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Thank you for your time and effort in posting the above - I always appreciate humour with an edge @Jamie21

I’d say first identify the area/s you would prefer, @Doe Be Doe. It’s not clear whether this is for your work or simply for pleasure. Personally I like the Upper East Side. It offers a great mix of culture, restaurants etc with easy access to both Midtown for theatre and the airports. But my preference is really based on years living there. Once you settle on an area, you might approach decent hotels to ask whether they’ll rent you a room for an extended stay (say 30 nights). They may be more flexible than a rental of a furnished apartment.

I’ve only had 2 similar experiences over the years. The first was a guy with whom I’d had 4 evening dates before. This time, he asked if he could stay overnight with me at my home. I clarified his intentions before I agreed. I showered before bed while he was showering in another bathroom. In bed, it quickly became clear that he’d ingested some substance he’d brought with him. I told him to get dressed and threw him out. The second was an Aussie guy who turned up at my Sydney hotel-room reeking of alcohol. When he asked for a drink, I lied and said I only had water. He was fairly drunk but he offered to suck me off and swallow my load. I came; he went. IMO @Nicedice you were sensible and got rid of him as quickly as you could.

It’s definitely not you @d.anders The venal desires and greed of minor celebrities is astounding. My guess is that they just doesn’t like to part with their own money. I do recall learning years ago that Cher had written a check for $10000 when Chaz asked to have a penis, and later Cher confirmed it. No jokes please on how many of us would like “to have a penis” but can’t get others to pay for it 😎

Communication of my desires was easy for me as I’m only a top. If pressed to say more, I’d add that I’m affectionate but I have a dominant streak and enjoy taking charge. I’d always express my needs by stating what I enjoy (kissing with tongue, sensual foreplay, mutual oral and topping with condom) as non-negotiable. Again if pressed, I’d add that I want a muscleboy to dress in sexy briefs or jockstrap and although it’s optional, I find it insanely hot when a guy worships my cock lovingly and swallows my load. I’d always be direct and state this before a first date. Being polite, I’d simply ask if we will be mutually compatible.

I know that tastes differ and everyone can be attractive to someone…but personally I’d never pay to hire him for a date. Looking back over two decades now, I dated some very handsome and beautifully built men…yet I found there was absolutely no correlation between price and pleasure on the dates.

In the past, whenever I had a great time with a man, I always sent a message afterwards expressing my appreciation and thanking him for the time we spent together. It was very nice if the man responded promptly and reciprocated my feelings. That often led to further dates. What was terrific was when the man messaged me first, typically on his way home, and made complimentary remarks about my skills as a top or our mutual chemistry. That always led to repeat engagements.

I’ve always heard that if you need company there, you better have imported your own companion. But since it’s a renowned (and expensive) vacation spot, I imagine that quite a few fit young men would want to accompany you in the season.

No, but definitely a fine vintage 😎

I really enjoyed the film but it is long (at about 2hours 40mins). I thought it was both very well-acted and a marvellous recreation of the 1970s, with insights into the stratification of Brazilian society. Being older, I recalled the military dictatorship in Brazil when ‘problems’ (or dissidents) were often solved (aka killed or disappeared) by the authorities (military and private vigilantes). The film is also very entertaining with considerable humour and occasionally shocking moments.

Very nice report @MJB May I ask what was his fee schedule for the time you spent together?

I remember him from years ago. Back then, he had a very good body (having recently been on the US gymnastics team IIRC). We had a very nice, vanilla date and I guess he would, in today’s parlance, be best described as a short king.

Bless you, @Charlie As long as you have a strong and comprehensive memory, you can (like me) reflect on and enjoy again the wonderful times you had in the past.

I agree. It’s fundamentally a question of trust. I had a boyfriend who was a model; he had a superb physique and travelled regularly for work. Whenever anyone at our gym asked me if I ever worried or was jealous about him having sex with others when away from home, I used a variation on this theme as my response: “he always comes home to me and to sleep in our bed”. Put simply, people lie and/or dissemble. The boyfriend I mention above made all the running in our relationship. He told others I was his boyfriend and he told me he loved me. We were living together for over 12 months before I found out that, apart from the modelling work, he was an ultra-discreet escort. We had a painful and tearful discussion, and we persevered. My advice to the OP would be to sit down and frankly discuss your concerns and fears. You should not assume anything. Ask about how you can safeguard your sexual health in future…and get fully tested now if you’re uncertain. Don’t be afraid to set boundaries (or ‘red lines’) if that’s what you want, eg no overnight dates with clients or certain events are sacrosanct and his presence with you is non-negotiable.

That would be an excellent extension to the offerings on Prime 😎