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Seems like you already noticed his dental situation. Why the need to examine it further? Don't waste his time or mislead him. If you don't like him, you don't like him, a deal breaker is a deal breaker, for whatever reason.

Seems like you already noticed his dental situation. Why the need to examine it further? Don't waste his time or mislead him. If you don't like him, you don't like him, a deal breaker is a deal breaker, for whatever reason.

Seems like you already noticed his dental situation. Why the need to examine it further? Don't waste his time or mislead him. If you don't like him, you don't like him, a deal breaker is a deal breaker, for whatever reason.

Seems like you already noticed his dental situation. Why the need to examine it further? Don't waste his time or mislead him. If you don't like him, you don't like him, a deal breaker is a deal breaker, for whatever reason.

Seems like you already noticed his dental situation. Why the need to examine it further? Don't waste his time or mislead him. If you don't like him, you don't like him, a deal breaker is a deal breaker, for whatever reason.

You really have to be quite stupid or quite narcissistic to think that you can control other people's REALITY. So you want me to say that I had bad experiences in NYC when I didn't, simply because you don't like hearing it.
Sure, I can clearly see who's living in fantasy land.

Sure, becaue you are the center of the universe and life in the entire planet revolves around you, your experiences and only your experiences, right?
WTF is wrong with people.
 

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Sure, becaue you are the center of the universe and life in the entire planet revolves around you, your experiences and only your experiences, right?
WTF is wrong with people.
 

I have to agree, not only are there many choices for all tastes, but to my surprise, I have never had a bad experience with a provider in NYC. I visit NYC about once every 3 months, and many times I treat myself.
I recommend it.

Technically yes, but that's something that's best handled privately. This forum has private messaging. You can use it to reach out to people here.

Technically yes, but that's something that's best handled privately. This forum has private messaging. You can use it to reach out to people here.

Technically yes, but that's something that's best handled privately. This forum has private messaging. You can use it to reach out to people here.

Yes, though its best to privately message individuals who have seen the individual, for both your privacy and for the sake of not mentioning dollar amounts.

Yes it’s not Wendy’s. What happens is clients would book the cuddle and hand job session but then expect to fuck bareback just because they got more horny in the moment. Then it gets awkward…mid session negotiations on extra services. I’m not going to up sell in a session nor do I want to negotiate extra services mid session. It kills the whole thing. Pay his rate and do whatever you’re comfortable with within the boundaries of his services. 

Sir, this is not a Wendy's.

Hey guys!
I have been coming to this site for about a year, but didn't make a profile till last week. I have really appreciated the reviews, and want to add what I can...
I have seen Rosario a couple times, and had actually gone to him before I found this site.
He it's a skilled massage therapist, has great energy, and a great smile! I honestly don't think his pictures do him justice.
He put me at ease right away. The conversation was easy when I felt like talking, but it was also a comfortable silence when I didn't. 
I know getting to his place is a but of a trek, but I definitely think he's worth it!

I had a great massage from him last year, technically and sensually, but—I have to laugh, cuz it is unique in my experience—when we were dressed and having a nice chat after it was over, he told me that he would like to see me again but to wait a while because it was better to have some time between sessions. I didn’t know what to make of that.

Child I was so damn confused. I put Rosario in the search bar and started reading but not comprehending. It just did not make any sense all this talk about Hollywood and Netflix. Then I realized I was reading about Rosario Dawson the actress. And personally I don't need MT with Miss Dawson. 

I went to Rosario last week. Great massage - very professional and therapeutic.  There was no MT but there was a HE.  He told me he worked as a masseur at Living Fresh until it closed. Hands down one of the best massages I’ve ever had at a provider’s place. If you really want a great massage and not expect too much more, he’s excellent. I will repeat. 

Mental Illness is assuming others care about your whims and needs. Or youR attitudes or views. I personally don’t care how long a post is. I’m not affected. Thus the question is why people who are strangers be bound to adhere to whatever subjective whim or expectation you hold. 

There’s WhatsApp and Telegram groups that I’m in which are provider only (and venting does happen in there!!!) plus I’m friends with other sex workers and we talk about common challenges. Sometimes though one wants to speak to a wider audience, especially an audience that is interested in the work and that buys the services. 

