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You said "Jake Walker charges 250 for in calls, plenty of Asian and black escorts have similar rates but likely not in the first encounter". I was wondering how you got those rates, as I've never been quoted that low. Sounds like it was an offer from a few rare regulars? Any such Asian and black escorts you'd be willing to share here or over DM?

Curious, are y'all frequently getting discounted rates for repeat encounters? Is that a deal you were offered, or negotiated? I've only been offered once, and never negotiate. Though most of my experience has been with female escorts, where any discussion of flexibility around rates leads to immediate rejection and sometimes poor reputation - it's a red flag for boundary pushing or disregard for other points mentioned in their ad. But I'm learning RM is a different world..

First time hearing of truepeoplesearch, but I've seen and used similar services for screening hires, they're very common in recruiting. With so many data brokers out there, I'm sure if one goes down plenty will come up in its place

He's pricey, I got quoted $1500. He became semi-famous for being the first OF creator to get sent to prison a couple years ago (the Singaporean government didn't take it kindly) before bouncing back, so I'm sure he already gets plenty of outreach from OF.

I haven't run into AI bots much with messaging, but I have had trouble with AI photos. I understand it's natural for providers to touch up their photos, but when folks use a filter from an app, it's hard to determine whether they've done light editing, heavily distorted their features, or sometimes generated a person from scratch. AI detectors flag all of these as "likely AI use". A couple years ago I'd look for tattoos - it's hard to consistently apply heavy filters without messing that up, or generate a person with the same tattoo across multiple photos, and easy to verify in person. But even those are straightforward to replicate with enough effort now.

Agreed, that guy can fuck for hours. Great kisser too

Haven't been able to meet yet, but I was also eyeing him. He has a website: https://masterdstryker.wixsite.com/website/about

Bumping. I searched for "most reviewed" out of curiosity, and he just happened to be at the top with a whooping 850, and travelling to NYC. The reviews seem real but that number is just baffling to me. Especially since the only other post I could find was this one saying he was added to the provider database (which I cannot seem to access):

I've been getting these 1-2 word answers more often from providers well reviewed here (described as "passionate", "attentive") than newer ones, even with that template intro message. It made me doublecheck if I was messaging the right person. But I imagine they must be busier. Guess we'll see if they're friendlier in person.

His profile says NYC but when I reached out he said he's out travelling. No indication when he'll be back.

We agreed on a time and place, but he no showed 😐He replied an hour after the agreed upon time, 2 messages after, with "sorry just got out of a dance practice, did we agree on something?" I considered rescheduling, but honestly that left a bad taste and I was no longer interested.

https://rent.men/Justinasian I usually feel weird about providers who reach out to me first, but he is my type, and seems fairly new. Anyone booked him?

Would recommend. He looks just as good in person, gives a great massage, and is a passionate top -- boyfriend experience was a good description. Can DM for more details. His English isn't great, so unless you speak Portuguese he'll probably speak/text through a translator app, but didn't have any problems understanding him. We chitchat a bit, sounds like he's off to Boston tomorrow, and then back to Brazil end of May Hoping I can catch him again.

I've booked him for tomorrow 🤞

Appreciate all the perspective and tips folks! The difference in safety concerns and hookup culture between men vs women checks out. I knew about PREP but not Doxy, total newbie to sex with men here, but feeling less sketched out. Glad I found this forum, I'll report back on the hiring