Chien Andalou

I like them both. What I don’t like is a 6 who doesn’t charge accordingly.

I have my phone through my work, so I am very careful about what apps I load. I have never had a Grindr, Sniffies, Tinder, Bumble, etc account. Can anyone provide some guidance on how to actually procure services through these sites, particularly the web interface? (Not Bumble 🤮) I don’t care if the massage is lousy, so long as the dic is hot. It will remind me of the good old days on Craigslist.

Did you ever ask? From what you said, he works in a gay bar, is flirty, dresses in short shots or underwear, and has worked you as a customer to get massive tips. He knows he makes you wet. You gave him your number, but how is he to know whether your intention was to date or hire? What’s the harm in saying something like: “I understand “no” is a complete sentence, but I would absolutely love to hire you for some private time” or however you want to phrase it. (“I’d love for you to give me the tip next time, and the shaft.”) I guarantee you he has heard it before. And if you’re generally a nice guy, tip well, and take the rejection gracefully, he’s unlikely to be offended and he wants to keep the tips coming.

I read it that he was referring to cops, not to attorneys or judges. And I must agree with him.

I always pay in cash, and I usually fan it out when I put it down. That way that they can quickly eyeball the amount. If I tip, I might also say I put a little extra for you.

I have one to add: Answer the fucking question! I have three things I want to know up front: what do you charge, can you host, where are you located. How many times have I seen a 6 who thinks they deserve the same compensation as a 9? Let’s get that out of the way and save everybody’s time. (It’s not so much that I am cheap as I wouldn’t pay that much for YOU.) Whether they can host is self evident. And the location is so I know what it will take to meet them. Are they on a convenient transit line, or am I looking at an hour in the car and parking problems? Too often they gloss right over it and ask when I want to meet. That depends on your answer. If it’s like pulling teeth to get that information, it’s a non starter for me. How do you guys even get them to discuss what you want to do together?

I’m sure he meant second-tier markets (other than Rentmen or Rentmasseur), like Hunqz or Adam4Adam, not that he’s getting the escorts on resale. 😜

I’ll add when they go off on some xxx rant. I met Alex Volkov (still hot, but all roided out). He started swooning about Elon Musk and how wonderful he was. I was glad I had already cum, because I lost any remaining interest at that point. Between the cost and the steroids, I would only have seen him once anyway. But I wanted another shower to wash the xxx off. Edit: Remember no politics

I have done it for several guys. The first was a massage therapist whom I had been seeing for a while and had a bit of a crush on. He didn’t even ask; he just told me about the problems he was having. I dropped a check in the mail and told him it was a gift. I never asked him to pay me back, but we did start fucking on the table after that. Like most of the others here, I only give small amounts and ask them to apply it to future sessions. I’d rather have the sex than the money, or I wouldn’t have contacted them in the first place. It usually works out fine for everyone. One guy I was pretty certain was lying and wanted the money for drugs. I gave it to him anyway. He ghosted me, which I still think is stupid. He would have gotten a lot more out of me in the long run if he had simply made good.

I usually start taking my shoes off the moment I walk in the door. That tends to get the ball rolling for what is to come. I have to admit, my favorite, vanilla fetish is to have the provider open the door in just a robe or a towel wrapped around his waist. With just a tug, I can have him naked with his cock down my throat before the door has closed.

I have been hiring men for years. I always put away the valuables when I host, but I have never lost anything when I have met at the provider’s location. Not once, not even when I went to use the shower. There is always a risk, but my experience is that it is minimal.

Most providers in the US either state “safe only” in their ads or they offer raw. I personally believe the onus is on you to state it if you require specific conditions for you to perform any service. Does your ad copy state “bb costs more”? Because it should. And that way you (and your clients) can avoid any nasty surprises.

I have met him a couple of times, and I don’t get the hate. To start with, I think he’s very handsome with his bedroom eyes and natural swimmer’s body. His dick is massive. He was a hell of a lot of fun and open to a lot more than I ever anticipated. I recommend him to anyone who has been debating meeting him.

I met him a while back. Sweet guy, responsive, and reasonably priced. Pretty green eyes.

I also find it interesting when a guy posts more provocative photos in his masseur ad than escort. No dick in either, but his massage ad shows a lot of big basket in briefs. None of that is in evidence in his Rentmen ad.