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In a saturated market like NYC, you will likely find a few who absolutely will. Will they also tick your other boxes for stats, rate and looks - maybe not. More will list it as into, with no specificity of give/receive. Much the same as kissing, rimming really going to be a matter of chemistry in the moment, rather than something he'll guarantee before meeting, and it may be that he's eaten one client's ass, but not another's. It sure is a glorious gift when it happens.

Fee for a shower? May their guilt haunt them down every alley and into every confessional.

Be comfortable with the notion that details of your anatomy and intimate yucks and yums may be shared with mutuals. So long as it's nowhere near a connection to worklife, it's harmless for these folks to have certain pictures in their heads you may not know about...

Aloha! The number of visits I've made to the Valley Isle - and only once was there a provider actively working, in Kihei, and this was several years ago, and we were unable to connect. Maui is very gay friendly, but the tourist trade to this island is overall not in search of MM massage, I guess. If great fish tacos, whales and trade winds aren't enough of a treat, you may have to book a commuter hop to Honolulu, which can be done from Kapalua (up north) or the main airport in Kahului. Cheers!

The OP specifically mentioned the ending of a massage. A Masseur (trained or simply talented) might meet the goal of massage w/oral release, but so might an Escort (trained or simply talented) who incorporates massage into a full service session. If strong massage skills are secondary to the bj, you ought to be seeking an escort who lists massage. If you live in a med-large market, there will be guys who have 2+ ads, and among those providers, some will offer something along the lines of a 90m combo if you ask. Not hard to do cross-check research to increase the odds of getting what you want.

When I intend to book, I have a schedule in mind. Their place, day/date, duration, and time window. When I disclose that in reach-out contact, 24-48hr ahead, they're either available or not, so I don't spend a lot of back and forth about availability. I don't blast. Sequential.

The possibility that a provider might be straight is enough for some clients to be willing to shuck out a bit more, just for the thrill of seducing the naïf

I do not host for a couple of reasons, one of them being that guys are not gonna be turned on when I turn into Sue Ann Nivens. Basic: Preset sealed water bottles in the kitchen and in bedroom. Provide a clean shower/toilet, fresh towels and mouthwash set out in the bathroom. Offer soft drinks first, but make sure you know whether they're driving, as you offer more. Set out ice and glasses in reach so hunting time is not on the clock. Fuck the coasters, just for tonight.

I'm not a fan of Thai style massage, and wonder - is it just a simple equation of investment in tables and space around them, that the men's massage businesses in LA discussed here are all centered on floor-positioned body work?

Well, then. Hire an escort who wants to teach you how. Once you get feedback on your positions and techniques, you can more confidently proceed (with a consenting provider) by leading with your new-found passion.

To the OP, and the question posed: You're the client, and can take a moment for any sort of comfort or hygiene adjustment that makes you feel better - just remember, the clock keeps ticking. Your post's wording is unclear about whether you have never eaten ass at all, not yet eaten his in prior app'ts, or if you're well experienced at it, but just never used it as the first kiss. 💋 It's a bold move, and if you've hired the right man, and you have talent for it, it can lead to a memorable session. I hope you did research on the masseur to confirm he's also a provider of full escort service, that rimming is in his into's and that you intend to pay the rate for that offering. Toss My Salad 😂

Well put. But I spent 45 years working closely with live performers, and know exactly what happens when the curtain comes down. The show has a beginning and an end, for the cast, and for the audience - I accept that, for my ticket price, the provider is an actor who can make me feel like I'm on stage as co-star, worthy of curtain calls and roses, while understanding that I am actually just a few digits in box office.

There are so many out there, of all varieties in age, looks, experience and services, you should look at the RMssr listings, pick three who read as promising based on what you like, and ask for 411 (with links) for feedback. Also search the name in this Forum for preposted comments.

I laugh the whole way thru on roller coasters - something about thrill rides. The last time that response was triggered during sex, my provider was in control of a large insertable that I had brought, and the same laughing fit got me to the bottom of Splash Mountain! 💦