A lot of us are probably wary because many times we get people posing as clients so they can get whack off material or SOMETHING (who knows) from us. So they pump me for information and photos, say they will be in my town in a week, and they will get back with me to book time. Never to be heard from them again, unless they are like a few of the nuttier ones I get who change emails, phone numbers, or even their voices on the phone to get their next whack off session material. Providers are not getting paid when we chat with you, so they are trying to get one over on us. Haha. So I am very cautious with who I am going to spend my time chatting with and how long, and sometimes, they don't even show up either. It's always a gamble.