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No upset here man - yeah, those are all options. Anything can change at any time. I'm pretty anti-marriage for myself, philosophically, but my partner and I tied the knot earlier this year because you can't manufacture all the legal and financial protections in any other way. But a good lawyer and financial planner will get you 75% of the way there.

Is that this guy? https://rent.men/Shawnnbrooks

Love!

Yes. Thank you. Though the negative feelings around that word still exist for many people, and they shouldn't have to identify as such, even if their friends and community members do. I'm not sure what you're trying to get across here, but it doesn't feel like your intent is productive. I appreciate @francisssgorg call to be kind to folks of all identities, even ones you might not understand or resonate with.

A close family member of mine has made it very clear that my sister and I will inherit his assets upon his death (except for his current home, which will go to his live-in partner, who he's committed to but not legally married to). We've seen the will, it's all there in black and white. Given his health conditions, it's unlikely that he'll live past the next ten years. It's enough money to make a material difference to when, and/or how comfortably, my partner and I could retire. My sister is counting on that money for her kids' eventual secondary education, and I've told her multiple I think she needs a backup plan. A lot of my financial anxiety would be relieved if I could 100% know that money would be in my bank account one day. And yet... He could live until he's 100, upending my sister's plans He could change his mind about asset allocation for whatever reason, and either inform us or not The remainder of his life could whittle down his assets significantly He's invested in pretty stable stuff, but in this economy, who the hell knows. If I were heavily invested in the stock market and was close to retirement age, I'd be freaking out. Totally agree with sync. When it comes to other people's money, expect the worst (inheritance can cost people more time and money than it's worth, even if you do have generational resources), and be pleasantly surprised if your life improves.

Would love to find a provider that's into this (being the tickler). Does anyone have any experience or knowledge? Of course local to Denver would be great, but would interested in talking with any provider about it!

Bump!

Bump. Now in Denver. Anyone have any experience?

Following!

This is awesome, man. Would you be willing to share the profiles of the providers you met with? No worries if not, but it's always helpful to know which providers might be more accommodating than others!

I've never met up with him, but we chatted over RM a few years back - seemed nice enough. Was considering reaching out to him again, but yeah, the out of date profile is not a great start.

Will be in Denver soon. What were the sensual elements like? Thanks! @jdjd46 @GeminiCA @DwebsterSB

@fromeastnowwest If you end up seeing him, let us know how it goes!

Now in Denver? There were two earlier threads on him that have since expired. No one on those threads had any in person experience. Anyone taken the plunge? https://rent.men/JohnJohnnay Also does massage: https://rentmasseur.com/Sawsoe

Is that from Early Edition? A gay awakening moment for me for sure in that show. I was probably 14-15 yo when it started airing? I wonder if I can stream that somewhere!