TxDaddyBear

I am on Rent Masseur and Rent Men. I prefer the first more. I get less game playing on Rent Masseur.

A lot of us are probably wary because many times we get people posing as clients so they can get whack off material or SOMETHING (who knows) from us. So they pump me for information and photos, say they will be in my town in a week, and they will get back with me to book time. Never to be heard from them again, unless they are like a few of the nuttier ones I get who change emails, phone numbers, or even their voices on the phone to get their next whack off session material. Providers are not getting paid when we chat with you, so they are trying to get one over on us. Haha. So I am very cautious with who I am going to spend my time chatting with and how long, and sometimes, they don't even show up either. It's always a gamble.

Life is too short to hide myself anymore. I hid myself when I was young because i was gay, then because I was a big guy. I felt the world was telling me I didn't belong, and since moving to San Francisco, I learned to tell the world to just stuff it. So, I am pretty open about it. My sister knows I give sexy back rubs and thinks it's hilarious. My besties and close friends all know what I do, and I will tell them about important events. Of course, details are minimal, but my work is known. All my friends who know me chuckle and say it seems like a good fit.

I never ask for reviews. I get lots of wonderful feedback from my clients, but seldomly do I actually get a review. I think it is a mixture of clients not being paying members to the site and discretion from guys being away on a business trip or at the gym. I also get irritated when an app or person pushes me to give feedback. It usually has the opposite effect.

Being a Sniffies user, I would never give money (or time) to anyone asking for Gen and expect a good time. EEK! Stick to Rent Men or Rent Masseur, and you won't get scammed. Either the gen dude is trying to scam you or he won't be the Pretty Pretty Princess you imagine him to be. I am a provider, and I use Sniffies just to get laid and be sleazy, not get clients.

I am looking into getting bookings in Phoenix, AZ next month, May 24-27 ,since I will already be there. I was wondering the best hotel to stay in or AirBNB, area of town to stay in and any other useful tidbits to make my trip a big hit. Thanks!

Definitely ask! Some of us love a session like that. Also, if you want me to cum, the end of day is the best time to book.

I love a newbie and appreciate a discussion beforehand. As mentioned here, lots of guys are just fishing for whack off material only! So don't ask persistent questions about what will explicitly happen, their member size, or ask for extra photos. Those are all red flags for me. But you should feel confident and comfortable with the lucky gent you choose.

We are a boutique choice for when people have extra funds to spend. I feel like right now a lot of the money that would go in our pockets is going into gas tanks and grocery bills instead.

I agree. Sucking while lying on the table can be a little clumsy. Some guys just want to do it a little bit, so I usually keep it on the table, but if I feel like the client wants to go to town, I suggest a move to the couch or bed for the finale. It's much more fun.

I am a bigger guy who decided one day to jump into this world as a provider. Some people have no interest in me, others can't wait to meet me. It's always going to be that way. The important thing is to know how fabulous you are and plenty of escorts out there that will happily take care of all your needs. Just don't get stuck in your head. Sometimes that voice is your head is very wrong!! You sound adorable. Come see this daddy bear in San Francisco sometime!

I charge extra for penis breath!! I always offer a shower and clean towel. Mouthwash is near the sink. I like the non-scented soap idea!

Thanks, I joined it two days ago!

I think you could get more providers to stay if there was a forum for them as well. I love getting info and feedback from possible clients here, but I think giving a space for providers to chat would bring more in for the long term. Maybe there already is a forum for that I am unaware of?

I am always looking for a great spot to travel to where I can get plenty of bookings to pay for my trip and put a little coin in my pocket. Plus I love traveling and meeting new guys. Where are some places that I should seriously look into? I am always looking for recommendations, and how to make the trip as hot as possible. Lol.

No way on the pnp! It is bad energy from the get go. The guys are unreliable and when they do show up, you don't know what you are getting. It may feel great to do and make you feel like you are a sexy mighty man for a while, but you look a mess, girl. It also destroyed one of my long-term relationships many moons ago. Cannabis, poppers, and alcohol (within reason) are fine.

I think next day follow up is essential.

It is always tempting to ask for a pic, but I usually don't. Some guys show me everything they got in the first few messages, other guys are like a mystery gift I won't know what's inside until he pops up on my front stoop. There is a certain excitement to it, I admit. What am I going to get this time? I just get ready for whoever comes to my door and make sure they feel welcome and relaxed. I am a Southern boy after all. When I first started this gig, a wise friend told me "Everyone deserves to be touched." I have kept that in my mind since then. It's about going passed the looks and finding our common humanity to share with each other.

That's a great idea!

I have learned it's best to ask first about that prostrate massage! Lol. I've had a couple of surprised bubbas! I usually do a light anal massage when I am massaging the buttocks, and then come back for a little more nearer the end when things start heating up.

I know exactly what you mean. Sometimes I will get lost in the beauty of the body along with the music and my hands gliding over skin. Especially if I get a little moan of pleasure from my client. It can be very erotic for me too.

Having had several foot fetishy buds in my past, I always give the feet a good massage. Ears and temples plus light tickling around the face and head are always fun, I agree. Pecs and nips are a must!

Yes, I always offer a fresh towel, a wash cloth, a glass of water or iced tea. My bathroom is clean. I always clean the toilet and make sure the litter box has been scooped. Mood lighting, unobtrusive music, and lots of welcoming vibes. Hadn't thought about a spare toothbrush!

Ok. So that means touching you more from the get go, like a lover would??

I do a lot of touching and slightly grazing my fingers all over my client. Even a slight tickling. I think touch is so powerful when done correctly.