jackcali

I agree that seeing providers who host reduces the frequency of these problems. What I've discovered from providers who use Dayuse is that there is an option (or maybe it's limited to certain hotels) for not paying when you book the room (or paying a nominal $10) but paying only if you check in. I've met providers on the street in front of the hotel to confirm we're both there before checking in.

As everyone says, it depends on the circumstances. If the provider is hosting and his place isn't that far from my home or my office (if I'm coming from there) or in a decent part of town (so I can do some window shopping or visit a museum), I don't mind a delay of 30 minutes or an hour. I have been burned, though, by the 30 minute delay followed by another 30 minute delay followed by another, so now when the provider says "can we start 30 minutes later" I ask "is 30 minutes enough or do you need more time?" If they say they need an hour, I'm fine with that, but if they ask for more time at the end of the 30-minute delay, I bail. I might schedule with them again in the future, but not that day.

I've been enjoying this hobby for twenty years and I've never paid in any way other than by handing over a stack of bills (no envelope). The money has only ever been refused by Asian (not Asian-American) escorts. Some of them will accept the cash if I offer it with two hands (which I do regularly now in that situation) while others ask me to put it on the nightstand or a table rather than receive it directly. I am also puzzled by the OP's experience.

He (texastwunk) just joined on May 1. Maybe he's limiting his marketing to see what sort of interest he generates before he expands his pic offerings. His ad text is good and, while he looks good in his one pic, it's more of a teaser. If he's telling the truth and he has a day job, maybe he's also worried about too much exposure and won't go any further publicly. Let's let him play it out. He might be good or great at escorting or he might not. Time will tell.

I get them from the check-out cashiers at my supermarket! They print the receipt, circle the review website on it and ask me to leave them a review. Of course, during the trip home, I think about what I'm going to say about the experience. They efficiently scanned my purchases? They packed them appropriately, with the eggs on the top of the shopping bag? They told me to have a nice day as I left? It's ridiculous, but then I worry that in this data-driven world, their pay may be effected by whether and how I respond. So now I do the only thing I could think of. I go through the self-checkout line.

I was meeting a regular in LA years ago for an overnight, but he got stuck late at work and we missed our dinner reservation. I suggested he pick up In-N-Out burgers for us on the way over, which he did and which we ate cold between fucks. One of my favorite dinners ever.

For many years, I avoided hiring "pros' but sought out (on Craigslist and then Seeking) guys who were non-pros but who were looking for someone to help them out financially in exchange for sex. I quickly learned to identify and avoid guys who were desperate for money for the reasons DMonDude describes - constant pestering for more to deal with a never-ending series of "surprise" financial catastrophes -- the phone bill, the rent, tuition, all of which were totally foreseeable to a responsible person. I instead tried to meet up with guys with steady incomes that paid their basics but not much more. A little discretionary income made their lives a lot more enjoyable, and I was happy to provide it. With Craigslist long gone and Seeking kind of a mess, I decided to avoid wading through 'gen' postings (or even worse, trying to guess who might be interested in a gen older man) on grindr and sniffies. Now I just hire professionals off RM. I have no complaints about the change, but I do miss those innocent (if that's the right word) young men I met in the old days.

It does seem to be a race between Lithgow and Lane. Lithgow is fantastic in Giant, though I thought the play was a bit weak. Lane is an insider favorite (he's won three or four times) and I'm sure he's amazing in it. I couldn't bring myself to see it because I hate that play. I know, I know, it's the pinnacle of American dramaturgy, yada, yada. I still hate it! I am rooting for Lithgow because he's 80 years old and we won't see him on stage much longer. I know some of the more strident wokists are angry he's working on the HBO Harry Potter project, but i hope they don't hold that against him in the vote.

Client here. I tend to reach out to a potential hire a few days in advance and use the RM chat function to ask any questions about his ad (and ask to see private pics if he has them) and also to point him to my RM profile, which has a decent amount of information about me. That's easier than transmitting all that info via text. The issue, though, is that it sometimes takes an escort a few days to respond, by which time the window for hiring has passed. I'm guessing you won't get many same-day hires if you don't have a phone number. Good luck.

The biggest problem I have in this situation (which has occurred often in my decades of hiring) is figuring out if my regular provider is now just going through the motions or if I am just getting bored with that provider. Either way, I'll tell the provider (without assigning blame) that it's getting a little mechanical and we need to shake things up. if we can put it back together after another session or two, great. If we can't, I say goodbye.

Getting rid of the cat costumes is the one thing I've read about this show that I consider a positive.

Peace, Jamie. We are in violent agreement. Physical characteristics are objective realities that we cannot consciously disassociate from, but the ability to disregard and even to cast an aura of disbelief of those realities are wonderful skills in an escort. A great escort will, while we're together, make me feel younger or better looking than I am. That feeling only lasts until reality again intrudes (I have to look at myself in the mirror the next morning) but I'm fine with that. The temporary relief from reality is good enough, and it's really all one can hope for.

Feeling like the escort is enjoying the session is exactly what makes a great experience for a client like me, but I can sense that even though I know that the escort's ideal lover is not old, fat, ugly me. Learning an escort's preferences might be to the client's advantage. If I can accommodate those preferences, the escort might enjoy the session more and make that enjoyment more obvious to me.

It's to your credit that you have sympathy for someone who is in difficult circumstances. I've hired escorts in equivalent circumstances and, out of sympathy, sometimes do more for them because of it. I give them extra cash or I pay for several sessions in advance. Once, I paid for an escort to take a hotel room for a few nights so they had a place to stay during a deep freeze. As far as I know, all of them could have been exaggerating their poverty to manipulate me, but I believed them and, more important, they always held up their end of our bargain. I'm sorry this kid is in a bad situation, but however bad it was there was no reason he couldn't have shown up for the second day of the weekend hire.

I also need a face pic, both to see that the escort turns me on (and the face is the biggest driver of that) and that he's got something going on upstairs. I don't mean that he's intelligent (we're not going to discuss economic theory) but that he has an active mind that's present and engaged. A good face will make up for a good but not great body, while an awesome body won't make up for a vacant stare.