jackcali

I agree that seeing providers who host reduces the frequency of these problems.  What I've discovered from providers who use Dayuse is that there is an option (or maybe it's limited to certain hotels) for not paying when you book the room (or paying a nominal $10) but paying only if you check in.  I've met providers on the street in front of the hotel to confirm we're both there before checking in.  

I agree that seeing providers who host reduces the frequency of these problems.  What I've discovered from providers who use Dayuse is that there is an option (or maybe it's limited to certain hotels) for not paying when you book the room (or paying a nominal $10) but paying only if you check in.  I've met providers on the street in front of the hotel to confirm we're both there before checking in.  

I agree that seeing providers who host reduces the frequency of these problems.  What I've discovered from providers who use Dayuse is that there is an option (or maybe it's limited to certain hotels) for not paying when you book the room (or paying a nominal $10) but paying only if you check in.  I've met providers on the street in front of the hotel to confirm we're both there before checking in.  

I notice this option is available on Dayuse for some hotels.  You initiate and finalize all payments at the point of check-in or just pay a nominal reservation fee in advance online.  The problem is: I am not a last-minute type of person, I cannot NOT plan ahead.  So unfortunately, your smart approach of meeting in front of the hotel won't work for me.

I agree that seeing providers who host reduces the frequency of these problems.  What I've discovered from providers who use Dayuse is that there is an option (or maybe it's limited to certain hotels) for not paying when you book the room (or paying a nominal $10) but paying only if you check in.  I've met providers on the street in front of the hotel to confirm we're both there before checking in.  

That's one of the reasons why I'm usually more reluctant to choose providers who cannot host and state they can do out-calls only.  Since I cannot host myself, it means I must book an overnight hotel room or find something on Dayuse, both of which become sunk costs.  If it's the former, I will be more tolerant of any delays; if it's the latter, there is a time limit to my availability.  Either way, it's a major psychological irritation and will likely reduce my inclination to repeat (even if the tardy provider eventually shows up and delivers as promised).
I prefer to go to their places as I somewhat feel like I have more control over the arrangement this way.  It's easier for me to bail out if I smell any irregularities.  I hate to wait for people to show up.  I'm more vulnerable to manipulations when I'm the one waiting.
To answer OP's question: a 30-minute delay with a semi-legitimate excuse is acceptable.  A 30-minute delay without any explanation is a true test of my patience and sanity -- I'll likely blacklist you for a very, very long time afterwards.

He (texastwunk) just joined on May 1.  Maybe he's limiting his marketing to see what sort of interest he generates before he expands his pic offerings.  His ad text is good and, while he looks good in his one pic, it's more of a teaser.  If he's telling the truth and he has a day job, maybe he's also worried about too much exposure and won't go any further publicly.  
Let's let him play it out.  He might be good or great at escorting or he might not.  Time will tell.  

So always schedule him for 15 minutes before you actually want him 😅

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As everyone says, it depends on the circumstances.  If the provider is hosting and his place isn't that far from my home or my office (if I'm coming from there) or in a decent part of town (so I can do some window shopping or visit a museum), I don't mind a delay of 30 minutes or an hour.  I have been burned, though, by the 30 minute delay followed by another 30 minute delay followed by another, so now when the provider says "can we start 30 minutes later" I ask "is 30 minutes enough or do you need more time?"  If they say they need an hour, I'm fine with that, but if they ask for more time at the end of the 30-minute delay, I bail.  I might schedule with them again in the future, but not that day.  

Well, let’s see who knows I hire:
- My husband knows -he also hires, and we share details-
- You, my fellow CoM members, know
- And, of course, the guys I hire know.
Wait…that is a lot of people (blush). And I thought I was a very private person. 🤷🏻‍♂️