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    + bcbg1205 got a reaction from Whippoorwill in Caveats in hiring. Please contribute!   
    When I read all the posts in this thread I am astonished and I feel like I am in the Twilight Zone. In the last 6 years I have hired a grand total of 30 different men. (I keep a list.) Some better than others for sure. All of them have come to my place. My vetting is limited to looking at their pics, reading the reviews, and asking them if they are ok with most things in my profile. Never have I been asked to pay upfront. Never have I felt at all threatened. Never have I asked them to meet in public first. I must be doing something right and maybe I have a sixth sense for choosing correctly. But there must be other Twilight Zone dwellers besides me.
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    + bcbg1205 got a reaction from thomas in Caveats in hiring. Please contribute!   
    When I read all the posts in this thread I am astonished and I feel like I am in the Twilight Zone. In the last 6 years I have hired a grand total of 30 different men. (I keep a list.) Some better than others for sure. All of them have come to my place. My vetting is limited to looking at their pics, reading the reviews, and asking them if they are ok with most things in my profile. Never have I been asked to pay upfront. Never have I felt at all threatened. Never have I asked them to meet in public first. I must be doing something right and maybe I have a sixth sense for choosing correctly. But there must be other Twilight Zone dwellers besides me.
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    + bcbg1205 got a reaction from Rod Hagen in Caveats in hiring. Please contribute!   
    When I read all the posts in this thread I am astonished and I feel like I am in the Twilight Zone. In the last 6 years I have hired a grand total of 30 different men. (I keep a list.) Some better than others for sure. All of them have come to my place. My vetting is limited to looking at their pics, reading the reviews, and asking them if they are ok with most things in my profile. Never have I been asked to pay upfront. Never have I felt at all threatened. Never have I asked them to meet in public first. I must be doing something right and maybe I have a sixth sense for choosing correctly. But there must be other Twilight Zone dwellers besides me.
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    + bcbg1205 got a reaction from + Vegas_Millennial in Caveats in hiring. Please contribute!   
    When I read all the posts in this thread I am astonished and I feel like I am in the Twilight Zone. In the last 6 years I have hired a grand total of 30 different men. (I keep a list.) Some better than others for sure. All of them have come to my place. My vetting is limited to looking at their pics, reading the reviews, and asking them if they are ok with most things in my profile. Never have I been asked to pay upfront. Never have I felt at all threatened. Never have I asked them to meet in public first. I must be doing something right and maybe I have a sixth sense for choosing correctly. But there must be other Twilight Zone dwellers besides me.
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    + bcbg1205 got a reaction from + Pensant in Caveats in hiring. Please contribute!   
    When I read all the posts in this thread I am astonished and I feel like I am in the Twilight Zone. In the last 6 years I have hired a grand total of 30 different men. (I keep a list.) Some better than others for sure. All of them have come to my place. My vetting is limited to looking at their pics, reading the reviews, and asking them if they are ok with most things in my profile. Never have I been asked to pay upfront. Never have I felt at all threatened. Never have I asked them to meet in public first. I must be doing something right and maybe I have a sixth sense for choosing correctly. But there must be other Twilight Zone dwellers besides me.
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    + bcbg1205 got a reaction from newdad in What have you done in instances when the provider who showed up...   
    This has happened to me twice in about 25 times. I told both of them that I just wasn't in the mood. I did not attempt to throw them out because they were much bigger and stronger than me and they were inside my apt. We just chatted for an hour, I paid them, and they left. Not ideal, I know, but I wanted to avoid possible confrontation.
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    + bcbg1205 got a reaction from pubic_assistance in Caveats in hiring. Please contribute!   
    When I read all the posts in this thread I am astonished and I feel like I am in the Twilight Zone. In the last 6 years I have hired a grand total of 30 different men. (I keep a list.) Some better than others for sure. All of them have come to my place. My vetting is limited to looking at their pics, reading the reviews, and asking them if they are ok with most things in my profile. Never have I been asked to pay upfront. Never have I felt at all threatened. Never have I asked them to meet in public first. I must be doing something right and maybe I have a sixth sense for choosing correctly. But there must be other Twilight Zone dwellers besides me.
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    + bcbg1205 got a reaction from + APPLE1 in Caveats in hiring. Please contribute!   
    When I read all the posts in this thread I am astonished and I feel like I am in the Twilight Zone. In the last 6 years I have hired a grand total of 30 different men. (I keep a list.) Some better than others for sure. All of them have come to my place. My vetting is limited to looking at their pics, reading the reviews, and asking them if they are ok with most things in my profile. Never have I been asked to pay upfront. Never have I felt at all threatened. Never have I asked them to meet in public first. I must be doing something right and maybe I have a sixth sense for choosing correctly. But there must be other Twilight Zone dwellers besides me.
