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Hey folks, has anyone heard of or used a site called masseurspa.com? I don't see anything in an archive search. A friend abroad tried to arrange an appointment, and was asked to pay a "booking fee." Said booking fee was attempted several times, with his bank being asked for payment in Philippines pesos, and when he attempted to visit the hotel where the masseur was staying, was turned away by the masseur. Screams FRAUD to me. (I assume the scammer is in the Philippines.) He's working to cancel those payments, and my advice to him is never to pay a booking fee. But has anyone worked with this site and found anything legitimate? (There's a grammatical error and some deadlinks to social media, so I'm deeply skeptical, but want to a) read the room and b) warn others who might search here in the future!) Thanks

You could also save the pic (or screenshot it and crop) to your album, then use the Google search bar to select and upload the photo and search with Google Lens.

Right-click on page, select "Search with Google Lens," select the image, press Enter. Pics 2, 3 and 4 are on RM and Twitter. Twitter and OF are very similar.

I have 13yo nieces who do. 🤣

No idea whether the RM poster is the same, but those pics were posted on Twitter and OF by a supposed NY-based content creator who says he was a former swim captain. Maybe real, maybe promoting his OF.

I don't think the dispute here is between men who like/dislike deodorant/cologne. Though I shouldn't speak for @SecretProvider, I doubt he would have objected if the client had showered and cleaned what needed to be cleaned, then came out smelling shower-fresh. He objected because the client smelled like shit and BO. (Though I also believe the norm in America is to smell neutral or pleasant, not of BO. If you prefer BO, that's outside the norm, and you should flag. If you dislike deodorant, maybe suggest to provider/client, "let's take a shower together first, no deodorant needed afterward." If partner declines, you're on different pages.) But bathing? Come on. If your mama would find skidmarks, you haven't bathed (or wiped) properly. Maybe invest in a bidet?

FWIW, dual citizens must use their US passport to enter the US: https://travel.state.gov/en/international-travel/planning/personal-needs/dual-nationality.html US citizens (dual or not) may not be denied entry: "You only have to answer questions establishing your identity and citizenship (in addition to customs-related questions). Refusal to answer other questions may cause delay, but officials may not deny you entry into the U.S. for refusing to answer questions so long as they have established your identity and citizenship." https://www.aclusocal.org/know-your-rights/us-airports-and-ports-entry/

Maybe. But OP is also much better placed to read his own mind than are other forum members, and has much more incentive to narrow the many choices out there. "Sexy" is incredibly subjective. RM's search function is not complicated (nor is COM's, if a bit fiddlier).

I found 245 threads.

Tons of pics on Twitter and OF under @renato_shippee.

I agree this ambiguity exists, but there's also a lot of puffery and age-shaving and yadda yadda with online profiles. If I'm going to make the time and spend the money, I'll avoid the ambiguity and go with the guy who doesn't list PnP at all. (And yes, I understand even that doesn't ensure he doesn't play those reindeer games.)

Suggestion: use the RM search function to narrow your search, use the COM search function to review the threads of the providers who interest you most, and then ask the group here (or DM hobbyists) for details like sensuous vs piledriver. I'd have suggested https://rentmen.eu/jose_ok, but he's only 8.5".

I disagree, based both on conversation in the gay community and to crowd-sourced sites that describe what the larger community believes something to be: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Party_and_play "The drug of choice is typically methamphetamine, commonly referred to as crystal meth, tina, or T."

You've made some admirable effort with the search function on RM. Do the same here, narrow your inquiry, and I bet you hit payday!

Check out the thousands of posts that address this, then narrow down your range. "BFE in NYC" is very broad. If you make some effort, the community will respond.