Vulgarii

Maybe maybe not. The most beautiful, well maybe top 3 hottest, client I've had is a gay conversion therapist. 🥵

They must get more business inquiries that way and/or pick and choose which clients they do extras for.

I wouldn't want to be called a sex worker. That's more insulting and degrading because I do this sh!t because I don't want to work. 🤪🫡

I've written the statement several times before on this forum that "some guys think masseurs are budget prostitutes." When I realized I didn't write out the whole statement and that it read like a big general blanket statement, time had passed I couldn't edit my comment. Yes escorts don't necessarily have sex or have to have sex but I just assume nowadays it's a nicer way of saying prostitute or sex worker, since so many people, especially women, want to sugar coat it. If it's empowering then why use euphemisms? lol

Masseurs are budget prostitutes. When you don't want to pay escort prices and don't want the stigma of having to pay for one, shoot your shot with a masseur, but you better ask him a million questions beforehand.

But it's never just a non-reciprocal thing, at least for me. It's always the client asking can I do this, can I do that, and they'll even keep coming and try to push the boundary more and more. I'm sure some people must get off on doing that, and I get off on telling them to F off and blocking their numbers.

It must be bad across the board for several reasons. I've had female providers reach out to me asking for advice.

I had a client recently that smelled like sweaty ass paste. It wasn't really his fault, but I guess it was a long work day for him and I just didn't think of offering him a shower. It was such a huge turn off, but also, there wasn't any expectation to do anything either. He kept trying to initiate something and I didn't have the heart to tell him. Also, I hadn't seen him in 5 years and I hate it when old clients show up like that and assume sparks would fly or something. The worst is when they have bits of toilet paper or even whole sheets of it stuck between their cheeks. 9/10 hotel clients will have that or smell like they just did #2. It's extremely gross and rude because they had more than enough time to just jump in the shower by the time I tell them I am nearby and I have to walk my ass through the parking lot to their rooms, and we chat and I know they've been there for a while, not like they were in a meeting or serious phone call the whole time.

No, and you know it.

It's absurd and ironic that we can't even discuss politics, war, and religion here. Oh the irony of celebrating Memorial Day!

These guys say no to giving me a heads up, they keep asking to just drop by and walk in. Maybe they're that closeted and paranoid that they are afraid thay they'll be set up and outted beforehand? 🤷‍♂️

Because they argue.

I've been getting requests and getting into arguments with prospective clients that ask to just "walk in." They don't want to set an appointment beforehand or even message, they want to just walk in at anytime, as if I'm operating a walk-in spa with a lobby for them to wait in, and I'm supposed to be ready at anytime, or perhaps they expect some @$$ up face down type of thing, or if I'm with a client, they expect to just "walk in" and watch. I can't get over this. Do people actually work like that?

I just learned that masseurfinder accounts can advertise on massagefinder for free, so take your shot.

Basically an escort but without escort prices. I joke that people think we're budget prostitutes because an erotic massage with extras may sound nicer and have less stigma than intentionally hiring for sex. There were clients I genuinely liked and I knew they mainly came to me for fun, so I played along because it was mutually beneficial until I got bored of them, or when they eventually asked to hang out and/or get taken care of for free. 😎