Vulgarii

No, and you know it.

It's absurd and ironic that we can't even discuss politics, war, and religion here. Oh the irony of celebrating Memorial Day!

These guys say no to giving me a heads up, they keep asking to just drop by and walk in. Maybe they're that closeted and paranoid that they are afraid thay they'll be set up and outted beforehand? 🤷‍♂️

Because they argue.

I've been getting requests and getting into arguments with prospective clients that ask to just "walk in." They don't want to set an appointment beforehand or even message, they want to just walk in at anytime, as if I'm operating a walk-in spa with a lobby for them to wait in, and I'm supposed to be ready at anytime, or perhaps they expect some @$$ up face down type of thing, or if I'm with a client, they expect to just "walk in" and watch. I can't get over this. Do people actually work like that?

I just learned that masseurfinder accounts can advertise on massagefinder for free, so take your shot.

Basically an escort but without escort prices. I joke that people think we're budget prostitutes because an erotic massage with extras may sound nicer and have less stigma than intentionally hiring for sex. There were clients I genuinely liked and I knew they mainly came to me for fun, so I played along because it was mutually beneficial until I got bored of them, or when they eventually asked to hang out and/or get taken care of for free. 😎

Says who and where? For escorting or for a therapeutic massage? $160 for 90 mins is normal but still high for an at home masseur.

$160 is low in today's economy? Anything higher and he's going to work much less and clients will assume he provides a lot more than massage.

It's really hard to say. I would bring him some alcohol, or ask if it would help. 🥃🍸 Most clients I am not attracted to and cannot be sensual with them no matter what. Then there's attractive clients but there's no chemistry, there's some energy barrier and no matter what I just can't interact with them that way. Some I might feel more comfortable with the next time around, but you never know. I personally don't care if the client is disappointed about the lack of eroticism because I didn't advertise myself like that, and nothing was asked beforehand. So the client still got a great massage for a great price and left feeling better, so it's not like they were robbed or scammed. 👍

Are you White though? It's not a surprise if you moved to an area with more Asians and "became popular" as they are very open about preferring White men and women. I always found it funny that Asian individuals will talk about exclusion but they are the only ones besides whites that will still write on their grindr or hookup ads "whites only/whites A++++/whites to the front." ...yet if a white person wrote that or if anyone else said no this or no that, they would scream racism and bloody murder.

He was "one of the largest individual donors to AIPAC."

I'm not happy with what he donated to, but it's his culture so whatever. A lot of people are celebrating this and hope that the platform is bought out and/or goes down, but the platform will still be up, as well as others like it. People like myself chose to be on it and pursue that line of "work" or entertainment, and it doesn't matter who owns it nor what the platform is, because we will find a way to showcase and sell the merchandise one way or another.

I love what the great lesbian professor Camille Paglia has to say about gay men. That we appreciate youth and beauty because they are so fragile and temporary. Women think it's primarily how they look but as males, we innately know, and can subconsciously smell that they're older, infertile/or not young enough anymore for getting pregnant and bringing babies to term, and unless they're a widow they might be a little cookoo too if they're so old and single. Ouch! It is what it is. This is millions of years of evolution. We are never going to change.

I think part of it too is the resentment a lot of us feel due to how we were hounded by older men before we even turned 18. Females my age are now complaining that they're invisible and can't date, so the gays are like that but in Turbo mode times ten.