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I’m ran into quite a few providers who list kissing as something they are into, but when we meet then they don’t kiss or it’s very dry. Now I ask a head of time even if it’s listed, but the last guy told me he hated kissing when I asked. I was thinking to myself would it be rude for me to ask then why did you list it as something you are into? I decided to meet him anyways despite of it and he did spend a lot of time kissing passionately. Is it a turn off to providers if you question them? Would they think you’re a difficult client to start off a meeting? 

I don't think "addiction" is the correct word to describe the times when I feel I can't get enough. In my case it's more like a binge of sort that stops at some point. After my initial first binge I've never been so actively hiring. I do hire but within reason and within my resources.
I've never allowed hiring or providers interfere with my life, my family, my work or any other aspect of my life. I understand that one of the aspects of addiction is that it takes over people's lives, and fortunately, that's never been the case with me. My position is that for as long as it doesn't interfere with anything in my life, it's not an addiction, nor is it a concern of any kind.
In fact, self-care was the original reason why I started hiring.

Last year I went to Oaxaca, Mexico, with the expectation that the place is like the cities in the coast or Mexico city. It turned out to be quite conservative and, though interesting in terms of culture, architecture and things to do, gay life seemed more like an afterthought. The availability of providers in the area was limited and not the best quality, especially in terms of safety. The experiences weren't terrible, but they were the least satisfying of the year. Guys I hired there were not the best providers.

"Binge" to me means hiring more than one person a week.
I have a line item in my budget specifically for this hobby. Nothing in the line item, no hiring. One area where my relationship with money helps.

I’m not addicted. I usually wait at least 15 minutes into my current session before I start scheduling the next one for later that morning.

I am in that camp as well!  I still like to go on binges though!  So fun to meet new fellas and the excitement of the first meet up!  
It’s not an addiction but more of an adventure!  

I’ve tapered off after a number of years, but I still like to binge occasionally. Fortunately I have three regulars who provide me with plenty of erotic satisfaction.

I have mixed feeling about this topic. On one hand, I always wonder what my Mr. Number says about me, if anything at all. On the other hand, I have no reasons to believe that there might be anything negative said about me. I am for real, responsible, clean, a good tipper, respectful and punctual, so for all practical purposes I shouldn't need to worry about bad things said about me. The only less than ideal experiences I've had have been on the provider side's, mostly shady practices, like unprofessional behavior, inadequate facilities and being recorded without my permission.
Overall, if one is a good client, one should expect to have a good reputation.

I don't think "addiction" is the correct word to describe the times when I feel I can't get enough. In my case it's more like a binge of sort that stops at some point. After my initial first binge I've never been so actively hiring. I do hire but within reason and within my resources.
I've never allowed hiring or providers interfere with my life, my family, my work or any other aspect of my life. I understand that one of the aspects of addiction is that it takes over people's lives, and fortunately, that's never been the case with me. My position is that for as long as it doesn't interfere with anything in my life, it's not an addiction, nor is it a concern of any kind.
In fact, self-care was the original reason why I started hiring.

I don't think "addiction" is the correct word to describe the times when I feel I can't get enough. In my case it's more like a binge of sort that stops at some point. After my initial first binge I've never been so actively hiring. I do hire but within reason and within my resources.
I've never allowed hiring or providers interfere with my life, my family, my work or any other aspect of my life. I understand that one of the aspects of addiction is that it takes over people's lives, and fortunately, that's never been the case with me. My position is that for as long as it doesn't interfere with anything in my life, it's not an addiction, nor is it a concern of any kind.
In fact, self-care was the original reason why I started hiring.

I don't think "addiction" is the correct word to describe the times when I feel I can't get enough. In my case it's more like a binge of sort that stops at some point. After my initial first binge I've never been so actively hiring. I do hire but within reason and within my resources.
I've never allowed hiring or providers interfere with my life, my family, my work or any other aspect of my life. I understand that one of the aspects of addiction is that it takes over people's lives, and fortunately, that's never been the case with me. My position is that for as long as it doesn't interfere with anything in my life, it's not an addiction, nor is it a concern of any kind.
In fact, self-care was the original reason why I started hiring.

I don't think "addiction" is the correct word to describe the times when I feel I can't get enough. In my case it's more like a binge of sort that stops at some point. After my initial first binge I've never been so actively hiring. I do hire but within reason and within my resources.
I've never allowed hiring or providers interfere with my life, my family, my work or any other aspect of my life. I understand that one of the aspects of addiction is that it takes over people's lives, and fortunately, that's never been the case with me. My position is that for as long as it doesn't interfere with anything in my life, it's not an addiction, nor is it a concern of any kind.
In fact, self-care was the original reason why I started hiring.