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    + bcbg1205 got a reaction from liubit in Caveats in hiring. Please contribute!   
    When I read all the posts in this thread I am astonished and I feel like I am in the Twilight Zone. In the last 6 years I have hired a grand total of 30 different men. (I keep a list.) Some better than others for sure. All of them have come to my place. My vetting is limited to looking at their pics, reading the reviews, and asking them if they are ok with most things in my profile. Never have I been asked to pay upfront. Never have I felt at all threatened. Never have I asked them to meet in public first. I must be doing something right and maybe I have a sixth sense for choosing correctly. But there must be other Twilight Zone dwellers besides me.
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    + bcbg1205 got a reaction from Dolman in Caveats in hiring. Please contribute!   
    When I read all the posts in this thread I am astonished and I feel like I am in the Twilight Zone. In the last 6 years I have hired a grand total of 30 different men. (I keep a list.) Some better than others for sure. All of them have come to my place. My vetting is limited to looking at their pics, reading the reviews, and asking them if they are ok with most things in my profile. Never have I been asked to pay upfront. Never have I felt at all threatened. Never have I asked them to meet in public first. I must be doing something right and maybe I have a sixth sense for choosing correctly. But there must be other Twilight Zone dwellers besides me.
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    + bcbg1205 got a reaction from Act25 in Caveats in hiring. Please contribute!   
    When I read all the posts in this thread I am astonished and I feel like I am in the Twilight Zone. In the last 6 years I have hired a grand total of 30 different men. (I keep a list.) Some better than others for sure. All of them have come to my place. My vetting is limited to looking at their pics, reading the reviews, and asking them if they are ok with most things in my profile. Never have I been asked to pay upfront. Never have I felt at all threatened. Never have I asked them to meet in public first. I must be doing something right and maybe I have a sixth sense for choosing correctly. But there must be other Twilight Zone dwellers besides me.
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    + bcbg1205 got a reaction from MikeBiDude in Caveats in hiring. Please contribute!   
    When I read all the posts in this thread I am astonished and I feel like I am in the Twilight Zone. In the last 6 years I have hired a grand total of 30 different men. (I keep a list.) Some better than others for sure. All of them have come to my place. My vetting is limited to looking at their pics, reading the reviews, and asking them if they are ok with most things in my profile. Never have I been asked to pay upfront. Never have I felt at all threatened. Never have I asked them to meet in public first. I must be doing something right and maybe I have a sixth sense for choosing correctly. But there must be other Twilight Zone dwellers besides me.
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    + bcbg1205 got a reaction from + azdr0710 in Caveats in hiring. Please contribute!   
    When I read all the posts in this thread I am astonished and I feel like I am in the Twilight Zone. In the last 6 years I have hired a grand total of 30 different men. (I keep a list.) Some better than others for sure. All of them have come to my place. My vetting is limited to looking at their pics, reading the reviews, and asking them if they are ok with most things in my profile. Never have I been asked to pay upfront. Never have I felt at all threatened. Never have I asked them to meet in public first. I must be doing something right and maybe I have a sixth sense for choosing correctly. But there must be other Twilight Zone dwellers besides me.
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    + bcbg1205 got a reaction from Your Man in Arlington in Caveats in hiring. Please contribute!   
    When I read all the posts in this thread I am astonished and I feel like I am in the Twilight Zone. In the last 6 years I have hired a grand total of 30 different men. (I keep a list.) Some better than others for sure. All of them have come to my place. My vetting is limited to looking at their pics, reading the reviews, and asking them if they are ok with most things in my profile. Never have I been asked to pay upfront. Never have I felt at all threatened. Never have I asked them to meet in public first. I must be doing something right and maybe I have a sixth sense for choosing correctly. But there must be other Twilight Zone dwellers besides me.
  15. Applause
    + bcbg1205 got a reaction from Dolman in Becoming friends   
    My experience with this has been positive. Four+ years ago I hired a guy 43 years younger than me. We had 3 sessions and they weren't great so we stopped. However, turns out the guy is an excellent conversationalist, and we found out that we had much in common. Fast forward:  he comes over for dinner nearly every Saturday night. I give him $100 because he lives far away and I pay for his gas. I have been to his apt. a few times. Sometimes he'll bring the wine or food and a few times he has helped me around the house. He spends 3-4 hours here and we know almost everything about each other's lives. He has met my friends. I took him to Rio with me for 10 days. It went perfectly. Super fast forward: he is straight and has a new girlfriend. She now comes to dinner as well. She is charming and I very much enjoy her company. This has turned out to be one of the most rewarding friendships of my life. Yes, I admit it is somewhat different and out of the ordinary.
