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I have just come across what seems to be a new gay massage service in Toronto. https://www.toronto-gay-oil-massage.ca It looks like a semi legit massage shop and a well trained Asian masseur, with open info about extras through the FAQs. Anyone on this site tried it?

I tried the 3 month option earlier this year to see whether it is worth it. You do see the private pics, some of which are pretty hot, but I decided to cancel. You get enough information from the public images and the reviews to decide who to hire. I also found it annoying that the provider received a notification that I had accessed the private images. Many shot me back an automated message asking if I wanted more information about services. Two providers actually blocked me. These were guys I had rented and would have booked again. Not sure what's going on there, but I guess they get touchy about guys using their pics for gratification without an intention to hire.

I love the series of tantric massage videos from Surio. Slow, tender and deeply erotic, whether or not there is orgasm. His website is at iamsurio.com. This is my favourite. https://www.eporner.com/video-6es02i3ipG2/surio-scene-5/

I am heading there next month, and would love any feedback about massage shops. Three seem to cater to gay visitors, and have proper websites and booking procedures. Chill spa: https://www.chillspahk.com Genki spa: https://www.genkispa.hk Youspa: https://www.youspahk.com. I am leaning toward Youspa, but would love to hear from anyone with recent experience. I have not been to Hong Kong in 15 years, and the atmosphere was a lot more tolerant back then. So I also wonder about the risks of going to these places and expecting (and paying for) extras.

I signed up for a paid membership in rentmasseur a few months ago, mainly so that I could see the private pictures and make a better judgement about hiring. There you see pretty much everything, but still not a great indication of how far they will go. All a question of chemistry I guess. Interestingly, however, there were a couple of masseurs (whom I have hired and would hire again) who blocked me when they got the notification that I had accessed their private pics. I cannot even message them. I found that pretty weird. That happen to anyone else?

Exploration all the way. I have never visited the same provider more than three times. I love the thrill of the new guy and the new experience, particularly when he opens the door and you see that he is indeed "way better than the pictures."

I see he is now based in Montreal

I used utatante. DM for the details https://utatane-gm.com/english/

I have only hired on rent masseur and think I have a good sense of which guys have any kind of massage skills. The sensual/erotic aspects of the massage should, in my view, be integrated into the entire experience. And the best providers know how to do that. For me, one essential requirement is possession of a proper massage table. I always ask, as that signals that the provider has taken the trouble to learn a few skills. The pressure is way better. There is better comfort for the head and neck. And then there is always that lovely moment when he works on your neck and shoulders and you get some close and enticing views. Massages on beds are terrible, and can be very uncomfortable. I had one once, and never again. A few months ago I visited Japan and experienced a massage on the floor -- with a mat and a head cushion. After a while I got used to it, and the guy really knew what he was doing. And when I turned over and things heated up, there wasn't that awkward feeling that he was going to fall on the floor. So, I may have been a bit too strict about insisting on a table. I might have missed it, but I didn't see any other discussion on this forum of this subject. So I'd be would be interested in other views.

Be advised that Namwa requires a PayPal deposit.

This hottie is now advertising in Toronto, though I think he was based in Montreal for a while. Anyone have any experience? https://rentmasseur.com/HandsomeDexter

I personally get uncomfortable when I am lying on the massage table naked, and the provider is asking me a bunch of personal questions about residence, job, personal relations etc. It is difficult to give non-answers without appearing rude and creating some tension.

Milo used to offer erotic massages in Toronto as Leoboixxx. https://rentmasseur.com/LeoBoixxx He is a super nice guy, and I was very sorry to hear of his ordeal.

Getting the "little things right" is really important. So -- clean and tidy place, if there is music make it soft and unobtrusive, have a bottle of water available, an obvious place to hang your clothes, soft lighting, absolutely no interruptions from phone or email pings, and constant checking on comfort. I will also appreciate an offer to use the restroom before we begin.

Also ask whether you will both be naked. If the answer is yes, then that is an obvious signal that the session will get "interactive." Most providers will give that information on initial contact, even if they will be reluctant to specify further sexual services.