I don't think "addiction" is the correct word to describe the times when I feel I can't get enough. In my case it's more like a binge of sort that stops at some point. After my initial first binge I've never been so actively hiring. I do hire but within reason and within my resources.
I've never allowed hiring or providers interfere with my life, my family, my work or any other aspect of my life. I understand that one of the aspects of addiction is that it takes over people's lives, and fortunately, that's never been the case with me. My position is that for as long as it doesn't interfere with anything in my life, it's not an addiction, nor is it a concern of any kind.
In fact, self-care was the original reason why I started hiring.

I don't think "addiction" is the correct word to describe the times when I feel I can't get enough. In my case it's more like a binge of sort that stops at some point. After my initial first binge I've never been so actively hiring. I do hire but within reason and within my resources.
I've never allowed hiring or providers interfere with my life, my family, my work or any other aspect of my life. I understand that one of the aspects of addiction is that it takes over people's lives, and fortunately, that's never been the case with me. My position is that for as long as it doesn't interfere with anything in my life, it's not an addiction, nor is it a concern of any kind.
In fact, self-care was the original reason why I started hiring.

I don't think "addiction" is the correct word to describe the times when I feel I can't get enough. In my case it's more like a binge of sort that stops at some point. After my initial first binge I've never been so actively hiring. I do hire but within reason and within my resources.
I've never allowed hiring or providers interfere with my life, my family, my work or any other aspect of my life. I understand that one of the aspects of addiction is that it takes over people's lives, and fortunately, that's never been the case with me. My position is that for as long as it doesn't interfere with anything in my life, it's not an addiction, nor is it a concern of any kind.
In fact, self-care was the original reason why I started hiring.

I don't think "addiction" is the correct word to describe the times when I feel I can't get enough. In my case it's more like a binge of sort that stops at some point. After my initial first binge I've never been so actively hiring. I do hire but within reason and within my resources.
I've never allowed hiring or providers interfere with my life, my family, my work or any other aspect of my life. I understand that one of the aspects of addiction is that it takes over people's lives, and fortunately, that's never been the case with me. My position is that for as long as it doesn't interfere with anything in my life, it's not an addiction, nor is it a concern of any kind.
In fact, self-care was the original reason why I started hiring.

I don't think "addiction" is the correct word to describe the times when I feel I can't get enough. In my case it's more like a binge of sort that stops at some point. After my initial first binge I've never been so actively hiring. I do hire but within reason and within my resources.
I've never allowed hiring or providers interfere with my life, my family, my work or any other aspect of my life. I understand that one of the aspects of addiction is that it takes over people's lives, and fortunately, that's never been the case with me. My position is that for as long as it doesn't interfere with anything in my life, it's not an addiction, nor is it a concern of any kind.
In fact, self-care was the original reason why I started hiring.

I periodically have mentioned here in the forum that, on the rare occasion that I meet with a new person, I'll write down all the particulars about him on a piece of paper and leave it on the floor in the middle of my living room........that way, when my friends break down my door after a few days of no text or phone answers, they'll know who killed me...... 

Actually, in my experience as a client, there have been providers who change (or have attempted to) their rates after booking, claiming that they "forgot to update my profile". Happened to me twice with masseurs. Considering that, it might be annoying to those who maintain their rates up-to-date, but to me as a client is a valid question. However, I don't ask "what is your rate", I make a statement like: "just to verify, it is $XXX for X amount of time, correct?". That shows that I am aware of what the profile says.
The reality is that this type of work is prone to "misleading" information, so confirming everything is how I protect myself and my money.
May I ask, is that a big bother to you and if so, why?

Actually, in my experience as a client, there have been providers who change (or have attempted to) their rates after booking, claiming that they "forgot to update my profile". Happened to me twice with masseurs. Considering that, it might be annoying to those who maintain their rates up-to-date, but to me as a client is a valid question. However, I don't ask "what is your rate", I make a statement like: "just to verify, it is $XXX for X amount of time, correct?". That shows that I am aware of what the profile says.
The reality is that this type of work is prone to "misleading" information, so confirming everything is how I protect myself and my money.
May I ask, is that a big bother to you and if so, why?

Not sure I get what you mean, but no. Below are pictures from the website. For some reason they don't show face, except for the hottest of the three.

Personally, I can get a good sense of you and your looks, as well as the way you look now with your current pictures. Professional pictures definitely enhance your image, but personally, all I need dis to have a sense of how you look, and how you look now.
Hopefully you don't decide to photoshop things to the point that they look unrealistic or misleading. Go for it.

Not sure I get what you mean, but no. Below are pictures from the website. For some reason they don't show face, except for the hottest of the three.

Most of the cashiers I deal with in my city are these nasty overweight black women that look as miserable as their ridiculous wigs.
So, no. I don't have a favorite cashier.

Selfies taken in the bathroom mirror with the phone clearly visible are pretty standard and boring.  Professional photos that look natural and inviting might make you stand out.