You make an accurate point. However, it’s hard to tell whether the “restaurant” is the escort advertising, or the advertising platform itself. I’m leaning on the fact that it’s moreso the advertising platforms themselves that go out of fashion, versus the individual escort (as we’ve seen over the years with Men4rent, Backpage, HourBoy, Rentboy, Adam4Adam, etc ).
I recently spent 2 weeks in a city going to the bars almost every other night. I can definitely say I haven’t lost my edge, considering all the compliments and phone numbers I was getting. But the issue is; the sex work game online is very different these days. It’s ultra packed, everybody and their brother is trying to be a content creator. And I can almost imagine certain Rent Men ads are just trying to drive content sales versus being escorts.
 
But you do. You do need to know. Because so many clients contacting from RM (and you guys here on the forum) make assumptions about what I’m doing, what city I’m in, how many clients I’m seeing, what time of day I’m cumming, cross examining why I need more than 1 hours notice to meet etc etc.
So if anyone is going to assume, it’s probably a good idea to first understand what’s actually going on. And unfortunately, the RentMen platform does bare minimum to direct clients on how to make plans with an escort in a way that’s conducive and not counterproductive. Therein lies my job, which I try to convey on the 350 characters allowed in my auto reply/my website/my text introductory message: which apparently some guys seem to “ignore and move on”, thus remaining IGNORant. 
 
 
You really think all this can be accurately solved in 2 sentences 😂 You can always read other material if this is too advanced level for you. Here’s the door  🥾 🚪 
 

Well said 👏🏽 
And it’s about more than venting. Like I said above, these things aren’t being facilitated on our ads. The stuff I talk about here, I can’t have in a discussion with a client. I’m not embarrassed or shamed to talk about it here. It’s a forum, with clients and escorts participating. We should all be adult and mature enough to talk about it without feeling dismissed or put down.
And yes, I understand it can be long winded and not sexy to talk about sometimes but: that’s the reality. People want to act like everything is peachy creamy, and it is at times BUT, it’s currently not.
I just got back from a 2 week trip, meaning away from home. I only had 2 clients and 2 “promotionals” (I say because I accepted 2 offers from folks on a hookup app, but it was not my actual rate. But, it was preferable to meeting for free).
 
However, 2 clients in 2 weeks is completely unacceptable. Meanwhile, I was sifting thru inquiry after inquiry on the RentMen messenger, texts from MoFos who stopped replying or flaked out, people offering impossible rates (like $100).
It’s a mess out here in many cities. That’s why now, I don’t go anywhere without confirmed bookings. And like I told @Colton, people do need to understand that if I don’t advertise ahead of arriving to a city, I am not willing to take the risk to just “show up”. People see my ad in a city the moment I move it there, and think “oh you’re here now?” I’ve traveled all over the country (US) and know from experience it’s never wise to go to a city with no planning, and hoping for clients to show up. Because it’s too many other escorts in the industry these days, and most clients have no idea about pricing.
And closing of Craigslist back in 2010, there used to be an understanding that sites like Rentboy and Men4Rent had more upscale priced providers. Now, it seems anybody and everybody is on it and half the time they have no idea that $150/$200 doesn’t work for every appointment 16 years later. 

I was just trying to help. His posts are very hard to read, and I doubt I'm the only one who skips them. We all read War and Peace, we don't need a daily sequel.

I guess this forum can be a double-edged sword. There isn't exactly a place where providers can get together and vent, and compare notes, free from clients. 
Same for clients.
No matter your line of work,  if you post something about the hardships of your job and complain about something your clients do, someplace your clients can see it, it obviously won't go over well with some of them. This is doubly true when you are charging an hourly rate similar to or higher than an attorney.
Stack onto that the fact that many  of the clientelle are on fixed or retirement income, and it becomes contentious. 
Maybe we need an area for providers to complain about cheap clients, time wasters, expensive travel, and expensive hotels, and another area for clients to complain about overpriced providers, scammers, and providers not being as advertised...and never the twain shall meet.