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    + bcbg1205 got a reaction from SouthOfTheBorder in Becoming friends   
    My experience with this has been positive. Four+ years ago I hired a guy 43 years younger than me. We had 3 sessions and they weren't great so we stopped. However, turns out the guy is an excellent conversationalist, and we found out that we had much in common. Fast forward:  he comes over for dinner nearly every Saturday night. I give him $100 because he lives far away and I pay for his gas. I have been to his apt. a few times. Sometimes he'll bring the wine or food and a few times he has helped me around the house. He spends 3-4 hours here and we know almost everything about each other's lives. He has met my friends. I took him to Rio with me for 10 days. It went perfectly. Super fast forward: he is straight and has a new girlfriend. She now comes to dinner as well. She is charming and I very much enjoy her company. This has turned out to be one of the most rewarding friendships of my life. Yes, I admit it is somewhat different and out of the ordinary.
  17. Applause
    + bcbg1205 got a reaction from + Vegas_Millennial in Becoming friends   
    My experience with this has been positive. Four+ years ago I hired a guy 43 years younger than me. We had 3 sessions and they weren't great so we stopped. However, turns out the guy is an excellent conversationalist, and we found out that we had much in common. Fast forward:  he comes over for dinner nearly every Saturday night. I give him $100 because he lives far away and I pay for his gas. I have been to his apt. a few times. Sometimes he'll bring the wine or food and a few times he has helped me around the house. He spends 3-4 hours here and we know almost everything about each other's lives. He has met my friends. I took him to Rio with me for 10 days. It went perfectly. Super fast forward: he is straight and has a new girlfriend. She now comes to dinner as well. She is charming and I very much enjoy her company. This has turned out to be one of the most rewarding friendships of my life. Yes, I admit it is somewhat different and out of the ordinary.
  18. Applause
    + bcbg1205 got a reaction from GTMike in Becoming friends   
    My experience with this has been positive. Four+ years ago I hired a guy 43 years younger than me. We had 3 sessions and they weren't great so we stopped. However, turns out the guy is an excellent conversationalist, and we found out that we had much in common. Fast forward:  he comes over for dinner nearly every Saturday night. I give him $100 because he lives far away and I pay for his gas. I have been to his apt. a few times. Sometimes he'll bring the wine or food and a few times he has helped me around the house. He spends 3-4 hours here and we know almost everything about each other's lives. He has met my friends. I took him to Rio with me for 10 days. It went perfectly. Super fast forward: he is straight and has a new girlfriend. She now comes to dinner as well. She is charming and I very much enjoy her company. This has turned out to be one of the most rewarding friendships of my life. Yes, I admit it is somewhat different and out of the ordinary.
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    + bcbg1205 got a reaction from Huxley in Becoming friends   
    My experience with this has been positive. Four+ years ago I hired a guy 43 years younger than me. We had 3 sessions and they weren't great so we stopped. However, turns out the guy is an excellent conversationalist, and we found out that we had much in common. Fast forward:  he comes over for dinner nearly every Saturday night. I give him $100 because he lives far away and I pay for his gas. I have been to his apt. a few times. Sometimes he'll bring the wine or food and a few times he has helped me around the house. He spends 3-4 hours here and we know almost everything about each other's lives. He has met my friends. I took him to Rio with me for 10 days. It went perfectly. Super fast forward: he is straight and has a new girlfriend. She now comes to dinner as well. She is charming and I very much enjoy her company. This has turned out to be one of the most rewarding friendships of my life. Yes, I admit it is somewhat different and out of the ordinary.
  20. Applause
    + bcbg1205 got a reaction from liubit in Becoming friends   
    My experience with this has been positive. Four+ years ago I hired a guy 43 years younger than me. We had 3 sessions and they weren't great so we stopped. However, turns out the guy is an excellent conversationalist, and we found out that we had much in common. Fast forward:  he comes over for dinner nearly every Saturday night. I give him $100 because he lives far away and I pay for his gas. I have been to his apt. a few times. Sometimes he'll bring the wine or food and a few times he has helped me around the house. He spends 3-4 hours here and we know almost everything about each other's lives. He has met my friends. I took him to Rio with me for 10 days. It went perfectly. Super fast forward: he is straight and has a new girlfriend. She now comes to dinner as well. She is charming and I very much enjoy her company. This has turned out to be one of the most rewarding friendships of my life. Yes, I admit it is somewhat different and out of the ordinary.
