hour.  I arrived 15 minutes early and started looking for his hotel room.  I spoke with the staff who assured me that Room 238 did not exist.  I tried texting him without success.  I climbed several flights of outdoor stairs in an attempt to find the room.  It was 103 degrees here in Palm Springs.  Six flights of stairs only to find out the room did not exist.  He then called me and asked me where I was, as I had texted him to say I was parking my car.  That is when he informed me he was no longer staying at the hotel which he had previously told me.  I walked back to my car, quite a walk through a large parking lot in the heat.  I drove the ten minutes to the other hotel and told him I was parking.  I went into the hotel and the desk clerk asked where I was going.  I gave her the room number, and hallelujah, the room existed.  She called up to the room but he did not answer.  She asked for the name and I gave her the name he had given me.  As it turned out, though I told him I needed his actual name, he did not give me the correct name.  She asked me text him or phone him.  I phoned, he did not answer, I texted and he was calling the desk.  They asked him for my name and he did not know it, though I had texted it to him twice.  As an aside, the name he had said was his was actually the name of the desk clerk's dog.  Anyway, after getting the stink eye from the female desk clerk and a knowing smile from the seemingly obviously gay desk clerk.  I skulked over the the elevator.  Finally, an elevator came, which was lucky as the buttons I pushed were not the call buttons for the elevator.  After a walk down two long corridors, I reached his room. 
 

It seems I had the best and the not the best aspects of this provider.  The best was wonderful.  the not the best was trying but ultimately manageable.  I suppose some would have given up, but the hard wants what the hard wants.  

It seems I had the best and the not the best aspects of this provider.  The best was wonderful.  the not the best was trying but ultimately manageable.  I suppose some would have given up, but the hard wants what the hard wants.  

Going 56 miles per hour in a 55 mile per hour zone is a ticketable offense, but if you got such a ticket, most people would consider it a bogus situation.  
It seems some of the issues you had were 56 miles per hour in a 55 and others were 75 in a 30.   The finger probe to insert, 100 in a 30, way too fast and probably worthy of condemnation.   The first rub of the leg at the bar, for me 56, returning and going higher shows disrespect and an ongoing desire to speed and that is where the line is drawn for me.  Your mileage may vary.  

Going 56 miles per hour in a 55 mile per hour zone is a ticketable offense, but if you got such a ticket, most people would consider it a bogus situation.  
It seems some of the issues you had were 56 miles per hour in a 55 and others were 75 in a 30.   The finger probe to insert, 100 in a 30, way too fast and probably worthy of condemnation.   The first rub of the leg at the bar, for me 56, returning and going higher shows disrespect and an ongoing desire to speed and that is where the line is drawn for me.  Your mileage may vary.  

Going 56 miles per hour in a 55 mile per hour zone is a ticketable offense, but if you got such a ticket, most people would consider it a bogus situation.  
It seems some of the issues you had were 56 miles per hour in a 55 and others were 75 in a 30.   The finger probe to insert, 100 in a 30, way too fast and probably worthy of condemnation.   The first rub of the leg at the bar, for me 56, returning and going higher shows disrespect and an ongoing desire to speed and that is where the line is drawn for me.  Your mileage may vary.