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I don’t want to be unkind @purplekow And I’m not being judgemental but this was a last minute hook-up with what turned out to be a near-neighbour. You stated you were “not particularly attracted to him”. Perhaps he felt the same about you. I think this was what used to be called a case of ‘ships passing in the night’. Don’t overthink this. There’s no etiquette attached here. When things don’t work out as you hoped, simply smile and say “Maybe another time…” and leave promptly.

I see you’re very new here @Jacob_b so welcome! I feel you’d get more responses from people if you provide some details & background. I suggest you set out your experience of hiring, what sort of man you like to meet, what you enjoy doing/having done to you etc. And people are more likely to be able to help you if you describe yourself. As a minimum, I suggest you say where you’re based in the US (or abroad) and where/when you’re aiming to have the BFE. You might also consider starting a separate thread in this section - something like ‘Looking for BFE with a jock 24-33 in Austin’ as this will covey the basics.

I was there in late June one year and there was plenty of snow. Definitely take your Winter gear/clothing. Bear in mind it’s a huge area. I only explored the northern part which is often referred to as ‘the Lake District’. We flew into Bariloche and drove from there. I was genuinely surprised at how vast it was. The developed areas seem to be like ribbons on a map and it’s very easy to go into deep wilderness that is regularly cut off in Winter.

I wasn’t making any observations about escorts in general or meaning any disrespect towards sex workers and clients. I merely observed that my ideal type (handsome young muscle-bottoms) don’t usually want old clients. When such guys think of older tops, they imagine them being 35-55. I’ve known various escorts socially through the gym. Over the years, I’ve heard several express their views on servicing old clients 70+. Of course, it is a business and most realise that older men with money can make reliable clients.

I stopped hiring years ago when I met my partner. He is an intelligent, kind, much younger man. if he were to die or break up with me, I might reconsider. I have the strong impression, however, that very few providers - who are my ideal type (handsome, young muscle-bottoms) - would want to offer their services to a man in his 70s.

I prefer guys with good bodies to wear sexy underwear. When I find a fit-bodied guy who’s happy to comply, I get him to model a range of briefs and jockstraps for me. I see it as part of good foreplay. I’ve found several guys who actually find it arousing as I do. Some guys have asked me if they can keep some underwear after a date, and I’m happy to oblige. A couple of guys I dated regularly got into the habit of calling me beforehand to ask me if I wanted them to wear a jockstrap and what colour I’d like to see on them.

Me too. I especially enjoy the second, third and fourth dates…as I can thoroughly explore a man’s muscled body, and so learn how best to put him to good, hard use 😜

I think all labels can be confusing. In my opinion, it’s always best to discuss with any individual what they will, and what they will not, do in bed. On a date with any guy, I aim to be polite. If I’m unsure if we’ll play well together, I simply state upfront what I enjoy. Then I check that our wishes/desires are compatible.

Regret I cannot help you with any current info….but historically San Diego has been a poor market with very few ‘professionals’ and very many transient ‘amateurs’ who wanted support and a bed for the night. Years ago, pre-Covid, when I visited La Jolla often (after living in Point Loma, San Diego), I always found I had to reach out to guys in LA and Orange County who were prepared to travel for an overnight date. Then I used to offer them a good dinner of their choice and $1000-1200. When I wanted to repeat with a good guy, I’d offer $2500 for a weekend date. I’ll be interested to read what replies you get on the current situation.

Thank you for your time and effort in posting the above - I always appreciate humour with an edge @Jamie21

I’d say first identify the area/s you would prefer, @Doe Be Doe. It’s not clear whether this is for your work or simply for pleasure. Personally I like the Upper East Side. It offers a great mix of culture, restaurants etc with easy access to both Midtown for theatre and the airports. But my preference is really based on years living there. Once you settle on an area, you might approach decent hotels to ask whether they’ll rent you a room for an extended stay (say 30 nights). They may be more flexible than a rental of a furnished apartment.

I’ve only had 2 similar experiences over the years. The first was a guy with whom I’d had 4 evening dates before. This time, he asked if he could stay overnight with me at my home. I clarified his intentions before I agreed. I showered before bed while he was showering in another bathroom. In bed, it quickly became clear that he’d ingested some substance he’d brought with him. I told him to get dressed and threw him out. The second was an Aussie guy who turned up at my Sydney hotel-room reeking of alcohol. When he asked for a drink, I lied and said I only had water. He was fairly drunk but he offered to suck me off and swallow my load. I came; he went. IMO @Nicedice you were sensible and got rid of him as quickly as you could.

It’s definitely not you @d.anders The venal desires and greed of minor celebrities is astounding. My guess is that they just doesn’t like to part with their own money. I do recall learning years ago that Cher had written a check for $10000 when Chaz asked to have a penis, and later Cher confirmed it. No jokes please on how many of us would like “to have a penis” but can’t get others to pay for it 😎

Communication of my desires was easy for me as I’m only a top. If pressed to say more, I’d add that I’m affectionate but I have a dominant streak and enjoy taking charge. I’d always express my needs by stating what I enjoy (kissing with tongue, sensual foreplay, mutual oral and topping with condom) as non-negotiable. Again if pressed, I’d add that I want a muscleboy to dress in sexy briefs or jockstrap and although it’s optional, I find it insanely hot when a guy worships my cock lovingly and swallows my load. I’d always be direct and state this before a first date. Being polite, I’d simply ask if we will be mutually compatible.

I know that tastes differ and everyone can be attractive to someone…but personally I’d never pay to hire him for a date. Looking back over two decades now, I dated some very handsome and beautifully built men…yet I found there was absolutely no correlation between price and pleasure on the dates.