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How many times a month is a regular client?

This has happened to me twice in about 25 times. I told both of them that I just wasn't in the mood. I did not attempt to throw them out because they were much bigger and stronger than me and they were inside my apt. We just chatted for an hour, I paid them, and they left. Not ideal, I know, but I wanted to avoid possible confrontation.

I refer them to my RM profile, which lists what I am into and even two or three things that I'm not into. Then I tell them to ask me anything they want (via text) if they have additional questions.

When I read all the posts in this thread I am astonished and I feel like I am in the Twilight Zone. In the last 6 years I have hired a grand total of 30 different men. (I keep a list.) Some better than others for sure. All of them have come to my place. My vetting is limited to looking at their pics, reading the reviews, and asking them if they are ok with most things in my profile. Never have I been asked to pay upfront. Never have I felt at all threatened. Never have I asked them to meet in public first. I must be doing something right and maybe I have a sixth sense for choosing correctly. But there must be other Twilight Zone dwellers besides me.

It seems odd to me that providers whose profiles have expired would still have them visible on RM and why RM would allow expired ads to still be viewable. I think they are unable to open and read their messages. Correct? I sent a message to one whose profile had expired a few days ago. Now it shows a check mark. I buddy listed him and I see on RM that he visits the site almost every day. Can anyone understand why these profiles are still on the site or why a provider would want them to still be there? I have seen some that are still there for months or even years after they have expired. Thanks.

My experience with this has been positive. Four+ years ago I hired a guy 43 years younger than me. We had 3 sessions and they weren't great so we stopped. However, turns out the guy is an excellent conversationalist, and we found out that we had much in common. Fast forward: he comes over for dinner nearly every Saturday night. I give him $100 because he lives far away and I pay for his gas. I have been to his apt. a few times. Sometimes he'll bring the wine or food and a few times he has helped me around the house. He spends 3-4 hours here and we know almost everything about each other's lives. He has met my friends. I took him to Rio with me for 10 days. It went perfectly. Super fast forward: he is straight and has a new girlfriend. She now comes to dinner as well. She is charming and I very much enjoy her company. This has turned out to be one of the most rewarding friendships of my life. Yes, I admit it is somewhat different and out of the ordinary.

Now that the renovations are complete, it seems to me that it is impossible for customers to be anywhere in the main room without appearing on the live video feed, at least for a few seconds. Not sure how I feel about this. Is this bothersome to anyone else or is it just me?

Back from Campus a few minutes ago. The rule here is that if you are seated a mask is not required. If you are standing it is. Most people who were standing were not masked. On my way out (after drinking 1/4 of my beer) I told the bouncer that in the past I was a loyal customer. Then I told him that if he wanted to see me again they would have to enforce the rules. He nodded yes but I suspect my remarks fell on deaf ears.