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    + bcbg1205 got a reaction from MaybeMaybeNot in Becoming friends   
    My experience with this has been positive. Four+ years ago I hired a guy 43 years younger than me. We had 3 sessions and they weren't great so we stopped. However, turns out the guy is an excellent conversationalist, and we found out that we had much in common. Fast forward:  he comes over for dinner nearly every Saturday night. I give him $100 because he lives far away and I pay for his gas. I have been to his apt. a few times. Sometimes he'll bring the wine or food and a few times he has helped me around the house. He spends 3-4 hours here and we know almost everything about each other's lives. He has met my friends. I took him to Rio with me for 10 days. It went perfectly. Super fast forward: he is straight and has a new girlfriend. She now comes to dinner as well. She is charming and I very much enjoy her company. This has turned out to be one of the most rewarding friendships of my life. Yes, I admit it is somewhat different and out of the ordinary.
  22. Surprised
    + bcbg1205 got a reaction from + DrownedBoy in Becoming friends   
    My experience with this has been positive. Four+ years ago I hired a guy 43 years younger than me. We had 3 sessions and they weren't great so we stopped. However, turns out the guy is an excellent conversationalist, and we found out that we had much in common. Fast forward:  he comes over for dinner nearly every Saturday night. I give him $100 because he lives far away and I pay for his gas. I have been to his apt. a few times. Sometimes he'll bring the wine or food and a few times he has helped me around the house. He spends 3-4 hours here and we know almost everything about each other's lives. He has met my friends. I took him to Rio with me for 10 days. It went perfectly. Super fast forward: he is straight and has a new girlfriend. She now comes to dinner as well. She is charming and I very much enjoy her company. This has turned out to be one of the most rewarding friendships of my life. Yes, I admit it is somewhat different and out of the ordinary.
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    + bcbg1205 got a reaction from Your Man in Arlington in Becoming friends   
    My experience with this has been positive. Four+ years ago I hired a guy 43 years younger than me. We had 3 sessions and they weren't great so we stopped. However, turns out the guy is an excellent conversationalist, and we found out that we had much in common. Fast forward:  he comes over for dinner nearly every Saturday night. I give him $100 because he lives far away and I pay for his gas. I have been to his apt. a few times. Sometimes he'll bring the wine or food and a few times he has helped me around the house. He spends 3-4 hours here and we know almost everything about each other's lives. He has met my friends. I took him to Rio with me for 10 days. It went perfectly. Super fast forward: he is straight and has a new girlfriend. She now comes to dinner as well. She is charming and I very much enjoy her company. This has turned out to be one of the most rewarding friendships of my life. Yes, I admit it is somewhat different and out of the ordinary.
  24. Applause
    + bcbg1205 got a reaction from BananaBagel in Becoming friends   
    My experience with this has been positive. Four+ years ago I hired a guy 43 years younger than me. We had 3 sessions and they weren't great so we stopped. However, turns out the guy is an excellent conversationalist, and we found out that we had much in common. Fast forward:  he comes over for dinner nearly every Saturday night. I give him $100 because he lives far away and I pay for his gas. I have been to his apt. a few times. Sometimes he'll bring the wine or food and a few times he has helped me around the house. He spends 3-4 hours here and we know almost everything about each other's lives. He has met my friends. I took him to Rio with me for 10 days. It went perfectly. Super fast forward: he is straight and has a new girlfriend. She now comes to dinner as well. She is charming and I very much enjoy her company. This has turned out to be one of the most rewarding friendships of my life. Yes, I admit it is somewhat different and out of the ordinary.
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    + bcbg1205 got a reaction from mike carey in Becoming friends   
    My experience with this has been positive. Four+ years ago I hired a guy 43 years younger than me. We had 3 sessions and they weren't great so we stopped. However, turns out the guy is an excellent conversationalist, and we found out that we had much in common. Fast forward:  he comes over for dinner nearly every Saturday night. I give him $100 because he lives far away and I pay for his gas. I have been to his apt. a few times. Sometimes he'll bring the wine or food and a few times he has helped me around the house. He spends 3-4 hours here and we know almost everything about each other's lives. He has met my friends. I took him to Rio with me for 10 days. It went perfectly. Super fast forward: he is straight and has a new girlfriend. She now comes to dinner as well. She is charming and I very much enjoy her company. This has turned out to be one of the most rewarding friendships of my life. Yes, I admit it is somewhat different and out of the ordinary.
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