jackcali

I laugh sometimes after I come. More of a chuckle than a guffaw. I think it's just another form of tension relief.

If you call that a paunch, I can't imagine how you'd describe what's around my middle.

Ah, memories. I once almost got into a fistfight about how to pronounce 'endive'. A group of us twenty-somethings went out to dinner after several hours of pub-crawling. I was surprised that there was an endive salad on the menu of the pedestrian restaurant we had chosen (this was the 80s), and I said it the way you did (EN-dive). I was sneeringly corrected (with ON-deev) by someone in the group I absolutely hated. My response was "not in English, you pretentious so-and-so". He stood up from the table, I stood up from the table, but cooler heads calmed us down. To be honest, it probably wasn't the pronunciation that triggered the stand-off, it was the "so-and-so" part of my response, which was much more inflammatory than I produce here.

In my mind's eye, I always see a rough parity in height. I'm currently 5'9" and prefer men who are 5'7" to 6'0", though I've drifted both above and below that range with perfectly happy results.

It sounds like you're half-way into sex work already. I'm not familiar with Chaturbate, but there are plenty of guys on OnlyFans who are also on RentMen and who meet clients. (Some guys find clients through OnlyFans, but you have to be careful about that -- there are other threads discussing that.) Why not give it a try? A RentMen ad isn't that expensive and, at the very least, it might drive some traffic to your OnlyFans.

I've got no idea what you're doing now, but do you have to jump back into escorting with both feet? Why not discreetly make yourself available to see what the market is like in your area? As others have said, to be successful, you'll need to rely on a few regular clients. Start by looking for a couple of those before you quit your day job.

I think this is true within reason. Pictures are two-dimensional and escorts are not. I think you can tell much more about a man's age from his body than from his face. A man can't avoid the changes to his metabolic and endocrine system that come from age. Decreases in testosterone and DHEA production, decreases in lean muscle mass relative to size, increased visceral fat even in lean men, are all happening as an evolutionary matter. Men can resist these changes and diminish their effect but can't eliminate them. To focus on one element particular to this hobby, does any of you think your dick worked the same at 40 as at 20? Not saying better or worse, but certainly different. And that's just the physical aspect. I've never had a conversation with a 40yo that was anything like a conversation with a 20yo, and vice versa. While I don't care about a few years discrepancy (everyone lies about their age), I would be upset to hire an escort I thought was 20 who turned out to be 40, just as I would be upset hiring a 20 year old who I thought was 40. In each case, I'm hiring a persona. I don't want a deceptive depiction of that persona by a significant lie about the escort's age.

Mazel tov, as they say in Ireland. In the grandchildren department more is always better, so don't overreact just because you want that bourbon. Why not just assume that four all you're getting, drink the bottle and, if thing 5 comes along, you have a perfect excuse to buy another bottle.

What are you waiting for? DRINK IT!!! Or invite me over and I'll help you.

I think Rami IS pretty much one-note, but Mr. Robot called for exactly that note and it made both the show and his performance very, very good. You should watch it if you're a fan of his. I don't think he deserved the Oscar for Bohemian Rhapsody (I think the Academy gave it to Freddie Mercury more than to Malek) and he looks the total lightweight standing opposite any of the actors in Oppenheimer or Russell Crowe in Nuremburg. He even made a weak Bond villain. But he does have that crazy look in his eye, which makes him watchable.

ChatGPT's answer doesn't really give any new leads on finding escorts, though Slixa has a collection of female escorts in most cities. We've discussed before the dodginess of MintBoys and Seeking, the difficulty of finding appropriate hires on Grindr and Sniffies, and that Craigslist and Backpage are shadows of what they once were, so other than through recommendations and private networks (including this site!), RentMen is the only real option in the US. If that's true, then the RM search function can do almost anything AI can do. If you have a type, you can enter his characteristics in the search and see what you get. If you don't like the results, you can fiddle with your inputs to see type-adjacent escorts in case one of them tickles your fancy. If I am thinking of hiring in a particular city, I can usually in a few minutes do a very effective search of escorts who appeal to me and deserve closer inspection, about 10% to 15% of the profiles. In that context, AI isn't the miraculous time saver it should be, especially when you think about how much info you have to give it to really know your type. Save AI for choosing stereo speakers and vacation planning. (I use it to help me repair broken appliances in my home.) Leave this hobby to your own devices.

To the OP: I've never received a blowjob from a toothless man, but it sounds from everyone else's testimonies that you're offering an unusual and amazing experience to the escort, however jaded he might be. I agree that you should alert the escort in advance (maybe tell him you have full dentures and would like to blow him with them out, but you can leave them in if he prefers) and then point him to this thread to show that he's in for a great experience if he's open-minded.

Any info about this new provider in NYC. https://rent.men/texastwunk He's only been on RM for two weeks, has only one pic and seems only to log into RM on the weekends, which might make sense given his day job. He was briefly discussed in the TwunksintheCity thread, but I think he's neither of those guys. Anyone tried to reach out to him or recognize him if he's a name-changer? I've sent him a message on RM, but haven't heard back. Maybe I'll hear back on the weekend. Any info would be appreciated.

So it looks like Texastwunk (https://rent.men/texastwunk), who this thread started with, is neither of the TwunksintheCity. I'm going to start a new thread on Texastwunk, since the TwunksintheCity have taken over this thread.

I agree that seeing providers who host reduces the frequency of these problems. What I've discovered from providers who use Dayuse is that there is an option (or maybe it's limited to certain hotels) for not paying when you book the room (or paying a nominal $10) but paying only if you check in. I've met providers on the street in front of the hotel to confirm we're both there before checking in.